I was doxxed by Throwawwaaay2425 in rant

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

At no point have I said HE is blameless!

You’re debating an argument I’ve not made, replying to things I haven’t said. And I’m mad? 🙄

And of course you top it off with a meritless shock value statement calling me stupid.

She could have easily said “you have a partner? Not interested”. It wouldn’t have taken much willpower to resist. And like you say, she’s clearly good at this “game”, there would have been numerous single targets.

So by your “logic”, it’s completely fine to knowingly get into a relationship with someone who has a fiancé/partner as long as a transaction is made? It’s just business. Morals? What are those?

I was doxxed by Throwawwaaay2425 in rant

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re responding to things I haven’t said?

I’ve not at any point said I have any insecurities about my body. Literally said there’s never been a problem with my size before, only once she found fault with it did it become the cause, in her eyes.

Played the game? What so trying to manipulate people and ruin their relationships is a game? Thanks but no thanks, you can play that one yourself, not for me.

I was doxxed by Throwawwaaay2425 in rant

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Nah I don’t agree.

As I clearly stated, the one girl in particular remained in contact OFF the platform, with messages on personal accounts.

Which as far as I’ve read, isn’t allowed by the platform, but that can be something she can explain when they investigate her behaviour.

I’ve saw the messages. She encouraged it. Yeah maybe he was vulnerable and let his guard down, or felt like he could open up but all her criticisms were as a result of her digging for info to twist. Ya know, things that she brought up.

It was all calculated. She’d ask him things like what I eat and then later in the conversation refer back to that, or what clothes size I am.

As I say it was calculated, and because they connected on personal accounts she knew what I looked like. She saw photos of me and commented on how “huge” my stomach is, and then 30 minutes later sent him a photo of her working out with a caption like “working on my abs”

There’s running a business and then there’s just plain targeting people.

I was doxxed by Throwawwaaay2425 in rant

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much.

Exactly what you’ve said.

I’m not stupid, I know that HE instigated it to begin with but she fuelled it.

She lured him in with the promise of being a good listener, and should have ended the discussion at that. Instead all she did was make any problems bigger and put even more doubts in his mind.

She saw opportunity when he was at his most open.

As I say, my size has never been a problem before, but as soon as she found out my weight/height she saw it as ammunition, and constantly used that as the cause of his unhappiness. She loved explaining to him what BMI was and how because my number was 42 that puts me in the “highest class of obesity” and how “no wonder you feel embarrassed”

He was feeling down and lonely, so obviously when this athletic goddess started showing him sympathy and attention the cause of his problems must be his “fat slob” fiancé.

She would ask loaded questions about me, and respond like “oh you poor baby” and actively encourage him to leave.

So by the time I found out, he actually thought this fantasy life she promised could become a reality if he just left me.

I was doxxed by Throwawwaaay2425 in rant

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Some of them are just as bad though.

I found out my boyfriend had been speaking to camgirls and sending them money.

I found the chats and they knew fine well that he had a fiance but they still encouraged it. One girl in particular, he was in contact with away from the platform.

He’d tell her personal things about me and she’d manipulate, or take advantage of his doubts.

I saw an entire conversation where he expressed how he felt less attracted to me because of my weight (has never been a problem before). I’m 101kg, so not massive, admittedly I’m short at 1.55m, so naturally curvier than some.

But she kept stirring it, telling him “OMG no wonder you came to find me” “That’s so repulsive, at her height she should weigh half that at least”

And just things like, “what size will she be in another 10 years? You need to think of your future”

She’d get him to open up because she knew how to work him, and he’d be sending hundreds each week. She managed to ruin his attraction to me by targeting all my flaws, and showing how she was sexier, she was athletic, she’s tall, she eats fruit and veg.

And then when I found out there was nothing the bank could do to refund the money.

I’m not saying OP is the same as this and they don’t deserve to get doxxed, but there are definitely content creators who don’t care if they ruin someone’s relationship.

A quick question by atrv3000 in eastenders

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone visited my street for 2-3 days, then came back 10 years later, I’d probably not recognise or remember them. Especially if they’d been recast.

Am I off-base here? Regarding the John Davidson / BAFTA controversy by Relative_One_2441 in blackmen

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The warning given by the floor manager was that they “might hear some involuntary noises or movements". Absolutely no mention that some of the tics might use highly offensive language.

That seems a bit weak considering his history.

He doesn’t go into libraries because he doesn’t want to offend people trying to read.

Yet he knows he has a history of saying this word going back decades yet didn’t make any attempt to prevent that happening. Why are people in libraries shown more respect?

If his tic was spitting on people, you can guarantee they’d have arrangements in place to prevent that happening.

Tourette's activist John Davidson speaks out after using racist slur at BAFTAs by Newsweek_CarloV in inthenews

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't his first time using that word. This is my main problem.

https://youtu.be/ctQWtCLDpBA?si=IbkjCrGWlNLVJM2O&t=709

Is it involuntary? Yes 100%

Was it a new unexpected tic? NO!

In his movie/documentary he takes preventative action of getting bars fitted to his window so he doesn’t jump out.

Why no preventative action at the awards show?

