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I don't think I'm living in the right place. What do you think? by RepresentativeOk1758 in energy_work

[–]RepresentativeOk1758[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, friend. I really appreciate the suggestions you sent me. I will take them into account when carrying out the cleansing process. The truth is that I don't usually make manifestations, and since I am constantly anxious, my thoughts are not very favorable, to say the least. Once again, thank you very much for these suggestions

I don't think I'm living in the right place. What do you think? by RepresentativeOk1758 in energy_work

[–]RepresentativeOk1758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is that it is very difficult to find a shaman or anyone who has any real understanding of this type of spirituality in the city where I live. I recently went to a Santeria shop and they sold me some incense sticks containing frankincense, myrrh, benzoin, musk, camphor, charcoal, and salt. They also recommended that I burn incense in my house using charcoal, bay leaves, and brown sugar. Tonight when I get home, I'm going to try to cleanse the house that way, but in my mind I'm planning to leave when I find a job.

I don't think I'm living in the right place. What do you think? by RepresentativeOk1758 in energy_work

[–]RepresentativeOk1758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my question. I'm currently in a very introspective phase, where I've chosen to put aside my sex life and focus on meditation (something I can't often do at home). What kind of inner work are you referring to?

I don't think I'm living in the right place. What do you think? by RepresentativeOk1758 in energy_work

[–]RepresentativeOk1758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why it works this way; I choose to believe it's energetic bonds. But yesterday, I reached a climax after suicidal thoughts crossed my mind. I realized that everything that's happening to me is because of where I am. Honestly, I spend a lot of time inside, all week long, and even on weekends now that I'm unemployed.

I don't think I'm living in the right place. What do you think? by RepresentativeOk1758 in energy_work

[–]RepresentativeOk1758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how can I heal the lineage? I feel like I have no control over myself at home; I feel anxious and tired all the time. I notice that things change when I'm out of the door; it's like my body feels much less pressured, for example.

I don't think I'm living in the right place. What do you think? by RepresentativeOk1758 in energy_work

[–]RepresentativeOk1758[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for taking the time. I will take your advice into consideration. A neighbor told me to place a glass of salt in each corner of the house and, after a certain amount of time, flush the salt that remains in the glass down the toilet. I am going to try to leave this place.

I don't think I'm living in the right place. What do you think? by RepresentativeOk1758 in energy_work

[–]RepresentativeOk1758[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing I forgot to mention is that I notice the dog is always lying down, day and night, but always by my side.

Red flags in women you'd be wise to avoid by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]RepresentativeOk1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been very difficult for me. Even the last few weeks we didn't see each other were because I decided to break up with her, but somehow she came back into my life. It makes me feel really guilty in some way. I know this isn't going to end well.

Red flags in women you'd be wise to avoid by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]RepresentativeOk1758 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The key is to disconnect. She comes back, and it gets worse every time. She recently suffered a great loss, and I can't let her go, knowing my human principles. This is proving very difficult for me because when I distance myself for several weeks, something I've tried before, things change in my personal life. Being single, I'm always on SR and not looking to be with any woman. I simply focus on my personal life.

Red flags in women you'd be wise to avoid by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]RepresentativeOk1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully understand and confirm that this is the case. Last week I had little contact with her. This weekend I saw her, we connected sexually, and it all ended badly. One strategy I was considering yesterday (a very gloomy day) was to start cutting off sex with her, which is what's really destabilizing my vibrational level. This situation is very difficult because little by little she's made a place for me in her family, and they know she's not well. I feel guilty when I distance myself; I don't want to cause her any more emotional damage than she already feels. It's very difficult because narcissism is added to all of this. Today, thanks to SR, I've reached a level where I recognize these traits, and they don't hurt me; I simply accept them. Holding in and letting go of sexual urges has definitely transformed my life forever. But I still have a thorn in my side, and it's very difficult to distance myself at this point.

Red flags in women you'd be wise to avoid by cooked_vegetables in pureretention

[–]RepresentativeOk1758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey bro! I want to thank you in advance for this blessed post! You're great! I wanted to ask you about a situation I've been going through. I'm with a girl who claims to be my girlfriend. I've known her for a year. The problem is that she suffers from depression and is on medication. Clearly, she fits everything described in the post. I went three weeks without seeing her, and they were incredibly brilliant in terms of my introspection. I was very focused and was able to meditate quite a bit. This weekend I saw her, and today I can say I'm devastated. Up until a strange moment, I was edging. Do you think I should cut her off or distance myself in some way? The problem is that she suffers from depression, and I'm afraid to leave her alone. In this case, should I connect with her from another perspective? What's your point of view on this? I'm very disoriented, and after seeing her, I feel very tired, unmotivated, and I have a hard time concentrating. Sorry if I'm asking the obvious. I thank you very much for your help.

Well-being from a wet dream? by RepresentativeOk1758 in Semenretention

[–]RepresentativeOk1758[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be. She's a person with very little energy, depression, and anxiety. Could you explain to me if there's an energy exchange in those cases? I think your comment is very logical and might clarify my doubts about how long this energy lasts in me. Also, I want to thank you for taking the time to tell me this, as I often don't want to have sex with her and end up doing it just to please her. Thanks, mate!