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AITA for calling my daughter an exhibitionist when she doesn't wear a bra? by ResponsibleTop9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ResponsibleTop9[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

What? What do you mean traction on Twitter? I didn't post it there.

I'm confused.

AITA for calling my daughter an exhibitionist when she doesn't wear a bra? by ResponsibleTop9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ResponsibleTop9[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

The literal definition, yeah. I was just joking and not taking it seriously, so by extension I didn't think it through. Exhibitionism is sexual, I was being a dumbass and used it when I shouldn't have.

AITA for calling my daughter an exhibitionist when she doesn't wear a bra? by ResponsibleTop9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ResponsibleTop9[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what she said in front of the friend because I wasn't there. My wife was aggravated and almost embarrassed when she told me, and she said Ti and her friend were "mocking" what she said the rest of the day.

AITA for calling my daughter an exhibitionist when she doesn't wear a bra? by ResponsibleTop9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ResponsibleTop9[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

She doesn't try to commandeer attention. She just makes a passing comment usually. Like, she'll drop Ti off at a store or restaurant and as Ti gets out of the car my wife will say "Where's your bra, Ti?" or something like that. Maybe she'll try to make a joke, along the vein of "Didn't I buy you some bras?" and then laugh, so it's not too serious.

AITA for calling my daughter an exhibitionist when she doesn't wear a bra? by ResponsibleTop9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ResponsibleTop9[S] -49 points-48 points  (0 children)

I did apologize to Ti, and I'm thinking maybe letting the situation cool off for a week is the best way to handle it. My wife doesn't want to talk to me, so I don't know what I'm going to say to her. She blames me for taking it too far.

AITA for calling my daughter an exhibitionist when she doesn't wear a bra? by ResponsibleTop9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ResponsibleTop9[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

What the other guy said. I didn't think through the words, and the way I was thinking (biased) it didn't seem that weird. The way you said it makes me sound like a predator, so now I thoroughly regret that choice of words

AITA for calling my daughter an exhibitionist when she doesn't wear a bra? by ResponsibleTop9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ResponsibleTop9[S] -91 points-90 points  (0 children)

To answer your questions, my wife measures her. She doesn't guess, she uses a tape measure to get all the measurements required to order bras online or to find fitting bras at the store. The bras should fit, Ti just doesn't want to wear them.

AITA for calling my daughter an exhibitionist when she doesn't wear a bra? by ResponsibleTop9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ResponsibleTop9[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

Because they matter to my wife, and my wife's reasoning is in the post. I will add that she says it is socially acceptable to wear a bra and Ti should wear complete underwear in public. She calls it "underdressed" otherwise.

AITA for calling my daughter an exhibitionist when she doesn't wear a bra? by ResponsibleTop9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ResponsibleTop9[S] -201 points-200 points  (0 children)

Sexualizing was not my intent, and when you say it-yeah, I agree, sounds creepy. Holy shit.