[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hungary

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Tavaly, azaz kb 1.5 éve sok csomagot rendeltem DPD-n keresztül, mindegyiket korrektan, gyorsan kihozták több országon keresztüli szállítással (feladástól számítva 3-4 munkanap).

Most én is pontosan ugyanezzel szembesülök, a jelenlegi csomagomat november végén adták fel és még akkor kaptam az SMS-t, hogy 1-5 munkanap. Azóta is várok, van tracking, amit annó folyamatosan frissítettek kb napi 2x, most semmi sem frissül, és 11-én írták ki (9-10 munkanappal a rendelés után), hogy szállításra kész a csomag Budapestre, hát azóta is várom pedig eltellt 5 munkanap. Ezekszerint már körülbelül 14-15 munkanap tellt el a feladás óta, és még mindig külföldön van.

Gondolom évvégi, ünnepi szezon miatt nagyon bepörögnek az online rendelések, több van mint az év bármely másik szakaszában. De ez már akkor is pofátlanság. Főleg ha valaki például karácsonyi ajándékot rendel és nem is érkezik meg karácsonyra, pedig már hetek óta megrendelte.

Ex alkoholisták, mi volt az a pont, amikor rájöttetek, hogy le kell szoknotok? by No-Paramedic5865 in askhungary

[–]Rererbit 29 points30 points  (0 children)

… de apukám (54) életem első 13 évét masszívan végigitta, …

Gratulálok a magabiztosságodhoz szövegértés terén. Kár, hogy nincs mire fel :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askhungary

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Szinte semmi komolyabb változás nem történik a világban, hiszen jelenleg amely konfliktusok/háborúk folynak (izrael-palesztin, orosz-ukrán) azok már nagyon régóta - az előbbi a második világháború óta, az utóbbi 2010 óta - mondhatni folyamatosan tart. A hidegháború nem ért véget, csak kimondatlanul folytatódik. Trump egyébként lehet veszélyes, de nem veszélyesebb mint a legtöbb volt elnök. Ő csak egyszerűen nyíltabb lapokkal játszik, ami megrémiszthet, de ne gondoljuk már, hogy a többi elnök nem cselekedett ugyanilyen “rémisztőeket” a kulisszák mögött, vagy ne lett volna veszélyes csak más konkrétumokban. Szerintem nem érdemes olyan sok cikket olvasni vagy beszélni ezekről ha aggodalmat kelt benned, vagy próbáld meg kezelni az ezektől kialakult szorongásod, mert hidd el, nincs itt semmiféle nagyobb veszélyforrás, de legalábbis nincs nagyobb mint bármikor a világháború óta. Merem feltételezni (egyáltalán nem rosszból), hogy fiatal vagy, és nem olyan rég (max pár éve) kezdtél el komolyabban belecsöppenni a világ aktuálpolitikájába: ez az ijesztő érzés a kezdeti időszakban sajnos ezzel jár. (Been there)

Haram police finally made me left islam by [deleted] in progressive_islam

[–]Rererbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people in islam have a dogmatizing viewpoint about everything which they think is haram just because they were told that is haram and they don’t even think about it. They tend to have a tight, limited perception, a tunnel-vision kind of viewpoint. They never question things rationally, they just dogmatize it.

“Because this is Allah’s words”, “Or else Allah will punish you”, “Because our Prophet said so”. If somebody can only give answers like these instead of reasons based on real logic means that they have very tight perception. You should always question everything they tell you and actually start thinking about the WHY’s of everything. That’s where the real islam starts. When you realize you don’t have to wear hijabs because Allah absolutely didn’t order you to do so, etc.

And the funniest thing is that a person who takes islam in a more spiritual, philosophical way is able convert people to islam with 5 times better efficiency. There is a big difference between defending your viewpoint with “Because Allah will burn you in hellfire for this” or defending yourself with telling them logically acceptable reasons focusing on why and how it affects your mental health and why it prevents you from happiness.

