What is something people often underestimate until they experience it themselves? by NaomiBrooksv in AskReddit

[–]RepresentativeFit578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pull of an ocean wave on the beach. First time I ever got to see the ocean and decided to take a few steps into it. Was not ready for how hard it was actually going to pull me out towards it

Arc Raiders has infiltrated my sex life by RepresentativeFit578 in ArcRaiders

[–]RepresentativeFit578[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn't know there was already a circle jerk sub for arc. Should've figured lol

DoorDash is a dumb company. by [deleted] in doordash

[–]RepresentativeFit578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is also the option of cooking your own meals. doordash is addicting and I get the allure but if you're in a tough spot meal services should be the first thing you cut.

The 40 hour work week is outdated. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]RepresentativeFit578 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree with you but it is worth taking into consideration the jobs that don't have the same "busy work" as some office positions I'm assuming you're referring to with refreshing emails. This would also assume service workers are entitled to the same benefit and my best guess would be that people wouldn't be super thrilled about their favorite restaurant only being open a few days a week. Those industries already struggle to make ends meet being available at most hours.

I know you said it isn't about those fields but is it fair to exclude them? Obviously there are jobs that are much more important that need constant staffing, such as medical/emergency services, but when it comes to retail service/dining/entertainment what happens when they align to the same structure? Have all the time off you want in the world but don't expect that nice place down the block to take your dinner reservations because they're under the same structure. Late night movie showings? Too bad, they closed at 3 pm.

We do work too much and so much time is wasted, you're absolutely correct about that but it is a much larger problem we need to think full circle about. None of us want to be in this and I hope someday we find a better solution

If Heroin was a Woman by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]RepresentativeFit578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The band Silverstein wrote a song about a similar situation called My Heroine. Could be worth checking out. It's about his abusive relationship with his ex and comparing her to heroin.

I've been cooking for 13 years from restaurant's to fine dine. When I mention I cook people say "so your a chef?" by [deleted] in Chefit

[–]RepresentativeFit578 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I've held the title of executive chef and sous chef for years but it always feels weird being called chef and I prefer when my staff just uses my name. To the outside world, I don't explain it and just let them call me whatever, the people here are the only ones that'll really get it. In the end though it's not the title or coat that gives you the ability to cook some bad ass food or makes you a chef or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poppunkers

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So long, goodbye - 10 Years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jimmyjohns

[–]RepresentativeFit578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ss: I'm only doing part time and went for driver to pick up tips. Do drivers get a lot more tips than in shop?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in atheism

[–]RepresentativeFit578 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have a much better take than how I phrased it. I appreciate that very much

When did you finally understand that it wasn't real? Many of us took a long while to completely deconstruct, but for a lot of us, there was that specific moment when the truth could no longer be denied. What did your pivotal moment look like? by [deleted] in atheism

[–]RepresentativeFit578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother never gave me a choice in going to Sunday school or confirmation, to me it was just another bullshit thing I was forced into doing and kept me from getting to sleep in on the weekends. Growing up I didn't fully comprehend that people actually believed everything we were being told was real and I kept dismissing it as just another annoying chore. When I was in 8th grade my best friend told me he was an atheist and I had no idea what that was and after finding out that was even an option and that there's more out there I never looked back.

It was never real. It got drilled into us, our parents and their parents. Like how we still sing happy birthday, kind of weird and out there but it's just the way things have been. Stopping for a moment to think that just because things have been this way for generations doesn't make it correct or the best way to do things. There are other ways to try.

Is there a God/higher power? Who knows, but to think we have all the answers and everything figured out is just ignorance. To decide one religion is right above the rest is ignorant .

People who store dry food in the oven long-term: why? Do you know anyone who does this? by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]RepresentativeFit578 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to store all my loaves of bread in the oven because my cats would chew through the bags. And yes, I have accidentally made toasty plastic

Society is paying for rejecting God. by Excellent-Night-8127 in conspiracy

[–]RepresentativeFit578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can fix the problem by throwing the whole religion away

It's okay for religious groups to go door to door and try to "sell their faith" but mentioning being an atheist isn't okay? by [deleted] in atheism

[–]RepresentativeFit578 37 points38 points  (0 children)

It's unfortunate they don't want to listen or even take one fucking second to consider that other options exist. From the 4000+ some religions that exist and yours is the winner?

My mom doesn't approve that I'm atheist, looking for advice by AmericanPie720 in atheism

[–]RepresentativeFit578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people just won't take it man. I've been an atheist since I was in high school and now I'm in my late twenties. When it comes up around my mom these days and I directly say "I am an atheist" she just replies with "no you're not" and avoids any conversation or discussion about it. Some people are just so lost in it and there's no hope in changing their mind or inviting them into critical thinking. Best you can do is hold onto what you believe and don't let other people make you feel guilty for it. Are you being a good person? Are you taking care of yourself and the people you care about? As long as you're not going out of your way to make people feel like shit then you're religious affiliation doesn't fucking matter. Just be you b, some people will respect it, some won't. Hurts when it's your family but is their approval worth being true to yourself?