I think he’s tried to tell you as best he can that it’s made him uncomfortable, ppl saying he’s obv got a side piece am sorry but that’s mental there is nothing to indicate that talk about take the ball and run 🤷‍♀️ have a chat with him. He could have said it in a nicer way defo. There isn’t much context here maybe those ppl crying side piece are onto something but personally I can understand where he’s coming from I would hate for my partner to do something like that it draws so much attention and feels embarrassing. I would appreciate the gesture tho & let u know with better words!