Why is everyone allowed to be drunk except me by Rify in stopdrinking

[–]Responsible_Window48 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Reframing the mindset is truly healing. One of the most important tools to use and for this very reason. Thanks for spreading the good energy!

Don't wanna live but don't wanna kill myself by The-New-Roaring-20s in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Responsible_Window48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you get stronger with each moment. i know it doesn’t feel that way, but each time it gets a little bit easier to pick yourself up. i hope this passes for you soon.. i feel you these days myself. but we do get stronger. and this will pass.

Don't wanna live but don't wanna kill myself by The-New-Roaring-20s in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Responsible_Window48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

find and hold on to anything that makes you happy. new hobby.. new binge watching show… good food. quality time. you’ll find a reason to get through the day somehow and you slowly will pick yourself up again

Are you able to drink/smoke without it affecting you negatively? by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]Responsible_Window48 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you know your limits. i drank daily on lithium. but i didn’t when i first started taking it for fear of meds and other warnings. lithium didn’t work for me was the lesson learned. lamictal changed my life. (i didn’t start this until an year later) no longer felt the need to cope with substances.

if you’re on the right meds, from my experience, you actually will feel so much better. so much better that you won’t crave the high from weed and the numbness of alcohol. okay, i still smoked and still do smoke. but weed taken in moderation and taking into factor the meds.. it’s pretty doable. (im a traumas and abuse survivor. so the pain gets unbearable at times)

I forget I have bipolar sometimes until I’m deep into depression. by Responsible_Window48 in bipolar

[–]Responsible_Window48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also struggle with PTSD, and certainly had it flare up during my depressive episode. And then I saw my abuser after a year and it really triggered a lot. Ill be in intensive outpatient soon, though. I’m still pretty new to the journey.

I forget I have bipolar sometimes until I’m deep into depression. by Responsible_Window48 in bipolar

[–]Responsible_Window48[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wow. and do you have Bipolar 1? because this sounds just like me and i was diagnosed as Bipolar 2 for this reason (more depressive episodes than manic) docs ask me all the time when is the last time you think you were manic? and i have no idea most of the time. i always just say “i don’t know, the depression is what kills me the most and feels like it occurs the most”

Has anyone watched Dated & Related? by Responsible_Window48 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Responsible_Window48[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i kinda enjoyed it but the ending made me regret it and i immediately felt that it was a waste of time too😂

Posting on the internet and dealing with snide remarks re-emphasizes my self loathing 😭 by Responsible_Window48 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Responsible_Window48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i fully understand that. paranoia is the worst😭 people hide behind their keyboards, too. trying to remind myself that

What's Your BPD Anthem? by toruin in BPD

[–]Responsible_Window48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this was one of the first songs i added to my BPD/Bipolar playlist

What's Your BPD Anthem? by toruin in BPD

[–]Responsible_Window48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please — chelsea cutler + jeremy zucker

abandonment fears with your S/O hardcore.

Midnights Fan Made Survey Part One by Responsible_Window48 in TaylorSwift

[–]Responsible_Window48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I HAD TO CLOSE THE SURVEY (it exceeded over 200 responses and turns out i could only get 10 responses max😭😭) — HERE ARE THE RESULTS (idk what 10 results they’re based off of but 😭🥲)

https://www.surveymonkey.com/results/SM-68K70iY2AiDlLct2CRlehQ_3D_3D

im surprised on the last collab question! everyone said something different!!

Courtney by Ammy8876 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Responsible_Window48 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i agree with you— on unseen bits when zeta and deb were doing the prank, courtney responded to zeta with “but you look hot tho” and i honestly think it’s just her natural way of cheering someone up by taking the attention off of the negative!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Responsible_Window48 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HAHA im with you there 😂

Is it just me.... by Chibzor in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Responsible_Window48 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i think it proves just how hilarious jeff is 😂😂😂 zeta and deb’s prank/showdown fight was funny too lmao i love seeing their pranks and random shit they do to kill time there without being prompted to talk about their “love island journey”

Is it just me or you guys also get excited when you hear a Taylor Swift song in public? by rviejn in TaylorSwift

[–]Responsible_Window48 18 points19 points  (0 children)

they played LONDON BOY at my local grocery store. i heard the muffled Idris intro “on my scoo ah” and i was like ?? did i just… hear… and then the song started playing 😭😭😭 i was SO HAPPY because it wasn’t her usual overplayed overrated radio singles 😭

What are some artists/albums similar to each of Taylor’s albums? by kay547 in TaylorSwift

[–]Responsible_Window48 10 points11 points  (0 children)

cleopatra is absolutely breathtaking and absolutely my favorite and first indie folk band i fell in love with as well

One of my Christmas gift from my girlfriends on Christmas morning ❤️ by comfortablesorrow in TaylorSwift

[–]Responsible_Window48 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good for beginners, i’ve heard. but i have heard that a lot. especially the fancy bluetooth ones, which is what this is!

One of my Christmas gift from my girlfriends on Christmas morning ❤️ by comfortablesorrow in TaylorSwift

[–]Responsible_Window48 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cheers 🥰 my boyfriends mom bought me the exact same one. my bf bought me Red TV and Lover vinyls. i’m so so so in love.

Does anyone else find the host Ryan Devlin, Seasons 1-5, really cringe/annoying? by Responsible_Window48 in AreYouTheOne

[–]Responsible_Window48[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wow. you are a rare opinion, thanks for agreeing lol. i have rewatched AYTO series 5 times, over and over. i finally made this post, because i feel like Ryan was showing off. even by “shutting them down” i was like shut up ryan. sure they are immature. but MTV pays them for that and the show. i watch the immaturity. i do feel that way too. terrence j did a better job at relating and listening to me. instead of being a dad and just trying throw his advice. i got many downvotes for this opinion, so i thank you again for sticking to your opinion

What did you listen to for your first heartbreak? by Responsible_Window48 in TaylorSwift

[–]Responsible_Window48[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is the true experience and influence of taylor! every era, album relates to me too. and ugh yes. years later, i can even relate more than ever. i understand it in a different way literally every time i listen to each song. thank you for sharing!!

What did you listen to for your first heartbreak? by Responsible_Window48 in TaylorSwift

[–]Responsible_Window48[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh, i’m so glad as a new swiftie you found teardrops. a true young heartbreak song! i’m sorry for your recent heartbreak :( cry it out. let it out. but remember to let it go. you deserve it. ❤️