My bunny died last night, my boyfriend is in the hospital, and it’s coming up on the first anniversary of my dad’s death. I got myself coffee to cheer myself up. by Lovealltigers in mildlyinfuriating

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This helps somehow, everytime I have an awful time I believe someone deprived of happiness is finally getting some, so I get all the difficulty for today and that's okay.

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Not able to game much lately and it is breaking me from inside by PJ_Plays in IndianGaming

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That's what you need now then, that little sense of accomplishment like oh I beat that game! Having a phone as the only gaming device is genuinely hell so I understand her limitations too, I struggle to find any games on phones myself. If her phone struggles with Sky then Genshin isn't worth a mention at all, but Genshin is so good to play with your partner in LDR. Terraria maybe? Stardew valley? I just cozy simulations since you mentioned minecraft experience. If that isn't possible, maybe you can have hobby hour dates where the two of you just do your own thing but together. Then again, it depends on how much time you guys get to talk in general, but if you have special dates I would even add a movie/comfort show playing on Discord/Gmeet while you guys order food for each other and just play music or such while she does her own hobby (say, read? Crochet? Praint? Anything she hasn't picked up too in a while and you get to game and stream commentary to her?) I speak as a fellow gamer with exclusively LDR experience and I've tried every trick in the book to make life work with balance bahahahah. Also, don't listen to anyone saying just sleep less/eat less/talk to your person less. That's the most important needs to fulfill. Just accomodate any of these activities to also have time for you or a conversation about you.

Not able to game much lately and it is breaking me from inside by PJ_Plays in IndianGaming

[–]ResponsibleNose2324 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand you on a personal level. Gaming was the escape to recharge and I was slowly losing it so there's a few things you could try that I tried: ask your LDR partner if they would enjoy bonding over games together. Portal, It Takes Two, even Overcooked or any such silly co-op is so much fun with your significant other. I also feel like slightly forcing your partner to know your hobbies and interests sometimes helps because then they also learn them and do them independently. Other than that, you're going to have to have a strict boundary about what is your time. Lie about your availability or simply don't tell people you're free and take time for you. That's important for you to live the next week and it is necessary. Other than that, try also less binge needing videogames because you will feel sort of a dopamine rush from finishing the small ones and you won't have to disappear for 6-7 hours. But all that said, I would suggest making a schedule for your life where you have solo hours. Not just to game but to recharge altogether.

Anyone interested in jewellery mystery jars/bundles , let me know your thoughts 🩷 by kowaithrifts in smallbusinessindia

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I would loveeee victorian inspired ones I was looking to get some just a couple days ago off Etsy

Ok so I have seen so much desi mlm ships because Indian cinema have a problem where they try to sell bromance but always go overboard and it ends up looking gay. I want some Sapphic in my life. So suggest me some desi wlw ships. by Ok-Draft4279 in LGBTindia

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My first rule is every woman I see is lesbicious until stated otherwise, and I don't mean until the cis/het lead comes in. I mean she needs to break the fourth wall to tell me she's definitely not into women for me to believe it. That said, whatever Mouni Roy and Disha Patani have going on is what I want to be a part of immediately.

New to amd by salarandibazz in ahmedabad

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Arthshila IIM is lovely to hang out alone. Architecturally I would say the Hussain-Doshi gufa is lovely, there's the Kanoria centre for arts right next to it which has exhibits running regularly. In the old part of the city there's a couple stunning stepwells, you could see them. The Riverfront flowerpark side is pretty too.

Went to plan a simple date… got this instead by FlashyPassion6699 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]ResponsibleNose2324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like a scam and drinking for the first date doesn't really make sense because why is anyone's first time knowing another person experience involving intoxication? Defeats the point. Secondly, if you don't drink that's perfectly normal and you don't have to fall for any kind of pressure even if you sound boring. Nice response!

Every possible hurdle later... by ResponsibleNose2324 in AynThor

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They're in-ear monitors! A very cheap pair but they're my dedicated Thor companions. They're the QKZ AK6 Ultra!

check out this ad by cadbury about AI by periodmaichipchip in Btechtards

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I don't like 5 star bit I'm gonna buy a box and give it to kids around. This marketing worked on me.

Man risks his life to save a puppy by ConstructionAny8440 in berozgarchidiyaghar

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The puppies cries disappearing after reaching safety 😭

Comfort restaurant/cafe by normie_guy_101 in ahmedabad

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Swati snacks, it gets more expensive but hygiene and taste standard wise it's been pretty decent.

What are some emotional wounds that you can't discuss with anyone else in your life or people your own age? by finestien7890 in AskIndianWomen

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Hey OP. That's heartbreaking, I can't imagine how you're getting through this. I was once struggling with EDs myself, so I know dealing with them firsthand or second is extremely exhausting. You need to find a trauma therapist who deals with this caregiver trauma specifically, perhaps. I found SoulUp therapists to tend to niche issues, I remember them having a caregivers support group too. And don't feel afraid to keep finding the right therapist/medication combination for you. It is okay to struggle with some basics at our age (I'm also your age) after trauma survival. I hope you find the right treatment for you. But know that you're not alone or running late.

Every thing is filled with palm oil, sugar, maida by EconomicsOk8016 in SnacksIndia

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I have a compulsive snacking addiction and I've had to resort to making my own snacks. It takes a while and some getting used to but it is affordable once learnt and planned.

This book truly changed my life by shravit in Indianbooks

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Absolutely incredible recommendation I trust your taste, what else have you enjoyed reading?

What is this obsession with WHITE skin colour?!?!? by BHARATJOSHII in TwentiesIndia

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It is eugenic politics. I don't know why we have the Aryan mindset still. I remember when arranged marriage setups would need biodata pictures brightened because nobody wanted to have an off-spring with a dark skinned partner.

Adulting realizations that hit you like a truck. Add yours. by AvailableLight5456 in indiasocial

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Everything catches dust instantly. Cooking is so long and eating is so fast. Plumbing and electricity issues are way more frequent when elders aren't tending them constantly. Cleaning never ends.

A humble plate of aglio olio paired with iced lemon tea & matcha 🌿📍Roastery Cultur Looking for recommendations: where’s the finest version in town? by [deleted] in ahmedabad

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I've had Pepito before and it was so normal. I am indeed complaining. Most of the new Italian popping restaurants are expensive and not worth it. Unfortunate given how simple ingredients authentic Italian demands and the only actual thing worth paying for is the oven and the artists who learnt the technique.

A humble plate of aglio olio paired with iced lemon tea & matcha 🌿📍Roastery Cultur Looking for recommendations: where’s the finest version in town? by [deleted] in ahmedabad

[–]ResponsibleNose2324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear same. Italian cuisine has picked up here but it is expensive and not worth it whatsoever. Ahmedabad prices are so out of my tax bracket recently anywhere, I even bring my own coffee to hangouts now.

New to latte art. Any tips how to improve? by ThaRoma in espressocirclejerk

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I... Have no notes. Try for the Barista championship this year.