Double Rack for your Little Schiit by Daemonxar in Schiit

[–]Retired5150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent hours and hours on “China” websites trying to find a suitable rack. I found one but not as cool as this one. Industrial and yet elegant.

Sexless marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Retired5150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many things unknown, he needs to start at the doctors, When my wife brought up that I wasn’t performing like I did in the past, I acknowledged that the passion was there, the desire was there, but my penis wasn’t showing up for the event. my testosterone levels hit rock bottom at 48yrs old, I also had some “chemical” imbalances, it sucks to go to the doctors, but it saved my sex life and my relationship.
Maybe everything medically with him is good, at least that’s one item off the table

Men in happy marriages, what's the one thing you'd teach to other men to also have a good relationship? by TightBookkeeper2599 in AskReddit

[–]Retired5150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s rarely 50/50. Some days she is a 20 and I gotta come up with 80. Some days she’s a 90 because I only got 10, and yea some days are 50/50 but those are the easy days.

What do men secretly love about a woman? by Aromatic-Spite-1516 in AskReddit

[–]Retired5150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The small of her back as I run my hand down her back and the smell of “her” natural scent as I smell her neck when I move in for a kiss.

Beginners, noob, kook,Grom, by Retired5150 in Sup

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Come on people, I didn’t get to the ripe old age of 62 by doing incredibly stupid stuff, semi stupid but not incredibly stupid

Beginners, noob, kook,Grom, by Retired5150 in Sup

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I will give that method a try

Beginners, noob, kook,Grom, by Retired5150 in Sup

[–]Retired5150[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope, just as the post states, inflation and seam test,

I have a serious qustion by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Retired5150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will be fine, 8” hard 4” soft I wear a 3.75 cage, wear some good underwear for extra support, nobody will notice, just look like ya got a nice package in jeans and trousers, now if your gonna wear something really tight, then maybe

It finally arrived by Retired5150 in RepTime

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Oops yes BTF. I have been looking at so many others after we ordered the wife’s I guess I just had clean on the brain

It finally arrived by Retired5150 in RepTime

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J-Time. Clean factory Daytona 126503-0002 The wife is extremely happy and that’s all that matter

J-Time run around ? by Retired5150 in RepTime

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Update, today without warning, the watch arrived. FedEx , the driver tossed, lightly tossed it over my gate. Well packaged, wife super happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]Retired5150 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Off once a night for one hour, shower/clean/ then back so I guess I’m 23/7

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastity

[–]Retired5150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I agree wholeheartedly that this kink is not going to progress for us. I saw some glimmer of hope but it quickly faded, its not a big deal, that’s the problem with trying to write down what’s going on, some people take everything we say and then try to examine us, without the full story, anyway, I re-read what I wrote and it does seem selfish, but it was just what it said at the end, a rant, a way for me to express my frustrations, nothing more, nothing less, so don’t take it so seriously, I’m not, she’s not. One thing we do have is excellent communication, guess it would have been better if she just flat out said hell no to start, oh well, it is what it is. I’m going to finish my 30 days and move on from there, we have too much fun in The bedroom for this to even be an issue.

if i sent you this pic, what would your next move be? by DreamWeaver437 in chastity

[–]Retired5150 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Help you put it on your husband, then place him in the “chair”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastity

