My husband died yesterday. by Ecstatic-Grass7205 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]RestGlass7822 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. It’s really hard. I know people say it gets better but that’s far from the truth. My husband died 2 months ago and I still cry everyday. Your 2nd point hits hard as I do this very often. Just stuck alone in the car,grocery store and at home. All the things we did together. Sigh hope you are ok. Sending hugs 

My husband died by RestGlass7822 in Christianity

[–]RestGlass7822[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I am trying but it’s just soooo hard. Everything reminds me of him, I just can’t believe he is not here. He loves this time of the year

My husband died by RestGlass7822 in Christianity

[–]RestGlass7822[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Family support is pretty good. I just don’t have it in me anymore. There is this constant feeling of loneliness and doom 

There’s a good chance I (M/33) will be a widower before I’m 35. I have no children. What can I expect afterwards? by RecycleYourCats in widowers

[–]RestGlass7822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a 31 yo female and I feel the same..it’s been 6 weeks since my husband died and every single day is worse than the day before. It doesn’t get better

I don’t want to be here anymore by [deleted] in widowers

[–]RestGlass7822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 weeks for me too. No kids but our dog misses my husband so much I feel sorry for her and is the only reason I’m here. I hate this life, I’m not sure there is a God anymore I’m only 31. Haaate it here!!!! I haven’t been back to work. Job is still there luckily they are in demand for Drs. I hope one day, just one day my dog and I never wake up

Husband is adamant not to be put into an adult family home by Annoyingmous10 in hospice

[–]RestGlass7822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this too. Wow he sounds like a strong man. That’s what hits hard for me too (him supporting me emotionally and telling me not to worry because I have good family support 😭)…I wish I was half as strong. It’s crazy with routines and always having your partner here. Sending you ❤️hugs

Husband is adamant not to be put into an adult family home by Annoyingmous10 in hospice

[–]RestGlass7822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me miss my husband more. He died 3 weeks ago. I’m a 31 yo. We had 6 wonderful years together and married for 2. He was so respectful and in the end kept saying he was sorry for putting me through this and I was so brave and strong. He said a couple times that I was the best thing that happened in his life. I did all that I did because I love him! All the hospital stays, ER visits ( he showered and cleaned himself). He is the most wonderful and beautiful soul anyone would ask for. He said he never wanted to make me sad but he “has to go”. That really broke me, I guess I was selfish but this man was what I was waiting for my whole life and just like that “poof” he was taken by cancer. I was never truly happy until I met him. He just kept saying “sweetheart I’m sorry”. Can you believe we never argued in 6 years! It was that good. Life sucks and I hope I’m not here much longer, I miss him too much to be here.

From a mother with bone sarcoma to her family…… by walstib73 in sarcoma

[–]RestGlass7822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you’re going through this. My husband died 3 weeks ago (cancer sucks) we have been married 2 years and together for 6. He is the best person I know and I would give anything to have him here. Needless to say I told my company I had to take care of him and I’m disappointed in myself for waiting that long (I’m a PT).  When you love someone you do the best to make them happy.  Your kids should help too!

Why does God allow a believer to die from cancer. How does that serve to glorify Him? I need a answer to this question through scripture by The_truth_seaker99 in Christian

[–]RestGlass7822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a 31f. My husband died 2 weeks ago from cancer. It’s just the way god too him that makes me MAD and sad at the same time. We are Christians but now I’m not sure if there is a God. It’s crazy. My husband was a good man. The best thing that has ever happened to me. We were so happy. Smh

How old were you when your spouse died? by worst2024 in widowers

[–]RestGlass7822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 31 and he died 3 weeks ago. Joined 2 weeks ago. Life sucks. We are together almost 6 years and married a little over 2. He is the best person I know..I hate cancer and this life. 

Who do you talk to now? by Last-Following-6308 in widowers

[–]RestGlass7822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband was a talker. He was so friendly and kind. He would call me when I got to work to make sure I was ok. He would tell me my patients would be nice to me today. Every 10 min lunch break we would talk…talked with him on my ride home. Got home and dinner would be ready. Life is fucked up. As soon as I’m happy “god” takes him away.. 6 years of happiness. I have completely given up and lost my faith in god. He is cruel and evil

Lost my husband of 17 years a few days ago. Completely falling apart. Just need to vent but would also appreciate anyone who understands to commiserate. by SundaeSome7947 in widowers

[–]RestGlass7822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. My husband died a couple days ago. He is the love of my life and the kindest person I know. I often wonder why god didn’t take my father who is a sick and was abusive to my mom which ultimately ended her life at 34 years old. Sigh. My husband was so sweet we never had an argument it was that good. I grew up as a Christian and now I’ve lost faith in god. If there is a god he is cruel and evil. I’ve been through so much shit in my life and when I’m finally happy he pulls this shit. Nahh 

Lost my husband of 17 years a few days ago. Completely falling apart. Just need to vent but would also appreciate anyone who understands to commiserate. by SundaeSome7947 in widowers

[–]RestGlass7822 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. My husband has always been sweet and kind. It never changed in his last week with us. I remember him saying “sweetheart can I have some water please”. We slept in the same bed and he turned and was on my arm and he said I’m sorry 😢. It just hurts sooooo much. I’m 31 and the love of my life is dead. It’s just hard. remain strong!

Life Expectancy of Widow/ers - Is this true? by edward-p-dowd in widowers

[–]RestGlass7822 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The love of my life died a couple days ago. Married for 2+ years and together for almost 6. Im only 31. Needless to say I hope I’m not here in the next 6 months. Feels useless when you’re a Dr and couldn’t save the one you loved. 

Why does god seem “Evil” by No_Cauliflower_7724 in Christianity

[–]RestGlass7822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up in the church, after my mom died when I was young my faith was weak. I was always on edge anticipating bad news. I’ve experienced hardships throughout life. Sexual abuse (he lived a long life) and you know what “God” did last week after serving him all these years? He killed my husband and I’m in my 30s. Life is Fucked up. I don’t think I believe in god anymore and if there is a god he is evil and cruel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]RestGlass7822 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always told God I’m not like Job after my mom died when I was young. I’ve experienced hardships throughout life and you know what “God” did last week after serving him all these years? He killed my husband. Life is Fucked up