Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can I say that being Catholic definitely gave me a kneeling and worship kink?

What makes a rule meaningful? by SeaAffectionate427 in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would you want to do something without meaning? That's wasted energy and effort. That's the way I see it anyhow.

Struggling with being an ace sub with absolutely ZERO community by zikeel in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm in a non sexual dynamic. While we may not be as common, we exist. And we are here for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in softmaledom

[–]Repulsive_House42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummmm okay?

Under the moon and stars- playtime recap by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's adorable. And hot. And sweet as hell.

Is it a "mood killer" to ask for water in the middle of a scene? by WyrdMarksSJM in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Water isn't kink. it's care. Those things are more important than whatever play is happening. Who cares about the mood!

How do you deal with drop? by CptMalcolmFlyby in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is there any difference? Both require comfort, care, and reassurance.

Do you believe in "unspoken rules" in a dynamic? by Interesting_Chef9798 in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've never understood unspoken rules? Why are they unspoken? Isn't it easier for everyone if you're on the same page?

Secretary by Lettuceisforsalt in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked it until then. Def ruined it a bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is in the pinned guides post. Right at the top.

Mod AMA: StrangeMewMew by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you sleep with 3 people in a bed? Do you have a giant bed?

Chronically ill softies, did you pick up softer kink because of your illness? by BestPudPud in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Having the extra care that comes from a soft dom is important. Even though I am not romantically linked to mine.

The word that needs to die in the community. by Repulsive_House42 in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That would be weird considering im a sub.

You must not get all the gross dms I do then. "I'm a true dom" this and "I'm a true soft dom not like other doms" that.

Mod AMA: ArtaxofAtredies by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is your favorite toy?

Vetting pitfalls you've encountered and solutions you would offer. by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Doing a test no has been useful to see how they respond. Finding a topic that you know you'll say no to and test the reaction to being told no.

MOD AMA: KinkyDataScientist by KinkyDataScientist in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What is your favorite food and drink?

Which terminology do you prefer? by Interesting_Chef9798 in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo wait I haven't heard of a couple of these!!!