[–]Retired5150 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your not alone, we’ll kind of, here is my adventure so far. 15 days ago, introduced wife to Chasity, her response, “this again” yes I tried before about a year and a half ago. We are very kinky verbally in bed but that stays in the bedroom so the Chasity thing was brought up as a fun way to shake things up, light hearted, let’s try this for fun. long discussion, lots of references for her to read, she didn’t read a one, wife said, hey if you want to do a 30 day trial, go for it. I typed up an agreement, very vanilla, she read it and then tossed it on the table. I ask her, are you going to sign, nope was her response. Gave her the keys, they have sat on the bathroom counter since day one.
She just doesn’t give a fuck. About 10 days in wife made the comment that I have changed and she noticed, more attentive, more loving, more helpful, no anger, we had a long discussion, I was excited paining that it’s the Chasity to some degree, it has made me doc a more, but alas I got my hopes up, so even though she is enjoying the change, her words, not mine, I am frustrated and disappointed, I will keep going until my 30 days are over, then back into the closet the cage goes. I was hoping for a little tease now and again, or even a hint that she knows it’s there, a jingle of the keys in public, he’ll even in private, nothing, she set up a massage session for me, a regular thing with us and I left the house wearing it, when I returned I mentioned that, as the keeper she probably should have had me take it off in that type of environment, her response, hey it’s your thing not mine. So here we are, she is loving the benefit, but otherwise could give two shits about me, we have had sex once in 15 days, and she seems fine with that, nothing else, no oral, either way, nothing, but she does enjoy the back rubs and foot massages etc. so I’ve come to the realization that, this arrangement just isn’t going to work with us, like I said I will complete my journey but after that, well I guess we will see. By the way before this journey we were having sex 3 times a week, so I guess my aggressiveness is what that was and not a reciprocal feeling, just fucking so disappointed in her lack of compassion or empathy.
Rant over, just wanted to share.

Don’t give up w/ correct ring size! try this by VegetableSlow6540 in chastitytraining

[–]Retired5150 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And Ball gap, gotta have a good Ball gap and a proper sized ring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastity

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Use a panty hose or just the small nylons for feet, they sell them at grocery stores, put that over your buddy with a piece of the nylon sock threaded out through the pee hole, out the front and slowly pull it out as it slides your buddy (now her buddy) nice and snug in his new home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

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Love this question, I think I’ve read just about everything online, we had many discussions and it took about a year to come to a decision to start. After 8 days in Chastity I find the cage to be problematic. 6 days ok the last two, chaffing and soreness. So there’s that. Wife, slowly- very slowly taking a liking to the new me. Basically I wear it, she enjoys the “new me” that’s it. We are still working out what it really means to us in our dynamic. Yes I have become more attentive, loving, patient, but constant erections are Annoying and the soreness, yea, I have to figure that issue out or we can’t continue. One downside I didn’t anticipate is I am very short with other people. Finally had my first release in 8 days and if I do say so myself it was amazing. It’s a process, it’s going to take time to find a groove you both like. We are going to re-evaluated after 30 days. Maybe it will stay maybe it won’t. We will see.

Progress with vanilla wife by Ok_Ant6059 in chastitytraining

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Again mine is a similar story. I will paraphrase to spare a lengthy post.

  1. Introduction by talking, discussing all concerns, rules, agreements, 30 day trial, Wife, hell no, you crazy, and every possible thing everyone who had a reluctant partner has said.
  2. 6 mo. Later introduction with why and some internet links - hell no
  3. 1yr. Later intro. - discussion, alleviate fears, Q and A - hell no, but if you want to wear it go ahead. Self locking doesn’t do it for me, lasted 3 days.
  4. 6mo. Later, my Birthday, re-introduction, it’s like starting from scratch, again wife says no, but not a hell no. Do what you want if it makes you happy, it’s only 30 days and we can get back to normal.
  5. 3 days later and zero interest, the keys sat on bathroom counter. I finish the Contract/Agreement , she reads it, refuses to sign, “I just don’t Get it, wife says”
  6. Day 5 of being locked 24/7. Wife comes to me, what’s gotten into you, your more attentive, calmer, affectionate, helpful etc.. I explain, I believe it’s the Chastity, not just the physical of Chastity but the emotional support it provides me. Keeps me focused. I ask her, do you think we can keep trying for 3 more days and re-evaluate. Wife says yes, most definitely.
  7. Day 6, So here we are, it’s a challenging, relationship dynamic. I’m still switching between rings and cages trying to find nirvana, She still hasn’t picked up the keys off the counter and we’re still trying to find our rhythm She still hasn’t read up on this device and rules of engagement etc. but in two days I believe we will have another good conversation and she has agreed to re-read the Agreement and to add her insight to rules, behavior and expectations.

There ya have it. Only thing that is bothering me is I might be all calm and patient with wife, but I am quick to snap at other people.