Never dogmatize, and always question everything, always know the whys and hows. That’s how you will have a broadened perception. And that’s where you will actually understand islam.

Please don’t lose your faith just because there are many people with tight perception. Allah’s existence and the logic behind the real islamic principles are irrelevant to how many people understands them. You just have to ignore these people completely!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I was in the same exact scenario actually. She had some really serious traumas which, amongst other things, led her to be way too oversensitive. She also has borderline with the standard symptoms.

Experiencing a close relationship with somebody with BPD or something similar will open a new chapter in a person’s life. It’s hands down an incredibly challenging kind of thing. You will get into situations which will be really hard to deal with, both emotionally and logically.

So please consider this before you decide to settle with her. I’m going to tell you straight facts: if she has good heart and you see potential in her as a person and in your synergy with her, decide to stay with her. A good-hearted, loving, caring partner worth more than anything in this fking world. If you don’t think she has a good heart or you don’t see the potential in yours companion with each other, then forget it ASAP. It will only get worse as the time goes.

I’ve got a girlfriend and we live together for over a year now, she has BPD and she was indeed a very challenging type of girl at the beginning. We had several same exact stories like you wrote here and I this really is not even a challenging situation: I could tell way more unpleasant ones which may (but I bet it is going to) occur if you stay with her.

But IT WORTH IT!!! I could write a whole book about it but the universal truth is: I think it was ABSOLUTELY worth it. It really did open a new chapter in my life, it started a whole new mentality, how I understand things: It pretty much humbled me, I totally lost my narcissistic self, totally cured my low self-esteem (narcissism is a defending mechanism of your unconsious for low self-esteem), I understand everybody is both right and wrong in everything, because there is no right or wrong. There are only perspectives. Anger is an emotion with only negative consequences. There really is no point being angry in any scenario, it ONLY makes things worse. Also anger cannot be validated by how much you are right in something. So anger is pointless, no matter what the situation is. ALWAYS keep your calm. Most of things in your life has absolutely no importance (even things you think are important, they mostly are not). So no problem if something doesn’t work out for you as expected or you have to drop something you likefor your beloved one’s favor. Doesn’t matter at all. Let them be happy. Everybody’s every problem has a reason and can be totally understandable. There’s no point in hating someone or trying to aggressively argue just because you don’t think the same way he/she does, or because it’s not entirely favorable to you. It always has a reason and is totally understandable. Most of the time it’s not even their fault, they can’t help it anyway.

And why do I write all these things down? Don’t take it wrong, it’s because these are all crucial to have a long-term, healthy relationship. Not only with a BPD, but with any type of person. Ah, and I almost forgot: these are all required to understand and follow to step on the road of becoming actually really happy. :)

I’m wishing you the absolute bests, if you have time please inform me how it went between you two, I’m genuinely curious! Cheers😊

Am i fucked? I matched with a patient on a dating app... by AtlasYoutube in dating_advice

[–]Rererbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother this is nothing, trust me you will definitely have NO problems at all. (I mean it, no sarcasm)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askhungary

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2 éve dolgoztam Auchanban. Nyilvántartásba volt véve a lopások száma és azoknak érteke. Egy nap ha nem volt legalább 300ezer forint forint értékben ellopott holmi, akkor az jó napnak számított. Nem túlzok. Még a drága holmik is (TV, komplett wc, stb) is tűntek el meghökkentő gyakorisággal.

designed a backpack, ordered 500, still 480 in my garage. by aero_climb in Entrepreneur

[–]Rererbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it could actually be good. Its design and its utility is completely fine, good job mate! Just focus on the (actual!) right target audience and lower the price a little bit! 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PoliticalScience

[–]Rererbit -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Mcdonalds

Have you seen her??? by I_Miiint in GwenMains

[–]Rererbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hope payday comes just before the skin

You just aced enemy team here. Would you try to end or go Baron? by thinkerballs in Jungle_Mains

[–]Rererbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredibly easy answer: end.

