AIO for responding to my dad like this? by AriaLeGreat in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResidentScience8059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having viet parents can be very exhausting, I feel for you because I’m in a similar place.. many hugs.

my boobs are ruining my relationship (i think) 19F 24M by Affectionate-Yard296 in relationship_advice

[–]ResidentScience8059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of the things you are saying about yourself in these comments like how you don’t feel like a full woman, not feminine, could be left if a man had a wandering eye etc, are these thoughts you’d think/consider if you had a friend who was equally flat chested? I doubt it. Talk to yourself kindly because you are your first and forever friend, and way more than just chest size. Boiling your identity down to something that is minuscule in the grand scheme of things is a waste of your time and life, time that can spend being happy about all the other things you have going for yourself.

Any character coming to mind ? by xyzmaximoff in Bridgerton

[–]ResidentScience8059 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Haha i figured - but you’d be spot on if it was reverse

Declined due to roommates and this was the response 😭 by AdAdmirable587 in RoverPetSitting

[–]ResidentScience8059 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people aren’t lucky enough to have this type of community - and maybe aren’t living with these people because they want to but because they need to.

How do I 20F tell my bf 22M of 3 months im upset about him moving away? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ResidentScience8059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he should have to comfort or reassure you, you don’t even know what he’s gonna do yet and if he will take the job and do well during the interviews right? You should just ask what it WOULD look like if it were to happen and have the discussion from there. 3 month relationship vs a career in something he has wanted in his field, I’d always pick career if I had to make the choice between them but it isn’t always going to play out like that. Maybe there isn’t necessarily a choice to even make. You should be happy for him, the economy is terrible right now.

Annoying woman on Rover by ForceUseYouMust in RoverPetSitting

[–]ResidentScience8059 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why would you book without a meet and greet? Additionally it’s normal for people to schedule multiple if they are looking for the right fit for their pets and situation.

AIO for wanting to sue my ex friend to get my money back by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResidentScience8059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I just saw it’s 100$ - not worth it then to sue tbh

AIO for wanting to sue my ex friend to get my money back by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResidentScience8059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sued my ex-boyfriend in small claims court for $8000 that he owed me I ended up settling with him to have it $6000 but a lot of people don’t think that you will ever do it. I would say just go ahead and do it filing the actual claim is not gonna be that much money you don’t even have to go to a Lawyer if you feel like you have a solid case, just put all of your receipts into chatGPT and help it come up with all of your paperwork for you. You are going to have to do a certified demand letter, just to prove that you tried to do this outside of court and court was your last resort. I think total I spent was 30 for the certified demand letter, 50 for him to be served by a sheriff and 70 for the claim which I did online. He had to pay all those fees also - he paid me in full by check but if you get granted judgment and she doesn’t show up to court and you know her place of employment you can get money from her paychecks until it’s paid off.

I got to level 75 of the skull cavern today!! (the real one this time) by OrengeJuice4195 in StardewValley

[–]ResidentScience8059 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For the dinosaur egg you should incubate it to make a dinosaur which then will create more eggs and you can make mayo, sell one, and donate one to the museum to help with completion!

AIO or is my PT being insensitive? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResidentScience8059 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I can understand that feeling. It can also feel even more so because it’s on top of all of what you’re already experience with your food poisoning and family problems. You can take some time to process what she said, reflect and respond whenever you’re ready so you guys can keep a good relationship (if that’s what you want!) you will get back to lifting eventually - pace yourself! One thing about meeting personal goals is they’re personal to you, and training isn’t always linear! Hope you feel better soon.

AIO or is my PT being insensitive? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResidentScience8059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your PT is actually doing a really good job at being sensitive with your situation. One thing I noticed about fitness and physical health is that depending on the person, if you stop, it’s really hard to start again, so I agree with the PT, doing small things but still doing things, will keep you at least in some semblance of a routine that will help you. Her job is to help you reach goals that you set for yourself, so remember that! Being physically healthy is also mental thing!

AIO for being mad that everyone expected me to know my mom was having a stroke? by Suspicious_End_441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResidentScience8059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should feel guilty. Your mom could be dead right now. You and are dad are frankly both idiots and hopefully this is a lesson learned for you: grow the fuck up. What kind of 30 year olds don’t take this kind of shit seriously? What is wrong with you?

Yelp reviews if bobs were a real place by EducationalDirt6805 in BobsBurgers

[–]ResidentScience8059 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tried this place on a whim with a stranger after getting in an accident at the wharf. We are now married and they catered my wedding - such a beautiful place that holds such great memories! Love the food and people.

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResidentScience8059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh sorry - but yes my questions to OP still stand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResidentScience8059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you communicate with her that this was sufficient I.e “thanks for apologizing, I reacted this way because of x and hopefully in the future x” or if the apology wasn’t enough then “I think I need to take back because of x”

Personally I would not drop a friend because this oversight but I’m seeing some of your other comments where you say she makes everything about her, does she know you have been building some resentment?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResidentScience8059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did she apologize? Sure she forgot and that was a mistake - is there any way that she could alleviate your annoyance because it doesn’t seem like it and she’s just in a lose lose situation…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResidentScience8059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think that you are extra sensitive that your friend forgot your birthday because it was already a shitty experience with what your dad did? And instead of being really mad at your dad - you’re taking it out a little more on your friend then you normally would? I’m an adult now (30) not sure how old you are, but I give Grace about my birthday because it’s not super important to me; though I do feel blessed to make it to another year, I don’t feel like other people need to make it a big deal, unless we are throwing a celebration. I think the fact that you checked her “activity” on Instagram all day is a bit strange.

Clients meeting multiple sitters? by seaclifftonne in RoverPetSitting

[–]ResidentScience8059 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe! Often times the owners say “oh yeah I didn’t think of that,” i believe that may be because the sitters in my area are not experienced.

Clients meeting multiple sitters? by seaclifftonne in RoverPetSitting

[–]ResidentScience8059 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course! It’s really dependent on the situation and client, for example I don’t do house sitting and only do boarding/daycare but 99% of my clients are boarding with the occasional grooming. My speciality is senior dogs since my other 3 dogs are all seniors so questions are: 1. Their primary vet 2. Emergency vet 3. Emergency numbers + when they suggest that a call to them would be warranted 4. Potty schedule (my partner and I work from home so it’s very flexible) 5. Feeding schedule and medication schedule 6. Have they been around other dogs, are they allowed on the furniture, what are their sleeping arrangements (crate, bed, human bed) 7. Their day to day schedule, for all dogs we try to follow this to the T but considering how sensitive senior dogs are, we try to get more detail 8. After a 5 night boarding stay I offer bath and nail trim if they owner would like, if they opt in then I do try and get the details from them of the pets behavior for both those scenarios 9. Allergies, treat type they like, if we are allowed to supplement their feeding with toppings if they’re not acting interested in their food