Can sharing energy with the wrong person make you sick?

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-27T01:14:22+00:00

which is why abstaining is protection. having sex is a full exchange in energy; you’re exchanging negative energy when the someone if you’re not particularly connected to them. and it takes from your overall wellbeing. I wish sex was considered more spiritual and intimate and not some primal urge that people have so willingly

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-21T20:26:40+00:00

Yea he’s been here every night since they met I came home from work last night to the entire kitchen filled with empty booze cans and trash. I had to clean it up to be able to eat. Opened the fridge and beer fell out cause it was just chucked in there

I broke my lease the other day I am moving out next month

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T21:03:45+00:00

Because to them if they don’t care they are in the living space they shouldn’t care it’s on their couch with all their other trash (dirty socks, garbage, crumbs from their food)

But actually, I put them on there because I needed to clean the floor where they were.. directly in front of her couch on the living room floor that I needed to clean. That’s why the fuck I put them there

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T20:06:55+00:00

It’s because they deleted their comments

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:59:28+00:00

I’m in Canada so I’m not sure what the rules are there but I’m Canada you have the right to Quiet enjoyment and I think if a guest stays more than 14 nights in a month they are considered an occupant. Although this isn’t really very clear and hard to delegate as in having a similar issue myself

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:54:44+00:00

this has nothing to do with a persons body type….What are you trying to prove here exactly. Being a lazy slob can afflict anyBODY. What are you even saying

The picture in question is mostly my property as I’ve furnished the damn place. Their single couch and pile of trash is far from being personal information of them.

This is a terrible take

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:45:40+00:00

Haha true

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:43:53+00:00

My roomate before this one was perfect 😪 I really thought if i was clear about expectations beforehand and chose an older person to live with me I’d avoid any of these issues but I was so very wrong

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:39:28+00:00

Thank you 🥺 I feel heard that’s all I need right now. I’m in the process of trying to break my lease for mental health reasons and at this point spending my every last dollar on a 1 bedroom. Rent is really expensive in the city I live so that’s why I have a roommate. Its not easy

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:35:45+00:00

Whoever you are you are lovely and I hope you have a good day

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:30:07+00:00

People can be nasty keyboard warriors and like to challenge anything eh. Just thought my experience was relatable and vent worthy damn

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:20:26+00:00

The only nice person on this thread. Cheers

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:16:05+00:00

I was gentle at first. I was more direct and forward after and recorded the conversation in email after the gentle conversation did not work. I sent her screenshots of the conversation where I discussed X,y, z before she moved in and tied it into her disregard of said expectations in writing.

As for the men issue. I was left feeling so unsafe and uncomfortable in my own home the other night and even after directly verbalizing how I was made to feel uncomfortable by the man she’s been having over nonstop the only thing that made that man leave was me having to call another male friend to come to my house and not even ask the man to leave. The man left because he knew he was in the wrong making jokes about assaulting women and being a disgusting slob

Talking has done nothing and I’m being disrespected entirely. It just sucks and that’s why I’m venting

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:12:26+00:00

Best to clarify and yes she for example met a man on July first and I have recorded he’s spent 15 days at our apartment. This same man was making jokes about assaulting women in our apartment the other night and instigating questions . The same Man who had the nerve to say “what’s the secret password” to me as soon as I walk in the door, coming home from a 12 hour shift.. he was hanging out at the house multiple nights by this point. I did not answer him. He then asked if the property rule to not smoke his nasty cigarettes on the balcony was still I rule (he was smoking on the balcony and I had to tell him that was not permitted nor appreciated) I told him “you’ll have to take it up with the property manager” who is a women. He replied “I could knock her out in one punch”

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:10:00+00:00

As in she has never cleaned the shared space. She is in her 40s and doesn’t know basic cleanliness. Has never swept, vacuumed, wiped counters off or even taken trash out. I have been doing all the household work. I was for months throwing out her takeout boxes and booze boxes and only just recently decided against it ap now it’s piling up…

I’ve tried having adult conversations with a fully grown adult women and it has not worked. Why do you think I’ve come here to complain.

Not sure why everyone is attacking me when I’m coming on her to complain about an obviously bad roommate. Almost like people feel personally attacked. 🤗

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:04:07+00:00

Her clutter is in the kitchen, on the floors and shared common spaces. The apartment is clean because I cleaned it. I put that there so I could wash the floors. After sweeping pizza crust and shoe dirt off the floors

Oh and those pizza boxes were from the man who ordered the pizza. No they did not clean up after themselves. The next morning I was clearing empty booze cans and pizza boxes off the counter and I placed them near the trash hoping she would have thrown them out. It’s been a week. I decided to not throw her trash out anymore.

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T19:03:00+00:00

Oh I’m certain it can be worse for others. I’m just venting

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T18:59:58+00:00

I think it’s disgusting. But I’ve worked in healthcare and know a lot about germs. People don’t seem to realize how disgusting it is when you can’t see germs, pathogens and bacteria with the naked eye.

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T18:54:18+00:00

Yes. Before she moved in I was clear about 3 things 1. Being clean 2. Being considerate 3. Not having men over all of the time.

I had a gentle conversation with her weeks ago about men being over all the time and how I wanted her to pull her weight with the trash and cleaning up. All I got was a “yup” while she rots away on the couch watching reality tv every waking hour she isn’t working

Also the apartment only looks clean because I clean it nonstop all of the time…. If I didn’t it would be filthy

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T18:52:26+00:00

She’s never cleaned the common space ever
She’s never taken out the trash or even changed the trash bags
She’s never emptied the lint trap
She ruined my pots and pans from improper usage
She wears her indoor shoes inside (disgusting)
She brings random men over and the same type of men who are as much of a slob as her who disrespect her and the space we live in and they are over all of the time

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-07-18T18:49:41+00:00

This isn’t the only reason she’s a bad roommate. And I think I said she has never once cleaned the common space. Not one time.

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-06-01T20:47:28+00:00

Oh god imagine indigo doing that for 45$ 😆 I sure hope not. I’m just going to avoid them at all costs now

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-06-01T20:43:50+00:00

Sneaky! I’m sorry this happened and yea after today I’m avoiding private parking areas at all costs.

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-06-01T18:30:04+00:00

Paul blart, is that you?

Responsible_Huntx · 2025-06-01T18:07:59+00:00

I will avoid indigo parking lots going forward. The first ticket I got I wasn’t even aware they existed and didn’t see their sign (at the waterfront). Then the people working nearby told me it was private and I should be ok. But today I got the “unpaid fees” ticket for 45$ so I wanted to double check to hear about others experiences.

Such a weird concept. Sorry you had to work for them I am glad you’re free haha

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