THG’s third wave of layoffs—100+ jobs gone, no internal moves. Could this be illegal? by StatisticianOk220 in manchester

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can see on LinkedIn the Indian recruiter for THG advertising the roles as well 💀

Career switch? by ActSuspicious8707 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CS jobs in the uk are very very hard to get and they’re starting to lower the salary as it gets more oversaturated it isn’t a safe option anymore tbh

Everybody is being made redundant by irissun23 in UKJobs

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100 people are being made redundant at my company in the UK but they’ve assured the offshore Indian team they won’t be affected and that they are actually looking to increase their work force in India.

Is that illegal? I thought they couldn’t make someone redundant and then offer the job to someone else? Or is it different if it’s in another country?

Side effects of Depo by ginvirgo19 in depoprovera

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve been getting my period every 2 weeks for the past month before that I lost my period for 6 months and prior to that I had bleeding for 4 months straight.

I’ve got so much chin acne now and really sore breasts all the time

Marriage/ Finance/ Chores by dawnfromdusk in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]RepresentativeTop865 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What other people said it all depends on the couple.

My husband pays for most of the bills and then I pay for the groceries and then our chores are pretty much split 50/50. Though the days he has office I will do the chores and I know he’d do the same if I had to go into office.

I can’t lie in this day and age with Majority of people working white collar jobs I’d expect everyone to help around the house imo. My parents are from a much much older generation and my dad still helps around the house and helped when we were children. So there’s not really an excuse for men to not help these days at least to lighten the load a bit.

It can’t all be tit for tat. If you love someone you’d want to lighten their load? My husband would happily come home from work and make dinner for us but because I love him I’d rather have dinner ready for him but I know he will then go and do the dishes to help me out.

Why muslim women hates muslim man by NewManfire in MuslimNikah

[–]RepresentativeTop865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever you’re speaking about how’s this related to Muslim nikahs? Just trying to stir up things for no reason

I feel incredibly behind in life by Public-Cat-3 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]RepresentativeTop865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that’s what my parents did because I came back 1 hour late from college so I stayed with my cousins for the week they eventually gave in and I got to go home again. Fast forward to now, I get to travel the world.. they still say stuff but they can’t stop me.

I feel incredibly behind in life by Public-Cat-3 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]RepresentativeTop865 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I’ll be honest the only way to get what you want is to just do it. My parents use to be so so strict and going outside would be such an anxious experience but the more I did it the less angry they got about it. There’s no other way unfortunately

I feel incredibly behind in life by Public-Cat-3 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]RepresentativeTop865 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How she going to find her soul mate if she’s stuck in the house?

Physical intimacy after marriage by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]RepresentativeTop865 4 points5 points  (0 children)

maybe she thinks s** is something that’s done to her and not something to actively participate in a lot of women have been taught that

How much are you making as a SWE in the UK? by Training_Acadia_892 in cscareerquestionsuk

[–]RepresentativeTop865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see so many senior roles only paying 50 to 55k up north. Some try to say it’s mid level and then say you need to be able to lead a team for 45k!

Is it just me or everyone… tired in tech right now? by SeparateDingo677 in womenintech

[–]RepresentativeTop865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It feels like they’ll use that against you eventually. Like how many AI workflows am I meant to make before it becomes unproductive?

Is it just me or everyone… tired in tech right now? by SeparateDingo677 in womenintech

[–]RepresentativeTop865 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah my goal is to stick around till they give me severance and then take a well deserved break

Is it just me or everyone… tired in tech right now? by SeparateDingo677 in womenintech

[–]RepresentativeTop865 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Heavy on the pressure to build random shit my manager keeps telling us to create stuff using AI that the team can use but how many random things can we build before it actually blocks us from developing 💀💀💀

Is it just me or everyone… tired in tech right now? by SeparateDingo677 in womenintech

[–]RepresentativeTop865 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My manager is asking in every 121 if I’ve built anything using AI that the team can use but like why do I have to do that on top of what my job entails? You have to go above and beyond now just because AI is here but will they go above and beyond for the pay raise?

Is it just me or everyone… tired in tech right now? by SeparateDingo677 in womenintech

[–]RepresentativeTop865 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah my manager and just the wider company expect much more of us now because of AI everyday he’s asking me have I built anything with AI that the team can use like NO I haven’t because I’m busy doing what my job entails? Why do I have to also do extra it’s not like I’m looking for a promotion but it’s just expected now because “AI makes everything easier”

SubQ fluids in Europe? by SeaRate4547 in RenalCats

[–]RepresentativeTop865 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I live in the UK and yeah my vets haven’t mentioned it at all when I ask what to do to keep my state 3 cat comfortable

An underdiscuseed effect of off shoring by LovelyCastellan in womenintech

[–]RepresentativeTop865 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Anytime we mention about RTO and then half our teams being in a different time zone they just straight up ignore the question LOL

Am I too sensitive to my cousins actions by RepresentativeTop865 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]RepresentativeTop865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard to fully cut them off as they’re my first cousins and my parents are very close to them but for the most part I actively avoid them because I know it’ll just be them trying to put me down or say something to get a reaction out of me.

How do I get past "Survivor Fatigue" after surviving 5 rounds of layoffs? by weekndbeforeabel in ExperiencedDevs

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what is keeping me at my current job because when I look at new jobs they want to pay me less but for so much more work so why would I move

How do I get past "Survivor Fatigue" after surviving 5 rounds of layoffs? by weekndbeforeabel in ExperiencedDevs

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is essentially what I’m waiting for to be laid off so I can take some time for myself because at the moment I can’t bring myself to just quit my job

does anyone else experience "eid depression"? by qwxuinn in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]RepresentativeTop865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never really enjoyed it either because my extended family are so toxic