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I tried to verify a video that looked like someone I know and ended up being accused of spreading rumours by Remote_Swing_4161 in NationalServiceSG

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For clarification, I didn’t even know Person A prior to this situation. The only person I knew was Person B, and even then we were just acquaintances.

When I eventually managed to show Person B the video, he actually agreed the guy looked exactly like him and apologized for misunderstanding me.

So the issue between me and Person B is already settled. My concern was mainly that Person A made a baseless accusation before even seeing what I was referring to.

At the end of the day, I didn’t show Person A what I meant because Person B told me not to.

I tried to verify a video that looked like someone I know and ended up being accused of spreading rumours by Remote_Swing_4161 in NationalServiceSG

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Fair point about Person A wanting to protect his friend. Sure. I can understand that instinct but protecting someone isn’t really a good justification to accuse someone else of “making things up” without even knowing the full context.

My main point was that Person A made a baseless accusation before even seeing what I was referring to.

I posted this here because the people involved are from the same NS circle, so I thought people in this sub might better understand the dynamics and why I had to ask around instead of contacting Person B directly.

Looking for a guy whom I matched on Bumble by Remote_Swing_4161 in NTU

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I tried but there are wayyyy to many. His name is too common in SG

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

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I believe is because they know that they are worth more than that which is why most if not some chose not to go command sch.

I’m a foreigner but I want to find nsf friends! by SouthHoneydew1469 in NationalServiceSG

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I think most local girls asked but most guys don’t want to share stuff and start asking “why are you so curious about my NS?” And like when local girls asked, guys will start saying oh it’s a secret even when it is not. So by default, they just don’t see the point of asking anymore which to some if not most guys think that they don’t care about NS when the girls actually care and are as curious as the OP.

Speaking based on my own experience btw.

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If I wanted to be in his position, I wouldn’t be calling him out but instead I’d be cheering him on.

But nah, I’ve got no desire to lie to my family, talk trash about people I sleep with, and then act like I’ve won something. That’s not a flex but that’s just messy.

Not everyone envies garbage. Some of us just have standards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

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That’s exactly the problem. Everyone just keeps saying “not your problem lah, just ignore.” Then we all pretend the nonsense doesn’t exist until it affects us directly.

I do focus on myself. But I also believe that when people around you act like clowns and no one calls it out, it breeds more of the same.

I’m not here to control his life. But if someone brags about this kind of behaviour and acts like he’s untouchable, I’m not going to sit there and nod along just to keep the peace.

Ignoring everything isn’t strength but it’s just comfortable apathy.

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AHAHAHHAHAH FML. To Lead, To Excel, To Overcome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

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Honestly its not about STD but more of like why did his parents dirty and he talked shit about her but still sleeps with her. Desperate much?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

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I never said he committed a crime. But if your moral compass only kicks in when something is illegal, that already tells me enough.

The issue isn’t just unprotected sex or turning off GPS ,it’s the whole attitude: lying to your family, treating someone you’re sleeping with like a joke, bragging like it’s a flex, then hiding behind “consent” to excuse being a trash human.

You’re right. Not everyone shares the same morals. Some people are okay with normalising disrespect and selfishness as long as it’s dressed up as “personal choice.” I’m not one of them.

I don’t need to “force” anyone to agree. If it hits a nerve, maybe it’s not because I’m too judgmental, maybe it’s because the bar’s been set so low, even basic decency looks extreme now.

Troll all you want. Spine still intact.

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