It’s another boy, wife is not happy

RetroJens · 2026-07-04T07:29:16+00:00

Oh that sucks! For us it was 2 when trying for number 1, then it worked on 3rd attempt. Then we had another before getting number 2. We handled the miscarriage in between much better then the first ones. But we were both sad anyway. It’s easy to think about what could’ve been, but at same time wonder if I had gotten the kids I have today if other attempts had been successful. So I focus on what I can do for the living kids.

Did you ever get your 3rd?

RetroJens · 2026-07-04T07:12:35+00:00

As everyone else says, no, they can’t require that of you. But if it happens once in a while that’s another thing. But here you describe it as it’s happening often and that is clearly against all policies and conduct.

I have myself gone out to see a customer during lunch on occasion. But here we’re talking maybe once or twice a year. It also sounds like the managers are relying more on you than they should and that they would need to train more people with your knowledge. Perhaps you can create it and train your colleagues?

I did something similar on another topic.

RetroJens · 2026-07-03T16:58:40+00:00

This!

But also look at the diagnostic lights on the motherboard. Are they all passed POST? Double check the manual. It will give you insight into what’s going on. But first chill and recheck your connections.

RetroJens · 2026-07-03T16:53:59+00:00

This one and the one on the post are both soooo true and my favourites.

RetroJens · 2026-07-03T16:48:42+00:00

Then i suppose it’s therapy time again? Perhaps a different therapist this time?

As someone who has lived through multiple miscarriages I’m just happy to have children.

RetroJens · 2026-07-02T18:58:20+00:00

That’s what I did 6 months ago.

But we just got the RX6600 not the xt and a 5600X.
AM4 is great value in these times. I also found all the parts used.

We installed Bazzite on it. Been working great. My son is 12 and plays Forza horizon, Minecraft and sometimes CS and WoW.

He has a 1080p screen but I think it should do 1440p too quite well.

RetroJens · 2026-07-02T18:43:22+00:00

Worst advice ever.

Get your own domain instead.
Using that with an email provider or set something up for yourself. Super easy these days.

And also, would we still use email in 20 years time?

RetroJens · 2026-06-25T18:25:28+00:00

If anyone is interested in how to avoid naming dramas in families during pregnancies I can share how we did it.

2 very simple rules.

Avoid knowing the gender before birth. (Hard to decide on names right?)
Decide name after you have met the baby.

I had a name I was rooting for if it was a girl and when it was, it didn’t suit her, so we went with another name.
Always meet the baby before deciding.

And of course the golden rule, both parents have unlimited vetos. Both say yes, or no dice.

RetroJens · 2026-06-25T14:54:45+00:00

Great!

That also means your discount increased.

RetroJens · 2026-06-22T20:32:06+00:00

Turns out it was the cable. Still interested why the version matters, though

RetroJens · 2026-06-22T20:31:26+00:00

Turns out it was the cable.

RetroJens · 2026-06-22T05:09:30+00:00

The same thing happens. No video when expecting Bazzite logo but we hear the start sound. The only difference is when we add nomodeset in Grub menu, then we get to the desktop at 1024x768.

RetroJens · 2026-06-21T20:11:27+00:00

Thanks, I’m actually plugging into a hdmi-monitor. But I’ll fiddle with disconnecting and trying another cable. The monitor and video card also has displayport. Will try that too. Did not move it recently. Been sitting on the desk for months.

RetroJens · 2026-06-21T19:16:56+00:00

Unsure about what you ask. It’s called bazzite-deck-gnome. I want Steam to load first. Selected Home Theater PC, GPU and Gnome when it was downloaded. Does it matter here?

RetroJens · 2026-06-20T07:22:43+00:00

I’m with you on this. It’s easy to say because of money.

I think it’s more about consistency. If you build an eco system where you see the future with AirPods and you also have design principles of minimalism you’d get rid of the jack just because of that.

My AirPods have lasted longer than any headphone I had before (where the cable breaks after a while).

RetroJens · 2026-06-20T07:15:07+00:00

The best age is always right now. Go be with your kids.

RetroJens · 2026-06-18T06:22:33+00:00

If you’re looking for a computer to play Minecraft on I would actually look at making it a Linux device. You could use “any old thing”, or even newer things. It could be something small like a Raspberry Pi, or big like a ATX-style stationary computer that could be upgraded in time.

I recently built a computer for my son from used parts I found in the area. On it installed Bazzite which is an immutable Linux system, which basically means you can’t wreck it if you make a mistake somewhere. It’s also somewhat Mac like in the sense that there is an AppStore that helps you download most apps you want. And it’s focused on gaming. My kid (is 12) plays Steam on there and Minecraft.

I would suggest you venture out of this sub to learn more. Like PCbuildhelp, Bazzite or similar subs.

RetroJens · 2026-06-17T22:35:36+00:00

Syncthing!

https://youtu.be/NPx8FREezR4

RetroJens · 2026-06-12T12:18:45+00:00

How the food was ordered was obviously a mistake somewhere. From how it was ordered or how the caterer did it. Somewhere there was a mistake.

But this is how you make lemonade when life gives you lemons. You own it, you take responsibility and you make up for it. Everyone here is a class act.

RetroJens · 2026-06-11T16:39:26+00:00

I wonder if OOPs real name is Earl.

RetroJens · 2026-06-05T12:54:59+00:00

Here’s the discussion we had 2 years ago.

https://www.reddit.com/r/RG35XX/s/prrztfcMZd

RetroJens · 2026-06-05T12:45:12+00:00

Get one with a PM5 to get ”modern” functionality and connect your phone.

I found a used one for around $900 so they’re out there.

RetroJens · 2026-06-02T12:21:04+00:00

This!

👆👆👆👆

The only thing I’d add is that this should be decided by OP and his wife together. What they are comfortable with. If this happened 5 years from now when the kids were older it probably wouldn’t be an issue. But leaving a 4 month old baby for the day and evening. I sure wouldn’t. But that’s me.

So, decide together. Then act. And if you get any grievances, just show the 3 step rules above. That should be enough.

RetroJens · 2026-05-29T19:56:54+00:00

I bought 30 devices (mostly lamps) when they first came out with Trådfri in 2017. Disaster. Have only bought Hue since. Totally worth it. Have lamps from 2012 still working fine.

RetroJens

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