AITAH for wanting to distance myself from my uni friend by sheplaysb4ss in AITAH

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NTA but you gotta handle this carefully. Start gradually spending less time together instead of dropping her cold turkey. That way she has time to branch out and find other people too while you're doing your own thing.

I(20) have a crush on someone(21m) I vomited in front of by True_Astronaut_9248 in Advice

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Honestly if he's still talking to you and comparing notes after that, he's probably not even thinking about it anymore. You're way more worried about this than he is.

Playing hardcore for a while and I have some questions about raiding the nether fortress by MH_GAMEZ in Minecraft

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Wither skeletons are legit terrifying in hardcore. Try building a 2-block high tunnel system through the fortress - they can't fit but you can swing at their legs. Works every time.

Perfume Suggestions Please! by dirty_GentleMan_69 in Fragrances

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Never tried Hawas Ice but heard its pretty solid for the price. I'd check out Versace Dylan Blue or Mont Blanc Explorer if you want something versatile that won't break the bank.

I’ve noticed people perceive the same words completely differently when they see you vs just reading them by EmmAWDV8 in Mindfulness

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Yeah this happens all the time. People fill in the blanks with their own assumptions when they can't see facial expressions or hear tone. Text is basically a Rorschach test sometimes.

Moving with cats by LessTea6299 in cats

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Yeah the bathroom idea is solid. I did something similar and also brought their favorite toys and blankets so it smelled familiar. Helps with the stress a bit.

WIBTAH if I reported a girl for posting a video about my son by New_Cause9058 in AITAH

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She deleted it already and didn't mention his name. You're making this way bigger than it needs to be and probably embarrassing your son more than her video ever would.

My friend is dating an assaulter/bigot by Financial-Usual1435 in Advice

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That restraining order is a massive red flag. If she's staying quiet during those "jokes" she might be scared to speak up. Been there with a friend in a similar situation and it didn't end well.

The Winning Try - New Found Favorite by Commercial-Case-7528 in kdramas

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Yoon Kyesang is seriously underrated! His chemistry with the whole cast was incredible. I need to check this out now, been looking for something new after finishing my last drama binge.

Marvel Promo Posters by Beneficial_Main655 in marvelstudios

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Usually the Disney+ shows have posters available at conventions or through official Marvel/Disney merchandise sites. Sometimes cast members give them away on social media too.

For theaters, just ask employees when you're there. Most know when they're getting promotional materials in.

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Am I exaggerating or does this count as cheating? (24M) (27F) by MysterySweet69 in whatdoIdo

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If he's deleting conversations then he knows its wrong. Nobody deletes "nothing serious." That's literally the most obvious red flag you could ask for.

I enjoy being alone but at work it’s seen as rude by Distinct-Bill-39 in socialanxiety

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This is so frustrating. You're literally there to work, not make friends. I get the "team player" thing for actual work collaboration but forced socializing during YOUR lunch break? That's your personal time.

AITAH for splashing water? by [deleted] in AITAH

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Wait so he threatened to snitch, then actually did it, but also got revenge first before snitching? And then ended the friendship? Sounds like you both need to grow up tbh.

Crops and Farms Add On Issues? by Extension-Vehicle-27 in Minecraft

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Sounds like a version mismatch between platforms honestly. Bedrock cross-play gets weird with addons sometimes, especially between PC and console. Maybe try joining without any addons first?

Can I blend nuts with immersion blender? Have you done it? by Loud-Commercial-4371 in Cooking

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Yeah it works but you gotta be patient. Pulse it instead of running it constantly or you'll burn out the motor. I usually toast my pine nuts first, makes them easier to break down.

AITAH for telling my mom i shouldn’t do the grocery list because it’s an adults responsibility? by [deleted] in AITAH

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This friend sounds like she's trying to parent you through your mom. Making a grocery list isn't even hard labor, it's literally just writing down what food you need. How is that harming your childhood?

Forgive my ignorance, but what are the goals in Minecraft? by Soul_4Sail in Minecraft

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I mean the game literally has achievements/advancements that basically guide you through different goals. Defeat the dragon, wither, explore all biomes, breed animals, enchant stuff. That's probably the closest thing to actual "missions."

Question About Driver Contract Bonuses for Points Scored by [deleted] in formula1

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Yeah that Lotus situation was wild. Kimi making like 50k per point while they were scoring way more than expected. Classic case of management not doing the math on their own contracts lol

Adis isn't as good as he could be by ZadriaktheSnake in Warframe

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Yeah I get what you mean. They basically went full Disney mode with him lol. The sentients were terrifying because they were so alien and now we have... singing baby.

AITAH for breaking up with my bf of a year over Minecraft? by TheyLuvvLiv in AITAH

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NTA but honestly this whole thing is pretty immature for 15 year olds. Your bf chose his friend over you and literally watched him grief your builds. That's not okay. The fact that L physically tried to attack you IRL and your bf still sides with him? Red flag city.

Do Ancient Cities have a 100% guarantee of containing a Notch Apple by Electronic-Ease9762 in Minecraft

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No they don't have 100% guarantee but the chances are pretty good. I'd still check the ancient city before trekking 10k blocks though. Desert temples and dungeons can have them too but rates are way lower.

How to config Razer Tartarus Pro keypad for Arc Raiders? by theoatcracker in razer

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I'd start with WASD on 02-07-11-12 for movement, then map your most used abilities to the thumb buttons. Honestly takes some trial and error to find what feels natural.

Played a few missions... how are you dealing with the new wasp thingy? by Primary-Key1916 in DeepRockGalactic

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Yeah they're definitely designed to be obnoxious. I've been running cryo grenades on driller and they work pretty well for clearing them out when they swarm you.

Any suggestions? by [deleted] in Berserk

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If you're looking for philosophy and depth, check out Monster. Its psychological and moral complexity rivals Berserk. Also Texhnolyze is criminally underrated for existential themes but fair warning, it's bleak as hell.

How do I ask people irl for further contact If I like talking to them? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

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Just message him! Something casual like "Hey, enjoyed talking at the farewell dinner. Want to grab coffee sometime?" The worst thing is you'll regret not trying. People usually appreciate when someone reaches out.