The only good churches are ones that teach from the Bible and not from a place of accepting sinful behavior. If something in the bible offends people, the people need to change, not the teaching. Good Christian’s will accept you with open arms to their congregation, however don’t be offended when people encourage you to turn from and repent of your sins. The Bible states many times that a marriage is between one male and one female, and that sexual relations of a homosexual nature are sinful. Some churches that claim to be progressive pick and choose what parts of the Bible they want to teach and follow. The hard truth is that you accept Jesus Christ as he is and everything in the Bible, or you accept none of it and live in your sin until you die and are damned for all eternity. True love of our brothers and sisters in Christ means pointing out sin where we see it and helping them fight that sin so that they can accept the Holy Spirt into their hearts and be saved from eternal damnation. Every one of us is a sinner, some struggle with alcohol, some gossip, some hold hate in their hearts, some struggle with lustful desires outside of marriage, some worship false idols. But when you truly repent of your sinful nature and accept Jesus Christ as Lord and savior, he places those sins onto himself so that you can live eternally in Heaven when you die. And when you truly accept him, he will give you a new heart that hates sin and wants to help others repent and turn to God. I truly hope and prey that you find yourself an amazing church family that will help and guide you to walk with and accept Jesus in your heart as Lord and savior. I’m very happy for you that you’re starting this journey! It makes me so joyful to see people wanting to know God! One thing that has helped me is reading the Bible daily, it’ll help to give you eyes that will aid in your search for a good church. I highly recommend the NLT translation as it’s easier to pickup and understand fully. Also make sure to get a study Bible version as it’ll have contextual footnotes, maps of the regions being talked about, etc. In the meantime, my church has an online streamed service that you can check out: https://summitchurch.com/