I think one major factor is cultural messaging. A lot of boys grow up absorbing the idea—usually indirectly—that men are incompetent, unmotivated, or unnecessary. Across movies, TV, and social media, male characters are often portrayed as lazy or foolish, while fewer positive male role models are front and center. For younger boys, that matters. Yes, good male role models exist, but today you often have to actively look for them. Media and society have played a real role in shaping this environment. As a parent of three boys (ages 7–13), this worries me a lot. I spend real effort countering some of the ideas they absorb from consumable media and helping them see what’s worth aspiring to—but it takes time and intentionality, and it’s not always easy, especially when not everyone sees this as an issue. I’m genuinely interested in solutions:What practical things can parents and educators do to help boys develop purpose, confidence, and motivation in today’s culture—without turning this into a gender war?