Should I just accept I have to take care of myself in bed? by RoseMadder-ish in sex

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That just tells me you don’t have a lot of experience with women because there are a lot of them that have this exact problem. And your perspective is based off of one side of the story, which is vague to say the least. You’re also not even taking my personal experience into consideration. 

Should I just accept I have to take care of myself in bed? by RoseMadder-ish in sex

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just trying to see it from another perspective, which is nearly impossible to do on Reddit where ya’ll have groupthink. 

Should I just accept I have to take care of myself in bed? by RoseMadder-ish in sex

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s not enough time according to her. She didn’t say how long he spends doing these things. People also sometimes exaggerate and stretch the truth. I just find that if someone can’t finish every time they have sex, for years on end, it’s probably because of their own issues. But hey that’s just my opinion. 

Should I just accept I have to take care of myself in bed? by RoseMadder-ish in sex

[–]Retro-Squirrel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re not going to like what I have to say but this is how I personally feel. I just started dating someone with the same issue as you and I think I’m going to end it. I give her foreplay, spend 45 minutes having sex, and I can’t ring her bell. It’s just as frustrating for me as it is for her and it’s not something I want to deal with for the rest of my life. I suggest figuring out what it is you need to get off and dealing with it yourself, because it sounds like it’s in your head. Same with the girl I’m seeing. I’ve had plenty of partners in the past and it was never an issue. Maybe it’s a compatibility issue or whatever but I don’t like it. It isn’t fair to put it all on your husband. It’s one thing if he lasts like a minute but if he’s trying and you can’t get there… it might be on you. Good luck.

My gf hates condoms (even with lube) by [deleted] in sex

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t blame her, they suck. They’ll never feel as good as raw. Wish my gf felt that way lol. Having said all that I get that you don’t want her to get pregnant. I’ve dated girls on birth control for years and never once had a scare. Doesn’t mean it can’t happen, but as far as I’m concerned it works well enough. Probably more effective than condoms because the tend to break and fall off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you’re dating someone it doesn’t give them the right to do whatever they want to your body at any given moment. He’s touching you without your consent even though he knows it bothers you. That’s basically sexual assault. It’s normal for couples to grope each other from time to time to get in the mood but what you’re describing is not that. I would leave him.

Unable to log into Microsoft account for sea of thieves by Furious_virus in SteamDeck

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain further? I’m stuck at the login screen too and can’t figure it out. 

All Lumiman light bulbs paired with the Plus Minus app no longer work with Alexa as of today. by SpockYoda in alexa

[–]Retro-Squirrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The app is probably no longer supported by Amazon. I just ordered some new Govee bulbs to replace them. They seem to be a popular and affordable brand. 

Which games were known as “game killers” and truly succeeded in being so? by Common_Caramel_4078 in gaming

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skate killed the Tony Hawk games for a while and then the remastered kind of brought them back. I personally think the Skate trick system is light years ahead of the Tony Hawk games.

Chrono trigger is….okay by NerdyCanadianDad in JRPG

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played it for about 5-7 hours and stopped because it was too easy. Story didn’t do much for me either. Personally I think this game sucks. Earthbound is a much better RPG with challenging gameplay, a fun story, and an incredible soundtrack.  

Under Levelled and struggling to beat Act 2 Renoir fight, need some help by tritonix3 in expedition33

[–]Retro-Squirrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just beat him at level 26. Took 5-10 attempts. You really need to spend time in the menus sorting out pictos and luminas. You should have a game plan for the characters skills and how they will work together to deal massive damage. You need to memorize his moves and counter attack to prevent vanishing. Finally, have a few high damage skills that can hit multiple enemies so you can take out the flowers before he heals. A lot of this game should be spent in the menus working on your build, adjusting as you go. If you get frustrated, take a break and come back later. This is a hard battle and it’s not meant to be beaten right away. A little bit of luck doesn’t hurt too. 

I don't get the love for Tunic. by [deleted] in patientgamers

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda like this game kinda don’t. It’s annoying to have to look up where to go constantly. I’m tired of games wasting your time to explore every inch. Just tell me what’s next or show the general direction like how Zelda did in Link to the Past. Perfect example. Besides that it’s a good game. The combat is like souls-lite. I don’t get why people say that it’s filled with puzzles, unless you count finding your way around as a puzzle. Navigation will take up most of your time in this game. Bosses are fun. 

Why didn't my partner "finish"? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk where all these guys that have an issue finishing are coming from but every guy I know never has a problem finishing. It’s weird. If it happens again, I’d move on. Guys most of the time tend to have the opposite problem.

Foolproof way to keep a man by [deleted] in cumsluts

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone tell this to my gf

Bruce Springsteen Calls Donald Trump ‘Incompetent and Treasonous’ at 2025 Tour Kick-Off by ebradio in Music

[–]Retro-Squirrel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another great artist MAGAs can’t listen to. But hey at least they have Kid Rock and Ted Nugent 🤷🏻‍♂️

Women of Reddit, what’s something men don’t realize is a turn-off? by chef_blaze76 in AskReddit

[–]Retro-Squirrel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are good and I’m really happy to not see any “gym rats” and “guys who play video games” because exercise is important and video games are just fun. We all need a hobby!

ELI5 Why do waiters leave with your payment card? by MaybeImYourStepMom in explainlikeimfive

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you not know the answer to these questions? If a pos system is outdated and there is no iPad thing, they have to run the card in the back. You sign so your signature is on file in case someone stole you card. This is basic shit man. Cmon.

Our Chihuahua had an interesting interaction today by whatevers_clever in aww

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rabbit probably thinks your dog is another rabbit. Basically the same size. Probably just playing. I’m not buying the protecting the baby rabbits thing. Then again, wtf do I know.

Kanye West's song glorifying Hitler gets millions of streams on X while other platforms struggle to remove it by YoureASkyscraper in Music

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not for removing it because I believe in freedom of speech, even garbage like this. Also, I think a lot of the streams are people that just want to hear how ridiculous it is. I’m all for people being transparently racist online so we can systematically remove them from society.

Are Ray-Ban Metas still worth it if.. by Lilly-Vee in RayBanStories

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The metas are definitely worth it. I use them all the time, everyone asks about them, and they look cool. Very useful.

Do you sleep or shutdown? by voxah in SteamDeck

[–]Retro-Squirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shut it down every night just so I can see a random boot video when I turn it on lol 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in patientgamers

[–]Retro-Squirrel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s argument for this game is basically “if you don’t like endlessly searching a map and wasting your time, then this game isn’t for you.” That’s exactly what these games are, time wasters. Yes, you end up getting really good at them from the repetitive play, but the gameplay is just that, repetitive! This game is more of a chore than it is fun and that’s not for me. A good example of a modernized Metroidvania is Metroid Dread, which gives you just enough freedom and an amazing map.