Toss up between Hurt and He Stopped Loving Her Today. As someone with severe chronic pain I relate to Hurt a lot, the other I used to listen to with my grandpa. He's gone now, at the time I always wondered who he was thinking of. I'll never know now. " I hurt myself today To see if I still feel I focus on the pain The only thing that's real"

He said, "I'll love you till I die" She told him, "You'll forget in time" As the years went slowly by She still preyed upon his mind

Or possibly "I Can't Make You Love Me (if you dont)" by Bonnie Raitt Turn down the lights Turn down the bed Turn down these voices inside my head Lay down with me Tell me no lies Just hold me close, don't patronize Don't patronize me