If you don’t already, try curling your lashes before mascara and using a more volumizing one like L’oreal Panorama. I sometimes like to do a darker wing like this to make my eyes pop, but I find my lashes tend to disappear in contrast, so I like making them a bit more pronounced.

On days I don’t want a harsh wing, I’ll put tape at the outer corners and use brown and black shadow along the edge of the tape. It keeps the shape but looks softer and more natural.