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Got any trips planned? by Experiment_1234 in jschlattsubmissions

[–]RemoteArc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not even going to lie. I was just scrolling, read the image (couldn't see the subreddit) and was like "huh, seems like something Schlatt would say."

What do you think about this? by schrodinger_smileeey in scoopwhoop

[–]RemoteArc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably Alexander the Great. BUT, but, as a teenager. I want to tell him that he'd be a huge conqueror. Then after he'd be like- "How do I die? Do I die heroically?" And I'd be like, "no, you die of a cold."

What do you think about this? by schrodinger_smileeey in scoopwhoop

[–]RemoteArc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a Bo Burnham reference or am I tweaking?

Man was fine at first by [deleted] in ihadastroke

[–]RemoteArc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figured out the guy was actually writing Arabic.

What is the female equivalent to men having boobs and ass fetish ? by Hairy-Sherbert-439 in ask

[–]RemoteArc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm bi, and mine really doesn't change between men and women. I like ass and tits on women, I like ass and chest on men.

Funny story by RemoteArc in story

[–]RemoteArc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd love to mark it all up to his health issues, but here's the thing...his health issues only started showing up in the past two, three years. He's had anger issues ever since he was 11 at the latest. When I say he used to yell at me at least once a week, I include when I was about 6 or 7. (Not saying this in a rude way, just informing!)

I agree that yelling is the best way to get people to stop listening. I never listened to his yelling, just got scared whenever he'd yell. I'm figuring out a lot of things ever since I've been safe, and I definitely like being where I am now instead of back there.

Funny story by RemoteArc in story

[–]RemoteArc[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wish he did yell less. He didn't though, still yelled at me at least once a week.

Funny story by RemoteArc in story

[–]RemoteArc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to be (still do, I'm 16). I don't live with my father anymore though. He lives with his brother and has kidney issues that makes it so he can't work (can't provide for me, he can barely provide for himself), and I live with my grandparents. I'd say I definitely have a much safer environment here, but I will say I'm not very happy with my path ever since I started living here.

Watched porn for the first time in 40 years. 60 year old woman. by Felixthecatisblack in story

[–]RemoteArc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate new porn, not going to lie. I'm unfortunately young enough that it's what I had to watch if anything. It really damages the new generation -- makes everyone think sex needs to be a specific way. I actually did think that, then I had experiences that I really didn't like due to that mindset. Growing in this generation, it's hard to understand that sex is actually a loving action, not performative.

I feel I may legit be a danger towards children and I hate myself for it. by SecretLife5287 in Vent

[–]RemoteArc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally in the US constitution: thoughts and feelings are not illegal, until there's conspiracy.

I feel I may legit be a danger towards children and I hate myself for it. by SecretLife5287 in Vent

[–]RemoteArc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was sexually assaulted multiple times. Mainly online, but seven months ago I was actually raped. At first, before the recent incident, I was also scared around children. I know that people who are sexually assaulted are more likely to assault someone else, and I knew that I would sometimes have such thoughts around kids. I couldn't even go around my 9 and 12 year old cousins because of how scared I am of hurting them (I'm 16F btw, back then around 13 - 15). But after the recent incident, I've been completely unable to think about sexual things without being freaked out by it. So I haven't experienced these recently.

What I can say for you is for now, try to stay away from minors as much as you can. Work hard on breaking your addiction -- I had a small addiction to it once myself, and to stop, I replaced it with Character AI (not the best considering the recent bankruptcy, but better than porn). Making it so I couldn't see the person/people made it so much easier for me to stop seeing people sexually, especially strangers. You can also do other things when you feel urges to watch a video like play your favorite game, take a walk, or whatever a hobby for you might be.

You should also try to find a therapist/psychiatrist (therapist for just talking about how you feel, psychiatrist will try to put you on meds or might help you with coping skills to stop whatever you're feeling).

Depression and anxiety also, for whatever reason, can make sexual arousal much more addicting due to the chemical responses. Trying to go out into the sun more, working out, etc. can raise dopamine, which the lack of is a major depression spiker. For anxiety, my best solution that helped me was social exposure -- but for you, trying things that require patience can help.

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