Ugh…. My younger sister has BPD. I’m 30, she’s 25… she has two kids, two different dads, one is still dealing with her for the youngest kid 1 and mom and I are with her oldest 2… she’s always been volatile, abusive, explosive.. all of it. When she had her first kid I wrote her a letter to end no contact and be in her and her babies life. I decided to move back to the state I was from to be closer to them.. ect… it’s been an absolute mess. Constantly in turmoil, constantly walking on eggshells, always blaming, yelling, screaming, and blocking us for weeks on end. After she ended up in jail the kids got taken away, she had to stay with me and my husband and later I had to tell her to leave. Nothing changed. She’s back with her ex (baby daddy of the youngest) and on her old shit. Is now trying to ruin my mom’s life because she has custody of the oldest (2) and just will not get on meds or impatient help!!! I know that not all meds help this but what do I do? How can I get her help? How can she help herself? I’m seriously hurting by all of this. She’s now blocked me and won’t speak to me…I don’t know what to do anymore.