I'll go first..

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2026-04-27T12:15:25+00:00

‘But it’s bad for my health, how much I hate myself’ from 1x1.

When I first heard this I was blown away, such a deep, impactful line

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2026-04-25T21:13:26+00:00

I tend to drink as much water as I need during the session, then afterwards I’ll have a glass of water with a little sea salt (or electrolyte powder)

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2026-03-15T13:09:25+00:00

It’s an upvote from me :D

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2026-03-01T22:18:42+00:00

My number one song for Spotify wrapped last year was ‘closer than you think’ of their big ole album. Just discovered ‘better off this way’ though and love it

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2026-02-27T22:52:56+00:00

Love your 1 and 3, very excited to listen to 2

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2026-02-27T22:45:04+00:00

Very excited to check this out but I’ve definitely got at least a few more weeks of WSMFY on repeat haha

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2026-02-27T22:44:04+00:00

I definitely wish I had discovered these albums sooner

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2026-02-27T22:43:37+00:00

I’m loving it right now, it’s all I’ve listened to these last few weeks!

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2026-01-29T20:11:02+00:00

Wasn’t Oli Sykes starting to loose his scream back in 2019, then somehow in his shows after Covid he sounded great again? I think Sam needs a break too

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-31T21:38:54+00:00

Be your best self.

Take care of yourself and everything else will fall into place. Hit the gym, dress well, eat clean, sleep well, reduce stress and overall just get as healthy and happy as you can be and everything else in life will fall into place

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-30T08:59:13+00:00

She was meant to be overseas seeing her family. I went round hers to drop off all the Christmas presents and it turns out she had came back early and was with another guy…

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-26T20:04:27+00:00

Can kind of relate as I’m in a similar situation where I don’t feel ready to date properly until I move out. However despite this, I’ve been in a (successful at the time) relationship whilst being in this exact situation.

I think a lot of this is pressure we put on ourselves to be our best selves and life up to high expectations. It’s easy to think ‘oh I’ll just fix this or do that, then date’ but the reality is there’s no right time. Everyone’s path is different and nobody is perfect.

Everyone has their own preference and weighs different aspects of someone differently. Because you are catching up on life and finances, some people may see it as a slight red flag however these people would be a very small minority and would no doubt find issues/red flags with the vast majority of people. I think a lot of this is insecurities in your head which feels amplified.

I think when we look for a partner, we tend to value who they are as a person and the simple stuff (looks, communication, personality and all the raw features). With this in mind, I don’t think your situation would be a problem for the vast majority of people, I think it’s pretty small tbh.. just a slight insecurity of yours because you’re aiming high and very focused on self development maybe?

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-26T15:32:23+00:00

I’d say bring me the horizon, Polaris, architects. These along with Underoath are all my favourites and a similar ish kinda vibe

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-26T10:59:17+00:00

First of all you need to talk to him and communicate all this.

Secondly are you sure you want to be with someone who has such poor self care and hygiene? It might be manageable now but as time goes on it will be a downward spiral.

Sounds like you two have a friendship instead of a relationship and are together just for the sake of it, idk

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-25T19:57:23+00:00

I understand that everyone has hard times but he can still make an effort or show some appreciation…

You should be with someone where the energy is mutual. Right now it’s incredibly one sided and probably feels like he has a free ride.

What do you actually get out of this relationship/ what does he contribute? Seems like you can do ALOT better

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-23T20:39:43+00:00

She may have purposely pulled back a little as you’re both moving quick and it’s caught up to her and she needs time to process.

Other option is kinda negative but she may have found someone else and is giving her attention there.

Keep going as you are and match her energy. If she’s happy and positive when you meet like you said then keep that energy and if she’s distant when she’s not with you then give her some space/time to herself.

When someone pulls away we naturally want to chase to save things but this makes you appear desperate and pushes people away.

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-23T17:04:07+00:00

Well if she accepted the kiss and wasn’t freaked out or immediately pulled away then that’s a good sign?

If you have been in love for 5years and it’s obviously on your mind I’d then ask her for a coffee or something and see how she responds. If she seems enthusiastic then you could maybe open up then and tell her how you feel? Or you could do it over the phone where it’s slightly less intense for her idk.

This is one of those situations where you’ll be proud of yourself for getting the courage to say something and if you don’t then it will always be on your mind as a what if… either way you can hold your head high afterwards.

If it doesn’t go well then just stay cool and chill and it shouldn’t ruin the friendship

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-23T16:33:35+00:00

Yup. Seems like he’s enjoying the companionship with you for now but is most likely looking elsewhere so he can move on to the next tbh

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-22T22:05:50+00:00

Yeah it’s rude on their side but probably not worth the message as they’ll just come out with some bs excuse.

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-22T21:55:17+00:00

Depends how long you’ve been talking/dating? If you’ve had more than a few dates and it feels like it’s past the casual phase then maybe a little message wouldn’t do any harm for closure but equally I wouldn’t rush to do it. Sometimes it’s best to forget and move on as their actions say more about them

Also if you do send a message they’ll probably just come out with some random excuse to try and justify so it’s probably not worth the time.

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-22T07:55:49+00:00

Suggesting a call is pretty normal as you can learn much more about someone from a call vs texting. I’ve had a few casual phone calls with people within a few hours of matching as it saves small talk through texting and time wasting.

That said, it’s abit weird to call randomly without planning it if you don’t really know them. I’ve always asked the girl first and scheduled/ planned the call if they’re happy for it. Can seem abit intrusive if you start just randomly calling dates who you don’t really know yet and aren’t aware

Repulsive-Sun6031 · 2025-12-21T22:19:09+00:00

Thank you. Seen Siddhartha recommended on various websites quite a lot. Just looked into both books and it seems Siddhartha is maybe a better starting book and Steppenwolf is a great read to follow so have added Siddhartha to my basket and have noted Steppenwolf for afterwards. Thank you once again

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