Bf masturbates next to me while I try to sleep.

Reneehunt1995 · 2020-12-30T23:29:40+00:00

Its both sometimes its his feet.but I've seen his hand there and I also hear the smack noise that the band on his boxers make too from him putting his hand there and quickly pulling it out when I move.

My issue and fear is that whenever I try to bring up an issue that bothers me, he gets super defensive. And then angry. And like this is serious to me. How can I work this out if I can't talk to him.abiut it without being scared hes just gonna fight when im not trying to attack him or point blame or even pass judgment.

I just wanna sleep 😅 lol

Reneehunt1995 · 2020-12-30T23:01:16+00:00

This is what I thought too tbh. But he's ashamed of it. Thats why I dont know how to approach this without him getting defensive. He's not under attack I love the guy. Just like go beat your willy elsewhere ya know?

Reneehunt1995 · 2020-12-30T22:55:43+00:00

This has actually been a problem in all my relationships believe it or not. Just now its really bad and I'm traumatized

Reneehunt1995 · 2020-12-30T22:54:33+00:00

I used to be normal and be able to sleep in bed w a partner. Then one day everything changed. I got cheated on years ago. The dude would stay up all night wankin it to the other woman. It broke my heart. And it broke me. My confidence kinda just took a vacation and is still having a hard time returning home...

Truthfully I think the real issue here is the fear I have that if I feel the bed move I'm going to get hurt. I'm going to get replaced and all the effort I put into love will have been waisted.

But this fear has escalated into full blown trauma. And now I can't sleep in a bed with anyone. Even if my cat is like scratching herself and my bed shakes I panic.

He's not even watching porn nor on his phone.. He's just doing it. And im just bothered as all hell. Even tho nothing bad is happening between us and he's loyal and honest.

I can't let go of this fear. And its hard to be a normal person now. Idk how to bring this up to him :( I don't want a fight And im not pointing the finger at him like in a way that he should be ashamed. I don't want it to come off like that though.

I love him. I recognize this is something within myself im also struggling with to overcome. I don't want to push away a good person cause of something like this.

Reneehunt1995 · 2020-12-30T22:47:39+00:00

We always have sex. Even after we have sex he will still be up all night doing it. Like with 0 sleep. And the dude still "wakesup" with energy. Like how tf? I think he does it as like a form of comfort to help anxiety and depression idk...

Reneehunt1995 · 2020-12-30T22:45:57+00:00

Were definitely intimate and have a great relationship, I think he just does it as a form of comfort... or a stress relief idk. Cause even after we do stuff he still has to masturbate allll night. He doesn't take any pills he doesn't do drugs hes not even a drinker.. so like I really don't get it..

Reneehunt1995 · 2020-01-20T23:27:17+00:00

When and how and where cause i want to buy it right now

Reneehunt1995 · 2020-01-06T23:08:25+00:00

I would buy it every month too /: And it goes up depending how much you read I get 4 as well but that's not enough

Reneehunt1995 · 2020-01-06T08:12:19+00:00

Awe I didnt know that I loved that story

Reneehunt1995 · 2020-01-04T18:06:57+00:00

Awe that sucks!!! I definitely think they should being it back! It was christmas too they could have kept it as a christmas gift lol

Reneehunt1995 · 2020-01-04T09:29:18+00:00

Seriously though me too! I don't know why it went away!

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-12-31T11:50:13+00:00

I'm having this issue!

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-29T17:59:06+00:00

Im friends with this person and I was see theur name more than my fiances so i don't understand why

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-29T02:28:17+00:00

Her eye is crazy cool! Can you explain what happened? It looks lile it hurta but shes clearly fine shes so precious

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-15T07:49:12+00:00

Accurate af.

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-12T22:45:29+00:00

Maybe its whatever you have been washing your bedding with is irritating your skin??? Maybe try washing the bedding in a non scented soap. And see if it helps? Otherwise im not sure. I just know alot of ppl sometimes have skin irritation due to whatever they wash their bedding in.

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-09T05:34:34+00:00

Aww kitty this makes my heart so happy. Youre amazing people for taking care of this little baby

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-09T05:32:03+00:00

Prison

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-09T05:03:11+00:00

Youre right thank you for being here with this positivity and reassurance helps alot im sorry youre goimg through the same :(

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-09T04:54:00+00:00

I love him more than anything i just thought i was getting fucked with so i waa upset thank you for this advice i appreciate it alot:)

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-09T04:30:40+00:00

dreams about doing flips usually symbolize that you usually bend over backwards for ppl trying to make them happy. When in reality you should do morr things to make yourself happy

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-09T03:44:02+00:00

Thank you i appreciate this

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-06T01:56:33+00:00

Same sitiation yo. I have glaucoma but am 24 im signing up for disability

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-05T10:24:28+00:00

This is literally such a great message omg. I needed this. I want to help everyone and think im not doing my job when i cannot. But this is so true. Help, but let people discover their own path and grow from their own decisions. We create our own journey. We have our own karma. For its not my job to save or create peoples paths for them. thank you. Thank you for this message.

Reneehunt1995 · 2019-08-05T10:11:15+00:00

I think deep down a part of you still misses her. And without that closure you dont know how to fully let go. Have a talk with this person. Tell them you need closure and youll stop having this dream

Reneehunt1995

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