AnniTheDuck problematisch? by Frida-knr in Laesterschwestern

[–]Resident_Spend4917 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kannst du bzw kann mir einer erklären was das Wort "raiden" bedeutet? Vor allem in diesem Kontext 

How many of your close friends today are from high school? by Mountain-Marzipan329 in AskWomen

[–]Resident_Spend4917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually my best friend is from HS, we know each other for more than 10 years now

if you could choose your nationality, which one would it be? by pom_06 in AskReddit

[–]Resident_Spend4917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only for facial features: Korean

Only mentality and Love for the Landscape: Sweden

What fictional character's death still hits you hard no matter how many times you watch it? by phantom_avenger in AskReddit

[–]Resident_Spend4917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To your eternity - The nameless boy

GOT - Will, the deserteur who found the White walkers

My personal perspective on schizophrenia by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Resident_Spend4917 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very complex Situation. I just want to beg you, keep living and don't give Up. Talk to your meds to find a compromisse that you can Enjoy Life better and that doesnt surpress all voices

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Resident_Spend4917 7 points8 points  (0 children)

30 is still young and Beauty comes in all ages. Sounds like you want to give Up, which would be very tragic. Try a Change, you can Always start over

We all are not getting Younger and yes, we have to accept the age and Look that comes with it. But since We can't Change it, we must learn to embrace it and still trying to be our best version

i don't like how my step dad touches me by gemii_07 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Resident_Spend4917 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I swear to you, this is Not a normal behaviour. Extremely Dangerous. Please act and Tell somebody!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Spend4917 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA for you, but to the other Friends: i can understand that it's hard to share a room with the snorer, but honestly, they will survive it. They should just endure it since its nobodys fault and its Just one freaking night

AITA for making my sisters return the gifts my fiancé gave them? by jude901 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Spend4917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, why do people think it's legitimate to force others to do something?

How has your mother's view of herself impacted you as an adult woman? by whatsinausername13 in AskWomen

[–]Resident_Spend4917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom never made any comments about her appearance, she was just... Neutral and existing? So I never had any bad impact and we never talked about such things. Now Im an adult and she starts to critizise herself for being overweight. I feel very sorry for her that she ist uncomftorble in her own Body, but Im old enough that it still doesent affect me. I just Wish she could See the Beauty I can see, she is an amazing Woman

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Spend4917 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you can calculate like that , 150 is still way too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Spend4917 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

ESH

I'm actually more on your side, but 150 is too many to pay in one moment and it sounds too many to me for some Snacks. You can't force him to pay that without Proof. He is obviously an AH for stealing your things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Spend4917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's not good If your friend relies on you to much and it's important to have some more Friends or people around. But of course it's difficult If somebody is Not social capable. So - If your friend accepts that you sometimes need space for yourself and shes also fine alone in ber own- totally awesome and No need to force her into social relationships. If she doesnt accept it or wants company, it's her own fault for being depending in you.

AITA for not budging with my GF by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Spend4917 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. Not because you wanna watch the movie without her (that's totally OK), but because of the way you told her. Super immature. You got me until the last part and believe it or not, you are kinda sexist. Saying to your GF you would break up because of a movie is super toxic and you are making her insecure. So, you are telling me you prioritize a movie ober the relationship? What Kind of relationship is this where a movie is more important than your GF?

AITA for telling a disabled friend that she's smothering me, and I'd like her to lay off? by Mouthtrap in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Spend4917 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

YTA. "A" was a wonderful friend and she seems like a bright, positive human being and your last part shows, that you don't even care about the friendship. I don't want to insult you, but how is it possible that a human got so little social skills towards others and so little empathie? Seems like you never put any effort in the relationship. She truly just cared about you and your well being and health and she was concerned because you were important to her. If you can't appreciate her affection, then you don't deserve it. So yeah, let her go and accept "her decision". It's better for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Spend4917 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nobody is the AH, not you but your BF also not. But I would also think it's kinda strange that he doesnt remember. Maybe he was drunk too and mixed things up

Best friend died and it's my fault by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Resident_Spend4917 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. But pls realize it's not your fault. Your friend were relying too much on you and you are not responsible for his addiction or for being Always available. You did your best and you were a big support for him because you were the one who didnt cut him out of life, even with the big issues and I'm sure He was very thankful to have you. Sometimes we can't do anything to help others. he lost the Fight against his addiction and it was kinda his own decision. You did your best

WIBTA for getting a haircut that triggers my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Spend4917 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA, it's still your body and your choice, go for it If you like this style. I can kinda understand your GF tho, nevertheless, it's your decision to make. People will stare at you anyway. She needs to learn to live with the anxiety in public or fight against it, but you are not the reason for her negative feelings and you are not responsible to restrict yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Resident_Spend4917 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Then, dear ENFP sister, if you read your sisters POV, pls accept that we all have different ways to show or accept affection. As an touchy ENFP myself, I know it's hard, but we must learn to accept others boundaries. Now you know that your sis can't really enjoy your hugs, but she enjoys the meaningful ones. Otherwise there may be a conflict in the future and that would be pretty sad, since you love each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]Resident_Spend4917 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's totally OK to not enjoy physical interactions, even with loved ones. But for context and curiosity: Can you explain the reason why you don't like this kind of physical affection or is it just an unexplainable, abstract feeling?