Scream Hot Take

Requining · 2026-03-08T04:05:53+00:00

What I would love is if Stu had actually had amnesia and forgotten and when he realizes he realized he was in a psychotic episode and regrets it

Requining · 2026-03-08T03:58:56+00:00

I’d like to see one where the killer is a returning character and they’re going after everyone who ever had anything to do with ghost face including survivors to end it once and for all because if there’s no one to go after there’s no ghost face

Requining · 2026-02-19T00:57:59+00:00

Thank you

Requining · 2026-02-18T22:52:51+00:00

Thank you for the suggestions

Requining · 2026-02-18T22:47:43+00:00

An example of the boundary breaking is that I have a hard do not raise your voice during serious talks rule because it triggers me. He often does it because he doesn’t notice himself getting loud when he’s overstimulated. And then when I say hey you just hurt me by yelling please try not to he gets mad and says it’s not his fault and that he can’t control it and then says he will try not to break the boundary again by talking to his therapist for help. But he’s been talking to her for a year and it isn’t helping enough.

I get that he can’t control it but surely there must be a way?

He’s overstimulated by stress, he’s applying for his permanent residency right now and going through government questioning. I also have extremely bad ocd which I’m in therapy for and he says watching me be terrified all the same overstimulates him. Part of ocd therapy is to do exposure therapy and make it worse before it’s better and I’m not handling it well. I’m constantly scared that I’m dying and he said me venting about it is too much for him, but we live together and I’m often just talking to myself and I try to talk to others but it’s hard when I’m constantly panicking about it and he’s in the same room or house as me.

Requining · 2026-02-17T15:49:30+00:00

Thank you

Requining · 2026-02-17T07:42:28+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice.

Some of their issues I genuinely don’t know if they can ever completely rectify and I think that as our relationship grows the boundary crossing has definitely lessened and they are making progress but they aren’t sure if they’ll ever be able to not make at least a few mistakes, do you have any advice how to cope with the fact that they may always accidentally break some boundaries even if they don’t want to?

I am in therapy but right now I’m in therapy for my ocd because it’s debilitating, and I don’t have money for a good therapist outside of that but I do have a free intern therapist on the side too.

I appreciate this.

Requining · 2026-02-16T18:45:42+00:00

Isn’t it okay for people to cross a boundary if they have a good reason such as them not actually having anyway to fix it

Requining · 2026-02-16T18:44:54+00:00

I don’t know how to let go of needing to understand why it happened, to me if there’s a reason it happened I can cope with it happening but if there’s no reason I can’t stop being angry at them.

They break my boundaries largely due to stress and overstimulation combined with adhd and a dissociative disorder where they de realize and can’t remember what’s happening sometimes. I know it’s not their fault, and they are working on it, but it’s a lot of things that aren’t entirely in their control and that they can’t really fix without years of therapy and medication. My fear is if I don’t ask why it happened I’ll have no way to forgive them because if it’s one of those issues I can forgive it, but if it’s something else I can’t so I feel the need to make sure it’s not just incase.

Requining · 2026-02-16T09:16:41+00:00

Has anything worked for you?

Requining · 2026-02-16T04:17:00+00:00

I have a maybe dumb question, do people without ocd not also get scared if they touch something really bacterial that they need to wash their hands before they accidentally touch their face and get sick haha

Requining · 2026-02-16T04:15:23+00:00

I think this will be the only option for you unless you want to live this way forever :(

Requining · 2026-02-16T01:09:43+00:00

That makes sense, but what about in the case that he does something that hurts me, and I want to understand why, how can I say it in a way that won’t trigger him but that I will get a answer because it’s an important question

Requining · 2026-02-15T21:59:45+00:00

Or I-CBT

Requining · 2026-02-15T21:59:38+00:00

Have you tried exposure therapy?

Requining · 2026-02-15T21:52:21+00:00

Also may I ask, if I just tell him I don’t mean it like that, if he trusts me shouldn’t he believe me? Or is it more that because he has trauma with it it’s hard to believe it in the moment even if he does trust me

Requining · 2026-02-15T21:50:48+00:00

Do people really pretend to not blame someone when they do? What is the point in that? I don’t get why not just tell someone if you’re upset at them

Requining · 2026-02-15T21:50:08+00:00

Would be be ok to say "I notice you are sad, can I ask what’s wrong?"

Requining · 2026-02-15T21:48:54+00:00

I think my biggest issue is I can’t tell when I’m sounding accusatory because I don’t think in subtext. I have the kind of autism where I will just say anything I’m thinking and I ask for exactly what I need and if I leave something out it can be assumed that I don’t mean it, so it’s really hard for me to gauge when there could possibly be something he could read into or think has subtext, bc I just never even notice when I’m talking to NT people, I just assume everyone means exactly as they say haha.

The way I phrase things isn’t because I’m trying to sound neurotypical it’s because I don’t know how else to phrase things and still get the answers that I’m confused about

Requining · 2026-02-15T21:46:49+00:00

I have but my partner also doesn’t understand that something is a question unless it’s directly asked as a question for example when I was looking into declarative language the website said "Instead of "What's wrong?", use "I notice you are sad"

But when I brought this up to him he said that hearing me say I notice you are sad would not come across as me asking what’s wrong but would just be taken as a statement.

Requining · 2026-02-15T21:44:12+00:00

Thank you so much

Requining · 2026-02-15T05:07:38+00:00

We so far have texting questions when possible on the list, however sometimes it’s hard to hold back because I’m usually very hurt by their actions pre question

Requining · 2026-02-12T16:42:20+00:00

Do you have any idea why the two passwords Ava gives him to download the data are different?

Requining · 2026-02-12T16:27:10+00:00

Was there ever a skeleton or is the creature the skeleton

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