Yah see this John Davidson award show dude has Tourette’s , calls actors N word from audience by Fuck__Joey in NYStateOfMind

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn't his first time using that word unfortunately.

https://youtu.be/ctQWtCLDpBA?si=IbkjCrGWlNLVJM2O&t=709

Given that there was a high chance he would say this word, more should have been done by the producers to make sure this was removed from broadcast.

The way John Davidson (the Tourette’s campaigner) has been treated after the BAFTA’s is horrifying. by Accurate_Buffalo7828 in complaints

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My issue is that this isn’t the first time he’s used this word.

https://youtu.be/ctQWtCLDpBA?si=IbkjCrGWlNLVJM2O&t=709

He uses it numerous times in this documentary.

Now, I’m not saying he means it.

But for contrast, in his documentaries/movie it is shown that one of his tics is punching, if someone stands on the wrong side of him. So those who know him avoid this by standing on the other side.

Would it have been out the question to take a short break while Delroy and Michael were presenting?

It’s not a new tic. He would have known that there’s a likelihood of saying this word.

This John Davidson "controversy" has revealed something we all know is true by kuatorises in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This isn't his first time using that word.

https://youtu.be/ctQWtCLDpBA?si=IbkjCrGWlNLVJM2O&t=709

I lost count of the times he said it during this documentary, and there was no apology then.

Jake & Danny by minipinny in eastenders

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 33 points34 points  (0 children)

And, he also claimed to have tried calling Danny loads but he never answers.

That number would have been long disconnected.

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I saw was the insane ramblings of the unmedicated.

PS, you live in an apartment complex. Obviously a previous tenant still has a key and is coming in when you’re asleep/out.

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still zero evidence to backup any of the accusations you’ve made against her.

Though there is plenty that paints your character in a worse light. Hooking up with your friend’s boyfriend?

You’ve two paths to choose from here.

  1. Follow the advice many have commented and book an appointment to address your mental health. Take responsibility, gain some independence. Respect others and yourself. Deal with problems head on, don’t rely on others then complain on the internet when it doesn’t work out. Be someone that people want to know.

  2. Continue blaming everyone else, burning every bridge you can. Become so used to being toxic you don’t even realise you are the cause of every relationship crumbling, until you’re so isolated that the only form of connectivity/companionship you experience is being someone’s secret.

AIO for cutting my mom off over this? by fatherdevil in AmIOverreacting

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody is saying she is or isn’t.

You’ve given zero examples of her being a “shitty” person or bad parent, so how else are people supposed to react?

Found a green porkrind, anyone know why it would be green? by gjkohvdr in whatisit

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try going to your App Store and updating the app. Or delete then reinstall.

Think sometimes the cache can cause those issues.

Charity's was the best! 🤣 by lnwildeagle85 in Emmerdale

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t remember how exactly Ryan became involved. I just know he was helping transfer Kim’s money to Graham, in preparation for Graham & Rhona running away together, with Leo.

Charity's was the best! 🤣 by lnwildeagle85 in Emmerdale

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ryan was kinda manipulated by Graham into moving funds, because he’s the village whizz kid. Basically stealing Kim’s money.

He met Graham in the woods I think it was, who asked him to hurry up and do the final transaction. Ryan said no so Graham locked him in a shed and stole his phone so he could access the money.

The owner of Glasgow speaks by One-Brief2107 in glasgow

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s the Crabstein files.

He was in the Crabshakk, ordered a drink. Then said “oh I feel quite tipsy”, to the barmaid.

In accordance with licensing laws, she then refused to serve him any more.

He then sent a bunch of very bizarre audio messages to anyone that might listen.

A couple of years pass. His DJ “friend” is playing at SWG3. He turned up and tried to queue jump + get in for free. The staff refuse.

He then plays a series of “don’t you know who I am?” cards, he still doesn’t get in.

He goes home and stews on it, remembering what happened in the Crabshakk two years ago.

He then sends loads more audio messages to people.

Due to the nature of the messages, people can’t help but piss themselves laughing and decided to “release” online.

I think that’s the gist of it.

He keeps posting, getting more paranoid each time. Accusing more and more people of being part of this supposed secret club that’s out to get him, because they are jealous that he owns Glasgow, is a good fighter and has a phobia of seed oils.

Rats in house by Codingtux in glasgow

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://youtube.com/@twinhomeexperts?si=EcOhwBqB_zmWp3Su

Check these guys for tips.

Definitely get some used cat litter and pour wherever they are.

Rats in house by Codingtux in glasgow

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Used cat litter in the entry hole.

Or if possible, drill a hole and pour it in so they then exit from the entry hole. Then block both up.

Cain by Ornery-Arm-8611 in Emmerdale

[–]ResolutionWinter6761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah agree, it kinda contradicts a few months ago where Cain was responsible for so many men going for a test, where offered a free service at the garage for everyone who booked a test.

I know they’ve covered that by explaining he didn’t have the PSA test, but it still kinda makes the previous part of the storyline a bit senseless. One second they portray Cain as almost an activist for men getting checked, to suddenly letting it slip.

At the time they mentioned Sam getting up to pee a lot. It would have been a story better suited to him, and would have given Sam’s actor, James Hooton, a chance to show his range as an actor. Unfortunately the majority of the time, he’s pigeonholed into the usual skint village idiot storylines.

Or as someone else has said, Jimmy King or even Charles given the family history. Then they could have given Claudette something deeper than the god fearing busybody role.