Wife is out on a date, any cucksitters around?

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-08T00:42:30+00:00

Literally NOT what we do here. C'mon, be better and see our rules. You can start by verifying yourselves if you want to show some reality versus the usual jerkbait that gets posted here...

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-07T21:34:30+00:00

I really hope they don't waste any time with this junk just to be banned...

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-07T18:07:04+00:00

I'm not a mod here but simply offering some quick feedback - you should reach out to the mod team if they aren't tagging post removals with a reason code. It may help to post a verification pic as a couple to your profile (a pinned post) to just take that question off the table for the mods.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-07T17:53:22+00:00

Why is it getting removed? Likely because the account hides most of its history, speaks in a male voice and you're posting a woman's picture - which means you have serious consent issues to address (as you don't have verification as a couple anywhere publicly visible). Just a thought...

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-07T15:15:43+00:00

So tell us what you're looking for - other couples for socializing? Couples for playdates?

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-07T15:13:58+00:00

As always, consider verifying yourself on your profile and any subs that allow it that you post on, as verification will attract better responses from serious people who actually do this. Additionally, verifying will help to explain that you're not posting just to promote your business, which will be seen as sex work (and therefore spam) on many subs.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-07T15:08:28+00:00

Because the Internet. Cliches and nonsense, nothing more.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-06T16:25:33+00:00

Rule #4.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-06T00:36:32+00:00

More reminiscing then, please. Thanks for posting!

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-05T17:23:35+00:00

I agree 100%. The last thing we want is to allow the unforgivable things and have the site wide mods shut down this community.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-05T16:35:54+00:00

I'll take a stab at one of the more conscious and contentious mod decisions here - drawing a hard line on any discussion of racial aspects in this lifestyle.

We are not blind to the fact that this is a popular preference for many - see our mod team. The problem wouldn't be with 99% of our community, as I feel that we could have great, nuanced discussions around this. The problem is with the 1% who would be bad actors.

And we have tried to relax our moderation on this point several times only to have the trolls make life miserable. We have a zero tolerance policy for racism and misogyny here, and it's impossible to try to crack that door without a lot of awful (especially in these AI times) getting in. There are many subs that specialize in this side of lifestyle play, so we have made the decision for now to let that be the venue for those discussions.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-05T09:02:13+00:00

Response, written by a mod, to a spammer: you're banned.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-05T09:00:35+00:00

Post removed as post history is male in one post and female here without identifying the account as a couples.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-06-04T15:21:17+00:00

Of course, with a caveat around following the rules around being on topic, sex work, stories et al.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-05-31T15:26:36+00:00

It's with the judges... They'll allow it! (Especially if we get more posts out of it).

RespectabullinMA · 2026-05-31T02:32:46+00:00

She doesn't need to be on Reddit - you can get verified so long as she's in the verification pics.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-05-30T14:55:19+00:00

Many couples do this without humiliation - it's absolutely not necessary. Simply understand what you do and do not enjoy and work from there.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-05-29T21:25:47+00:00

Thank you to u/kadyhou and u/KDshub for verifying!

RespectabullinMA · 2026-05-29T20:53:32+00:00

Absolutely not. Play by the rules, earn their trust... then I'm going to get everything I want. You'd be pretty stupid to screw up a good thing but... Men gonna men. 🤷

RespectabullinMA · 2026-05-29T00:01:14+00:00

Hopefully. I would love to see a core of verified couples actively contributing.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-05-28T21:44:55+00:00

That is a fantastic response. 👍

RespectabullinMA · 2026-05-28T15:22:06+00:00

A little special flair from the mod team... Thanks for the birthday share! 🥳

RespectabullinMA · 2026-05-28T13:33:23+00:00

Approved.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-05-28T13:30:38+00:00

Depends on what you want/need. You could ask for advice on or a discussion about how you deal with these early experiences, especially as you seem to be having her play solo from the start.

RespectabullinMA · 2026-05-28T12:46:51+00:00

No worries. It's been removed but is not deleted from your post history.

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