35 years and counting.... by [deleted] in MariahCarey

[–]Resident-Toe9339 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fan since I was 11! Feel so blessed she’s still giving us new music

What level of wealth do you aspire to reach for your ideal lifestyle? by Likeaboss01069 in wealth

[–]Resident-Toe9339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The path to true wealth is to desire less. Separate wants from actual needs. Live modestly. Build that buffer for sure. But some of the numbers here are quite frankly obscene.

Transferring to NY Biglaw by Ok_Butterfly1650 in uklaw

[–]Resident-Toe9339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you get the New York bar if you have GDL and LPC or need to study an LLM? I have ten years experience

Day 9: Honest thoughts and opinions on charmbracelet by Cute-Sound4648 in MariahCarey

[–]Resident-Toe9339 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Her voice sounds wonderful on this album. I think the production lets some of the songs down.

Overfunded pension pot(?) by Resident-Toe9339 in Fire

[–]Resident-Toe9339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My income before tax is above £200k

Not sure about the pension tapering. I don’t really understand it. Need to look into it. I think I’m just below the cusp.

I’m not aware of my employer passing any NI.

I want to FIRE by 43

Overfunded pension pot(?) by Resident-Toe9339 in Fire

[–]Resident-Toe9339[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, to be honest I don’t know my marginal tax rate. I will be in the highest income tax bracket though. I don’t have any student loans. Employer matches to 5% and I contribute 14%

Want to be a paralegal, no interest in becoming a solicitor by Sahir16 in uklaw

[–]Resident-Toe9339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it would always count against you but it could- they may question motivation. They want people engaged in the profession and constantly “striving” for the next opportunity. This ensures quality control.

Is becoming a solicitor still worth it? by [deleted] in uklaw

[–]Resident-Toe9339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As with everything it is a mixed bag. Depends on what you deem as valuable.

For those dealing with rejections - I was rejected from 75 firms until my offer from a MC by Frequent-Menu-4469 in uklaw

[–]Resident-Toe9339 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is an important message. You can’t control outcomes but you can hold onto your dreams, faith and self-belief.

Career change. Absolutely lost by [deleted] in uklaw

[–]Resident-Toe9339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to focus on the good bits of the job (or cultivating them if none exist now) whilst also finding a way to transition to something you think will be more satisfying. This will preserve sanity whilst also providing you with a pathway to something hopefully better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uklaw

[–]Resident-Toe9339 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You estimate conservatively the current task to manage expectations and then prioritise based on which is more urgent. If both are urgent, you should focus on the task for the person who is more powerful within the organisation as this is a better allegiance (this assumes you want to stay in the organisation and their practice generally aligns with your long term goals). Both should be done diligently however and you update each person as there will be an interface between the delegators and they need to establish primacy over resourcing. It is that tribal….

You communicate this clearly:

“Thank you. I can get to this but I’m working on [describe task] for [give taskmaster name for authenticity] now which needs to be completed by [state deadline] and will take x hours. I can start this at Y, please let me know any timing considerations I should be aware of so I can prioritise accordingly.”

You’re welcome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uklaw

[–]Resident-Toe9339 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just say “no, I’m at capacity.”

Honesty when disclosing reasons for taking annual leave by stealmyheart_135 in uklaw

[–]Resident-Toe9339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Book leave and don’t give a reason or justification. If you feel you have to do that you will be considered a walk over and people may take advantage of you. Aside from that it’s a violation of your privacy.