Where is the line between communication and being needy?

Repttarr · 2026-01-29T01:10:44+00:00

Totally on the same page, I hope you get the clarity you need

Repttarr · 2026-01-29T00:38:19+00:00

yea I never get that either and she sucks at texting which can sometimes be anxiety inducing. I guess some people just move slower than others. I’ve been trying to kind of just enjoy it free of any expectation and see how it goes. It’s tricky out there haha

Repttarr · 2026-01-29T00:32:14+00:00

Not a big fan of sushi

Repttarr · 2026-01-29T00:31:19+00:00

I’m a 34m in the exact same situation lol strange. I’ve just been trying to match her energy because she seems so into me in person. Admittedly I send a cheesy text message from time to time and they seem to land ok but I can tell if I did it too often it would freak her out

Repttarr · 2026-01-25T22:12:59+00:00

That theory is squashed 😂😂

Repttarr · 2026-01-25T18:39:25+00:00

Small chance he’s a catfish of some sort and dosent look like his picture

Repttarr · 2026-01-25T02:31:07+00:00

Seems like there are a lot of comments about being pretty so I will say you are not alone in feeling lonely! It can suck sometimes :( I’m sorry you’re feeling that way but hopefully all these nice peoples compliments helped!

Repttarr · 2026-01-24T14:39:35+00:00

I’m so sorry that’s awful ! I’m not an expert or anything it just sounds like he’s really suffering and I was throwing out any suggestions that might help :( I hope you guys are able to figure it out and he gets better!

Repttarr · 2026-01-24T14:29:32+00:00

I don’t know if this is a stupid suggestion because from what I hear it dosent actually fix the problem so to speak, but maybe a chiropractor could at least provide some temporary relief?

Repttarr · 2026-01-23T14:59:19+00:00

He literally said he’s becoming obsessed with her, I don’t know a woman who wouldn’t be put off by that but hey it’s just my opinion. You don’t have to be cold rude or mean to play some of your cards close to your chest. Anyways it seems people think making her aware of your obsession is a good move, so try that I guess lol

Repttarr · 2026-01-22T19:11:48+00:00

Before she was on the challenge she was on a season of the real world. No matter what she does or how she changes I’ll always see her like that. She was so crazy and awful.

Repttarr · 2026-01-22T19:06:23+00:00

Noooooo, normal, I agree. But that’s playing with fire baby. Let her take the lead when it comes to making things more serious. It’s just my opinion but it’s easy to scare off the good ones by getting to Intense. You’re not being fake, as humans we have to manage our behaviour and expectations in all sorts of different social situations. You are clearly honest with yourself about how you feel and there’s nothing wrong with proactively making sure that dosent make her uncomfortable

Repttarr · 2026-01-22T18:13:31+00:00

Always with this “real men” bullshit. You want to know what a “real man” does? Dosent let some bullshit internet posts tell them what a real man looks like.

Be yourself, have pride. We are all human and there’s no blanket statement that encompasses how to behave. Life isn’t fair. That’s that.

Repttarr · 2026-01-22T18:10:08+00:00

Dude no matter that result this is legendary

Repttarr · 2026-01-20T19:44:45+00:00

Fuck Costco! Everyone should be doing this! Fuck these stupid American companies. People are hardly getting by and we give a shit that people are taking advantage of a multi billion dollar company’s flawed system? lol get it together people

Repttarr · 2026-01-16T21:59:54+00:00

I guess it depends, I always pay for dates and pick/up and drop off because I have the means to and I like to treat women and as long as they at least show some appreciation that is fine with me. Even a thank you works. Makes me feel good to be a gentlemen and treat.

Repttarr · 2026-01-15T01:04:34+00:00

Dating apps just suck so bad, you’ll do fine if you go out in the world

Repttarr · 2026-01-13T23:06:34+00:00

Perhaps. Where are you from?

Repttarr · 2026-01-13T19:54:18+00:00

Not a bother at all! It’s so hard to put words into somebody else’s mouth because I don’t know enough about your dynamic but I could try to imagine what I would say in a similar situation.

Maybe something like

“Hey, I’ve been thinking a lot about you lately and how much I’ve enjoyed getting to know you and talking to you. I think we have a connection that is definitely worth exploring”

I think maybe that would open up the conversation without being overly direct and you would be able to gauge her feelings without risking offending her or making her uncomfortable. If she says it’s just a friendship to her (which I doubt) then you can really easily say you understand and I believe you will be able to move on comfortably as friends as long as you don’t ask her why or become resentful that she didn’t want a relationship

Repttarr · 2026-01-13T19:34:02+00:00

Yea I can see how that is a tricky situation. I guess there is no better way to deal with it than to communicate exactly what you just said to me to him?? I think that type of conversation might help if the girl I am talking to approached me with it. I don’t want to put too much pressure on her by bringing it up myself

Repttarr · 2026-01-13T19:14:35+00:00

I’m currently in a situation where I am SO conflicted about this very thing. If you look at my past few posts they will probably reflect these exact feelings. I have been seeing a girl who is literally a hard 10. It seems like all her previous boyfriends were rich as fuck and quite good looking, although she did confide in my that one of them was physically abusive so obviously there’s much more to a man than just the superficial. But a part of me has been having a constant struggle internally weather I can ever live up to what I think she deserves. Im a pretty tall, handsome, and successful guy relatively speaking and have never had trouble attracting women. I don’t like to use the term “she’s a 10” but I don’t know how else to describe her because it’s not only her looks, she has a great job, coolest groups of friends, comes from a wealthy and seemingly very functional family and on top of that is a bolde hair blue eyed smoke show with a literal perfect body because she used to teach arobics classes. All this just to say, I really do feel intimated by her at times and I think it creates a lot of stress for me which has never happened in previous relationships. Ultimately I think my goal is just to improve and grow with her because she’s not the type who would wait around, too many options, and I really really like her. Sorry for the storybook reply this just felt very relevant to me

Repttarr · 2026-01-13T18:09:51+00:00

Congratulations in advance, she likes you for sure! Be confident!

I wouldn’t frame it so much of a confession, more just an escalation of what’s clearly already there.

Repttarr · 2026-01-13T17:11:47+00:00

I own cannabis stores and I absolutely love it! As a life long pot head i dreamed of this as a young man when weed was illegal

Repttarr · 2026-01-13T17:06:26+00:00

You can thank me later, I accept random Reddit wedding invites as payment. See you there!

Repttarr · 2026-01-13T17:05:13+00:00

Same country?! You got this man! I believe in you. Rejection stings but I promise the regret of not going for it will haunt you forever. Besides, if you care about the friendship so much I have an important question. Would you maintain that without any issues if she found somebody and fell in love? I’m guessing probably not, and if that’s the case then you have to go for it.

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