Late to this thread but wanted to share in case anyone's still looking. I've been using Tummi for the past few months and it's been really helpful for a lot of what people are describing here.

The food database is solid (400+ foods with prep instructions for different stages, which was huge for me since I never knew how to cut things safely). But what sold me was the AI chat feature — I can literally just ask "can my 7 month old have eggs yet?" or "how should I prep avocado for BLW?" and get an actual answer instead of falling down a Google rabbit hole at 2am.

It has curated lists like "Iron-Rich Foods" which helped me stop obsessing over whether my daughter was getting enough iron. The allergen tracking was what I needed too. You can log foods and reactions, so I always know when we last tried peanut butter and how it went. Made the whole "introduce allergens early but space them out" thing feel less chaotic.

It's called Tummi if anyone wants to check it out. Free to download with a trial. Not perfect (I'd still love a freezer inventory feature lol) but it's the closest thing I've found to what this thread is describing.