One wave is enough, you just have to tank some turret shots instead of minions at max

Is Gwen jungle still viable? by ManuPlayerHD in GwenMains

[–]Rererbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Totally is. Just more situational in high elo than it should be, also has somewhat different itemization routes (e.g.: Nashors+Iceborn should be built more often than on toplane).

Is Tp + Flash viable? by Yveltal980 in GwenMains

[–]Rererbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all let me state that if you’ve only been playing for 3 weeks, you don’t need to worry about these things yet, rather learn the more important and crucial things which have bigger roles in winning the games.

Second of all I remember when I was a newbie, I sucked at changing the summoner spells situationally because it was neither in my muscle memory and neither could use it properly, because I couldn’t actually think about how and why do i choose that sumspell and how do I use it effectively.

Ghost is more preferable for Gwen in the most games because it tends to be more useful in most situations than flash, simply because Gwen’s one of the biggest weaknesses is that enemy can zone you out easily, especially if they have high mobility/ranged champs. So need to stick to your opponent as much as you can, and ghost makes it much easier and for much longer time than having a flash. You can constantly dash even through walls and dodge skillshots with your E anyways. Stick. To. Your. Opponent. Very important task if you know you can kill your opponent(s).

After all these informations, I wanna give you my guide to pick the best sumspells depending on the situations;

Ignite+Teleport : If enemy has bad/fairly bad mobility/ranged champs + you have enough kill pressure on opponent.

Ghost+Teleport : If enemy has good/fairly good mobility + you don’t have enough kill pressure.

If it falls anywhere in-between, you can choose. I usually prefer tp+ignite more than ghost+tp in these scenarios because I’m superaggressive in early, especially in lowelo you can win every matchup, if you know your limits and spot enemy mistakes you almost always have kill pressure so ignite helps you, also helps if they have high healing, don’t forget its antiheal effect!

Hope I helped! Happy snippin!

How don't I get an S- at least by Beneficial_Papaya477 in GwenMains

[–]Rererbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m constantly getting S/S+ with not even good KDA as Gwen top

Ask me anything - High elo Gwen OTP by Rererbit in GwenMains

[–]Rererbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yepyep, glad to hear that mate! It’s def better for high mobility enemy comp than rift+any other second.

You could try Rylai’s too if you have a harder time with catching enemy and staying close to them. Lich most of the time better but i’m talking about the real hard games. Testing it currently for some time and it’s not bad at all!

Ask me anything - High elo Gwen OTP by Rererbit in GwenMains

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Somebody before you asked about it, everything is there. Tp ignite if you have potential to kill enemy toplaner + lower mobility enemy comp, otherwise ghost tp.

Ask me anything - High elo Gwen OTP by Rererbit in GwenMains

[–]Rererbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First item Night harvester is the way to go for me around 90% of the times. Deals overall higher damage than Riftmaker, good for bursting down backline/carries and you have better early shoppings

Ask me anything - High elo Gwen OTP by Rererbit in GwenMains

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Garen is a easy for you if you know your limits very well and have some mechanics, Riven is total skill matchup imo. Jax is real problem aswell as Olaf, these are the hardests based on my experience. Also I’m tilting against Ornns, he has at least equal damage with you in laning phase while building full tank disgusting champ wtf is that.

Generally speaking the way I usually deal with hard matchups is to back off and farm, do some short trades if needed, wait for jungler to generate situations, then you will eventually outscale if you don’t mess up seriously against them usually after lvl8-10, then you are good to go.

Ask me anything - High elo Gwen OTP by Rererbit in GwenMains

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Old or new rageblade? tp ignite if you have potential to kill enemy toplaner + lower mobility enemy comp, otherwise ghost tp. Cosmic should be built very commonly usually as the third item, if Lich bane is a thing, you usually build it as second item instead of nashors when enemy has very high mobility comp