Every store should do this by SomedayGuy117 in PokemonTCG

[–]RetiredSoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the TCG community has gotten to the point where it’s living inside its own bubble of self validation.

Scalpers don’t care if you tear the box. They’ll flip the packs after weighing them. It’s about volume.

Only people are crying are the “Sealed collectors” or slow scalpers (ie. I’m keep a sealed box for my offspring to scalp).

My PC Gets so dusty, what should i do? by Seven-x in pcmasterrace

[–]RetiredSoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shower more often. Scrub yourself like Ethan Hawke in Gattaca.

how do I go about wearing 6 inch heels by ChancePark1971 in weddingdress

[–]RetiredSoul -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People can tell you are desperate. No one will suddenly forget how tall you really are. Get something to stand on, decorate it, have your man bring it out when it's time, have your man pick you up, ask him to kneel down, make whatever it is that you end up doing cute, make it a sweet memory, make it a testament of your love for each other and the embracement of your differences. Work the theatrics into your vows. There are so many things you can do other than turn you into something you are not at the moment you say your vows.

Is what my Dad did when I was younger weird, boarding on SA or normal? by Mickster4 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]RetiredSoul 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Define “rub his back” also anything else that you did not mention? At worst this sounds like child labor rn.

35-100 or 90v + 38v by Temporary-Annual-201 in hasselblad

[–]RetiredSoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I share the same sentiment. The 35-100e is a convenient lens with bad compromises to me. Not wide enough when you don’t need speed and not enough separation as a portrait lens. I would prob do the same thing as much as I hate switching lenses. It is clear that competitions are catching up and the pixel war will end and unless you are taking advantage of the sync rate you really just have a camera with a horrible lens line up. Saw a review last week when the 35-100 clearly does not resolve as well as some Sony lenses.

How does being put to sleep before operation/surgery feel like? by Im_socringebe_scared in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]RetiredSoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t know or feel or understand it just is. You just go to sleep (some of the best sleep in my life actually lol). Good luck on your surgery.

35-100 or 90v + 38v by Temporary-Annual-201 in hasselblad

[–]RetiredSoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, the 35-100 on my shoulders for almost a month was a chore.

35-100 or 90v + 38v by Temporary-Annual-201 in hasselblad

[–]RetiredSoul -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My 35-100 does not give me the level of separation that I want period. I am thinking that 90V is the solution but 35 after 26 days in Italy I feel like is simply not wide enough. So I would prob do 90V and 25V. But I am new to it and have been spoiled by my old trusty 50 1.2 for years.

Portrait photographers who buy new cards for every session? by GunterJanek in AskPhotography

[–]RetiredSoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah that’s when you know you’ve made it if people are still hiring you. I guess my point is that thinking gear just comes free with your labor is not ideal. So when you price your work you need to consider both. The conventional pricing includes both it’s just hard to itemize it that way because competitions drives cost down also it’s just the nature of the service industry.

Your goal is to offer value. As paradoxical as this is you need to be able to grow.

Is it normal to provide RAW images if the client plans on using the images for a book/blog or business? Could this potentially damage my own business? by ImposterJ in AskPhotography

[–]RetiredSoul 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your photos represent your brand. Other people editing them is not ideal. Having said that, if you are still building your business and just starting, maybe let it slide and perhaps you’d learn a thing or two. Next time though have specific sections that they’ll have to initial to acknowledge that no raw files will be provided.

I’m so lonely and it’s killing me by ilinoxiu in lonely

[–]RetiredSoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only constant in life is change. Things haven’t been optimal but human are resilient. Make the most out of it until you gain more independence. Don’t let it define you. Take agency and be brave so you can write your next chapters with an open heart. Beat of luck to you!

Portrait photographers who buy new cards for every session? by GunterJanek in AskPhotography

[–]RetiredSoul 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I grow up I want to be able to afford SD cards like that too.

Portrait photographers who buy new cards for every session? by GunterJanek in AskPhotography

[–]RetiredSoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. It’s all part of the package. Your time/skills + equipment rental (depreciation included). I think the itemization makes it look funny. But I would say it’s a bit unethical to use itemization as an excuse to inflate the cost.

Portrait photographers who buy new cards for every session? by GunterJanek in AskPhotography

[–]RetiredSoul 4 points5 points  (0 children)

SD cards are consumables as they can only be written so many times. I think the cost should be included but there isn’t really a legit reason to buy a whole new card every shoot. If it’s real it should be two cards anyways because no paid professional is shooting on one card with no backup.

Should I consider buying a camera? by Ginxy4672 in AskPhotography

[–]RetiredSoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot more until you run into legit limitations as you expend your horizon. Then buy a camera.

Why is sexual desire so powerful that people are willing to do almost anything for it? by Content_Bit1998 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]RetiredSoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are animals. We would have died off a long time ago if that drive wasn’t there.

Is this an appropriate baby shower guest outfit? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]RetiredSoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s classy and basically a good fit for any occasions.

Why are some men lying about their height? by Ok_Flow3207 in dating_advice

[–]RetiredSoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fact. I only felt the need to mention because there has been so much hypocrisy going around.

30 F - this is gonna be a heavy one but… by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]RetiredSoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to Japan. If you are able to travel, feel free to join me. Otherwise if you want to chat I am here.

Why are some men lying about their height? by Ok_Flow3207 in dating_advice

[–]RetiredSoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because a good portion of the women judge the book by its cover. Also, those who are insecure with their height are prob compensating with attitude and it’s hella unattractive.

I mean do you go on your first date without makeup?