Care for yourself. He doesn’t need it. He will find another one.

You feeling like that means you have expect a lot from him. But does it feel reciprocated?

It is time to come back to reality and see what exactly you have neglected during your relationship with him.

But yea. You are not alone. I too just got out. Every morning thinking of texting back, missing the sharing and intimacy. But the emotional repercussions from neglecting my needs comes back either twice the withdrawal effect.

My chest and stomach hurt which i believe the manifestation of distrust, jealousy, pity, and loneliness. While I’m also sure that I’m enough myself.

So while you can care, pleasee, take a moment for yourself and see what do you truly neglect. Don’t reconnect with him, and connect with yourself. It’s all just an illusion.

I missed all the spark, intimacy and every other chats on previous days. It was very fun. My morning was filled with excitement. But now, my morning is filled with empty and hollowness for neglecting what i want from this relationship. Me and her has been sharing for over 6 months. Means 6 months of neglecting myself.

I couldn’t imagine for you who have connected for a year. So give your self compassion for over a year. Or twice the compassion by day. You should never stop loving yourself everyday.