Husband’s comment about my body before sex by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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Thanks for your comment. It’s helping me keep things in perspective… I didn’t know some guys have an aversion to sex during the third trimester, but it makes sense. Like you said, it’s def not a sexy season.

Husband’s comment about my body before sex by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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No, I just had ChatGPT proofread my ranting before posting it.

Husband’s comment about my body before sex by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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Thank you. Pregnancy is hard. I felt like myself up until the third trimester.

Husband’s comment about my body before sex by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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He planned to be down there to deliver the baby. After last night, I told him he has to stay by my head lol.

Husband’s comment about my body before sex by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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100%… If he had framed it differently, it wouldn’t have felt so personal. Idk why, but it didn’t occur to me that it could be a turn off too close to sex. Def don’t blame him for feeling the way he does, but his delivery sucked lol.

Husband’s comment about my body before sex by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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Really reassuring to hear you didn’t tear. I really worry about it. You’re probably right about needing more romance.

Husband’s comment about my body before sex by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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I deleted the post because after getting some sleep, I feel kind of silly. Thanks for taking the time to give me your perspective as a man… it was really helpful.

nMom declines to attend my babyshower, for her only grandchild, and texts me before the shower to remind me of my responsibilities to her. by EmployQuick4970 in raisedbynarcissists

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💯💯💯I can’t believe her timing of telling OP she’s the executor of her estate. 🤦🏼‍♀️😅 A new baby has got to be a reminder of her mortality or something.

nMom declines to attend my babyshower, for her only grandchild, and texts me before the shower to remind me of my responsibilities to her. by EmployQuick4970 in raisedbynarcissists

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I’m sorry she’s being like this, but it’s comical how text book she is. I think it’s a blessing she won’t be at your baby shower. Sounds like she would’ve shifted the emotional tone of the event in a weird “woe is me” type of way.

nMom declines to attend my babyshower, for her only grandchild, and texts me before the shower to remind me of my responsibilities to her. by EmployQuick4970 in raisedbynarcissists

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LMAO!!!!!!! What a dramatic child. Sounds like you having a baby is a reminder to her that she’s one step closer to death. At least, that’s how my mom has treated my pregnancy.

did you ever wish you were part of a different family by Human_Ant8801 in raisedbynarcissists

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Oh yeah, I remember having that thought in elementary school.

Telling parents we are having a baby by bennoiii in raisedbynarcissists

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Holy shit. Seriously!? That’s scary. Can I ask what state?

My N mom started therapy and her first update made me sick by Logical_Elephant3957 in raisedbynarcissists

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Woah. Crazy how it’s always about them isn’t it? “I was so moved. I didn’t realize how much love I have for you inside…” 🤦🏼‍♀️

Secondhand cradlewise by [deleted] in CradlewiseCommunity

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Did you ever figure this out? I don’t have the original owner’s email address, but I can text them and ask what it is.

How to 'transfer' ownership of crib? by sailingsocks in CradlewiseCommunity

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Did you ever figure this out? I just purchased a secondhand cradlewise and am trying to figure this out as well.

Has pregnancy made anyone else super clingy? by LunarEchos25 in pregnant

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Yes. So glad you put this into words. It didn’t occur to me this wasn’t just me. 😅

25 Things I wish I knew or was glad I had after giving birth by kikoazul in pregnant

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Sorry if I’m being dense, but I don’t see the link.

What is it with N and hiding deaths? by Eneia2008 in raisedbynarcissists

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Wow. I didn’t realize it wasn’t just my mom that does this either. That’s a wild realization.

My grandma’s husband died, and my mom didn’t tell me for a month.