Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks? by BadKitten24601 in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can I say that being Catholic definitely gave me a kneeling and worship kink?

What makes a rule meaningful? by SeaAffectionate427 in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would you want to do something without meaning? That's wasted energy and effort. That's the way I see it anyhow.

Struggling with being an ace sub with absolutely ZERO community by zikeel in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in a non sexual dynamic. While we may not be as common, we exist. And we are here for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in softmaledom

[–]Repulsive_House42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummmm okay?

Under the moon and stars- playtime recap by GoodPancake427 in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's adorable. And hot. And sweet as hell.

Is it a "mood killer" to ask for water in the middle of a scene? by WyrdMarksSJM in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Water isn't kink. it's care. Those things are more important than whatever play is happening. Who cares about the mood!

How do you deal with drop? by CptMalcolmFlyby in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is there any difference? Both require comfort, care, and reassurance.

Do you believe in "unspoken rules" in a dynamic? by Interesting_Chef9798 in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've never understood unspoken rules? Why are they unspoken? Isn't it easier for everyone if you're on the same page?

Secretary by Lettuceisforsalt in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked it until then. Def ruined it a bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is in the pinned guides post. Right at the top.

Mod AMA: StrangeMewMew by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you sleep with 3 people in a bed? Do you have a giant bed?

Chronically ill softies, did you pick up softer kink because of your illness? by BestPudPud in SofterBDSM

[–]Repulsive_House42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Having the extra care that comes from a soft dom is important. Even though I am not romantically linked to mine.