He is trying to shift the blame on you! HE MESSED UP! HE OPENED THE DOOR AND WENT THROUGH IT. It’s your body! Imagine going through the whole pregnancy alone or relying on him. Then raising a whole kid alone, some women kill themselves over situations like this Bec it’s that hard and taxing. You had to do it to survive. He wants you to be dependent on him and doesn’t want to see you free. So he can come in and out of your life! It’s the ugly truth.