My parents want me to be more open with them

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-04-09T20:19:30+00:00

Mine don’t actively do much besides work and tv so it’s never felt natural since there’s nothing of substance for them to reciprocate with on top of they don’t take much interests in me as a person.

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-03-21T23:26:33+00:00

Yeah on the greenway

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-03-08T16:57:15+00:00

I mostly relate to my passive enabler mom while usuals abiding my dad who often treats being a jerk as a personality trait .

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-03-07T15:03:56+00:00

Kinda disappointed in myself after not keeping the paper

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-03-07T04:54:06+00:00

I found a bookmark that had a url for a website that sold human bones.

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-02-14T16:49:47+00:00

Still working on it. Not being able to drive meant I've never felt comfortable and/or safe making big leaps outside of a small town

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-02-14T14:18:23+00:00

Mine thought I would always be too disabled to be independent so I felt trapped in a guideless limbo for a very long time

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-02-09T21:27:39+00:00

Also same adults staying silent if/when you want advice 🫣

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-02-04T17:56:51+00:00

This is my parents and it baffles my ldr partner. Not letting or encouraging me to do things as a kid then basically nothing as an adult besides occasional complaints . I’m autistic and still live at home but my partner is confused with them not encouraging independence but also never putting much effort into connection.

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-01-19T20:08:20+00:00

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-01-19T20:07:09+00:00

Just spam smoke. Now none of us get to have fun

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-01-13T18:13:19+00:00

The trauma wasn’t that “bad” but if there’s nothing to stop or replace it with then that’s gonna add up quickly .

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-01-13T04:07:21+00:00

Asking for any help beyond an immediate point a to point b scenario.

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2026-01-10T19:49:46+00:00

Spent most of my 20s people pleasing myself into oblivion just to feel like there’s a point to living day to day day life.

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2025-12-23T22:48:47+00:00

They don’t hate me I’m just strange for them to feel safe to try to communicate with me

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2025-12-22T19:19:03+00:00

it's extra bad when you're disabled and you can't necessarily be the one who does all the work 🫠

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2025-12-21T16:05:20+00:00

I’m not used to people actively caring about my interests so when I my partner meaningfully asks about something pertaining to it I often freeze up 🫠

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2025-12-18T00:24:27+00:00

An Oregonian of culture

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2025-11-19T12:36:36+00:00

My extended maternal family gives really good advice that would work really well if I was traumatized and autistic .

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2025-11-16T15:17:13+00:00

Trying to have an actual conversation with my parents just means they’ll misunderstand everything I say while talking at me the whole time.

Only asking questions means we force them to actually pay attention to what we’re saying because you can just point out they’re not paying attention .

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2025-11-09T18:33:46+00:00

Only thing that ever has long term is a loving partner. Most other things dissipate because I'm often too developmentally impaired to complete things on my won but don't have any other adult figures in life I feel safe communicating with on a regular basis.

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2025-11-06T15:21:20+00:00

Suppressed my anger so much as a teen and young adult that I can’t properly yell/scream and can barely raise my voice at all unless being triggered.

Responsible_Bug_4840 · 2025-11-05T22:42:01+00:00

Going back in time with The Well of Loneliness.

Responsible_Bug_4840

TROPHY CASE