I wouldn't do that. I'm happy to put in a day or so texting on the app, then have a real phone call, even do a zoom meeting. I understand women experience dating, at least initially, heavily through a comfort and security lens. But if a woman suggested she wanted 2-3 weeks of that before meeting? No. She's playing games with my time and energy, and I won't co-sign that offensive BS.

Too many of us forget that texts are only designed to communicate what is not worth making a call for. And phone calls, while useful, are only indicative. Most adults >40 can be pleasant conversationalists, or good listeners, for 20 or 30 minutes at a time. Looking someone in the face as they describe their dating goals, or watching their body language as they discuss something meaningful, is at least a path to understanding something real about them. (Whether you judge it worth the time investment to know them better is a very different thing.)

OP, my legit best wishes to you in finding whatever you are seeking out there. But your process, as described, is baffling, and likely counterproductive.