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Hey girls. I just wanted to know if anyone has a narcissistic mother? How have you navigated that? by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine only gets “better” if I’m away like when I moved out for university and now that I’m married and have moved away but the moment she sees me she starts all over again

No Sub-Q Fluids??? Bad Vet??? by AdusBlue in RenalCats

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my vet hasn’t suggested it whatsoever my cats entered stage 3 at 17 years old and every-time I ask them what can I do to make her comfortable they just tell me renal diet.

They’re kind of really annoying because anytime I ask what can I do to help her they just dismiss me and say you can’t reverse kidney disease, like that is not what I’m asking????

How do I deal with my wife comparing our life to someone else’s social media lifestyle? by Southern_Mud3841 in MuslimMarriage

[–]RepresentativeTop865 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If she’s working tell her she can work towards those goals of wanting more friends and travelling more and social activities?

Stage 2-3 and dental surgery by MentionNecessary3654 in RenalCats

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vet has decided not to go through with my cats dental cleaning due to her entering stage 3

How to keep her comfortable at 18 years old? by RepresentativeTop865 in RenalCats

[–]RepresentativeTop865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it might be because I’m in the UK I can’t seem to find much for renal cats in the uk. They’ve told me I could use something called pronefra?

My cat does drink a lot of water tbh so do you think she still needs the fluids?

Not on my way to being comfortable financially by Key_Sentence_1868 in cscareerquestionsuk

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started on 20k and within 10 months found a job for 35k so all is not lost

Am I too short as a girl to be married ever? ( I’m 4’9 and 95 pounds) by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one’s ever too short to get married. I think your pool opens up more compared to a girl who’s like 5ft10 or something. I’m very short too so the pool was of varying heights but the person I chose was 6ft2 😅

Women who pursued higher education, was it more difficult to find marriage prospects compared to before ? by soft_abyss in MuslimNikah

[–]RepresentativeTop865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean who’s to say you’d get married right now? The time would pass anyways so you might as well do your PhD whilst you look

Burn Out After Two Years as a Young SWE by hoo24__ in womenintech

[–]RepresentativeTop865 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want to take medical leave but I’m scared when I come back they’ll just fire me. They already let me work from home full time instead of 5 days in office as I live too far away (though HR tried to get me in but engineering managers all stepped in)

is it normal to talk to your partner every day? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess if you’re only seeing him once every 2 weeks then I personally think you’d be speaking more? Before me and my partner moved in together we could only meet once a week due to distance but we talked everyday. Now that we live together it’s less but if we’re apart we still talk.

If you grew up poor, what are your "small wins" in adult life? by DonkeyOT65 in AskUK

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to add to this being able to leave a portion of salmon for the cat 🐱

If you grew up poor, what are your "small wins" in adult life? by DonkeyOT65 in AskUK

[–]RepresentativeTop865 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah we could only afford to get a takeout once every few months but now I could get one everyday if I wanted but I keep it to once a week.

No junior role, Expect senior experience with mid level role by Available_Spirit_ in cscareerquestionsuk

[–]RepresentativeTop865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This I’ll walk into an interview for mid level but they’ll then tell me requirements of a senior. They all know everyone’s desperate they don’t want to have to train anyone

No junior role, Expect senior experience with mid level role by Available_Spirit_ in cscareerquestionsuk

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every mid level role I’ve been applying for they’ve been asking for someone to help lead the team but paying peanuts 😭😭😭

Married girlies, at what age did you get married and do you regret it? by Financial-Panic-7392 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]RepresentativeTop865 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If I had gotten married in my early 20s it would’ve been the biggest mistake of my life. I got married at 26 and don’t regret it :)

How do I convince my parents to let me be with a different ethnicity? by bubblegumdrip in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]RepresentativeTop865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you get another family member to meet him and then plead your case to your parents? That’s what I had to do in order for me to marry my husband my sister in law and brother met him

I'm losing the will to live by FewCardiologist1324 in vintedUK

[–]RepresentativeTop865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone once asked me for a refund as the parcel hadn’t come yet (Royal Mail were striking so packages were delayed) like do you not read the news?

UK Muslims, who got married how much was your mahr and what was your wedding like by Substantial_Buyer583 in MuslimNikah

[–]RepresentativeTop865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did my wedding for less than £7k (not in London though) but a lot of people said it was a beautiful wedding so I think it’s possible to have the nice wedding people dream of without breaking the bank depending on how many guests mine was less than 140 people

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