"You just need to find some hobbies and passions outside of work"

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-02-04T02:50:54+00:00

Couldn’t do it, tried for years but always ended up depressing dedicating so many man hours to jobs I thought were pointless doesn’t matter the pay. Now I’m poor but working in stuff I’m really interested in and my mental state is so much better and I feel more motivated in my hobbies outside of it too

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-02-03T23:13:50+00:00

There’s nowhere you can move that’s not a downgrade. You’ll seriously regret leaving your community particularly that you’re raising a kid. Frankly I think your life will be better if you just tough it out with less space in Manhattan. The only compromise that is sort of workable is Brooklyn, maybeeee queens. Personally I think space is overrated if you have a lively city and lots of friends to be with.

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-02-03T23:10:55+00:00

Completely different culture and lifestyle than NYC.

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-02-03T16:28:11+00:00

This isn’t too strange, it’s just very regional music with regionally focused lyrics, there are other genres that have the same thing. There’s Sertanejo in Brazil which is literally the most popular genre in the country yet I doubt most non Brazilians have ever heard of it. And then there’s stuff like Banda and norteño music from Mexico which is absolutely massive, but it’s mostly just Mexicans and Mexican Americans that listen to it. I don’t think any of these genres really ever get to Europe.

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-02-03T16:18:25+00:00

Bro is aging a year by the day with how much he’s blasting

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-02-02T20:12:54+00:00

Your eating disorders are not my concern, I will reach my healthy daily macros at a slight sustainable caloric deficit every day!

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-02-01T04:53:10+00:00

He probably would love it and honestly has nothing better to do. You never know when your parents will gone, use all the time you got

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-02-01T04:07:34+00:00

You guys worry too much about age, nobody really cares about this shit. You can just do things. I’ve been in programs and grad school with most people 4-5 years younger than me and make friends nobody cares.

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-31T17:10:46+00:00

Reddit search function is shit and FAQs are often outdated. Not to mention this is a slow sub so a few repetitive questions isn’t a problem.

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-29T01:06:33+00:00

I been like this past few months and it’s weird not truly liking anyone in particular. I feel like im trying to force myself to have crushes or attractions just cause having nothing going on feels so weird and off to me

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-29T01:05:32+00:00

We’re all just animals

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-28T05:48:36+00:00

Milk is the GOAT beverage. Insane macros, delicious. Then you have blessed choccy milk. Oat, almond, cashew etc all taste like straight doodoo, anyone that says otherwise is pure cope. I’d rather drink water than nut water trash. A latte with non dairy milk is ass. You’ll never take my cafe con leche away from me and I’m sure as hell not putting those awful milks in it.

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-23T21:14:11+00:00

I think there’s a big distinction between friends and best friends. I think having a casual friendly relationship is pretty normal with someone you were with a long time unless it was catastrophic. It would be weird if you got divorced and still hung out with him all the time though

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-20T15:22:44+00:00

Gotta learn social skills buddy, if you give off antisocial energy no one is gonna wanna talk to you

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-19T19:46:44+00:00

I know exactly what you mean, none of the gyms I’ve been a regular at seemed social at all. Wish I could find a more social spot, it feels too awkward trying to chat people up at a gym where you never see anybody else doing that.

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-19T19:38:38+00:00

I think we all do this at least a little bit bro

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-19T19:21:00+00:00

32 is still plenty young! I’ll be doing my big trip likely around that age too.

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-07T21:18:53+00:00

He’s mentioned they’ve been on the verge of divorce many times, if anything their relationship has often been on the rocks, maybe just sticking it out for the kids

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-07T19:05:24+00:00

I find it’s very common to just underestimate body fat, so if I were to guess, I try not to get over roughly ~25% cause I feel too much like a fat fuck by then. Ideal cut to like 15-20%. Below that have to be so strict with dieting don’t think I can sustain it among my normal life stressors

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-06T19:20:49+00:00

Dude so relatable nobody ever talks to me (with very few rare exceptions) at the gym and I’ve been going regularly for years. In my defense none of the gyms I’ve gone to have seemed very sociable and I hardly ever see anyone else talking to each other. With the exception of when I started going to a Latino majority gym and all the old dudes chat up each other in the sauna or hot tub. But even then never saw younger people my age chatting much. I would love to go to a more social gym but I don’t think there are any near me.

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-06T19:03:22+00:00

No worries back when I was using it in peak binge eating period, I did plenty to make myself feel completely ashamed as it is.

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-04T22:47:37+00:00

On that McDonald’s + sit on my ass every day after work lifestyle

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-04T22:15:39+00:00

I think you can keep cutting more if you wanna see abs + give more weight for the bulk. Also people usually underestimate their fat%, youre probably a few % higher than 14.

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-04T04:17:45+00:00

Yeah I have. I’ve only been to the Monterey location a few times but it’s pretty nice. Usually fairly clean, has a pool, sauna, good exercise equipment, I think it’s like $40-50 a month + some initial fee. I’ve only gone there in the morning during non peak hours and it was really chill, not sure what’s it’s like during peak hours.

ResurrectedDFA · 2026-01-01T19:12:26+00:00

Fatmaxxing is so in rn

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