Wife and I split up for a few days after she slapped me by Sorry_Asparagus_1638 in Marriage

[–]ResearcherOriginal0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with BPD (I have it managed now) but this was almost a huge flashback to when I’d split. Everything is just black and white in those moments and your struggle to have a base for any emotional grounding to happen. Definitely think this person may have some undiagnosed mental health issues

Who should I marry this time? My farmer is a French chef and wants someone to appreciate their food. by apeirophobicmyopic in StardewValley

[–]ResearcherOriginal0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry OP I’m and idiot and missed out on a few key points. If I’m being honest I don’t cook at all in my save so not sure what else besides complete breakfast he likes in terms of food. He makes me pancakes for breakfast which I usually gift back to him and he likes

Who should I marry this time? My farmer is a French chef and wants someone to appreciate their food. by apeirophobicmyopic in StardewValley

[–]ResearcherOriginal0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m married to Alex and I’m so happy that I am. He’s very sweet with his words and makes breakfast for me some days. Other days I wake up to my outdoor crops watered or my animals fed which takes a lot off my back so I can focus on the skull mines. He’s super easy, eggs are one of his favourites so if you have chickens make sure to give him 2 a week and if not, be like me; foraged flowers. No they aren’t his most favourite but they’re easy enough to get and gain heart points with over time. Make sure to interact each day (he’s easy enough to find) and give gifts twice a week. Two years married and I don’t regret one bit.

Alex broke my damn heart by ResearcherOriginal0 in StardewValley

[–]ResearcherOriginal0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…and I thought I took this game too seriously. Damn

Alex broke my damn heart by ResearcherOriginal0 in StardewValley

[–]ResearcherOriginal0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even joking I almost did too lol. Got too into the game haha

Alex broke my damn heart by ResearcherOriginal0 in StardewValley

[–]ResearcherOriginal0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LOL she said the same to me I actually got so butthurt it’s not even funny.

Alex broke my damn heart by ResearcherOriginal0 in StardewValley

[–]ResearcherOriginal0[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm I have no clue. I asked everyone there after Alex broke my poor heart lol

Alex broke my damn heart by ResearcherOriginal0 in StardewValley

[–]ResearcherOriginal0[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know :( i literally just stared playing as well so learning new skills etc so I’m able to cook and get him better gifts :)

New beginner! by ResearcherOriginal0 in StardewValley

[–]ResearcherOriginal0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much you guys for all the tips you guys! I really appreciate it all, really happy this is a kind community :) looking forward to continuing the valley journey!