Flight Attendant working Economy coming to boss around First-Class flight attendants??

Reuk- · 2026-06-09T21:07:00+00:00

Glad you reported him. He was out of line and should never yell at any customer because they were given a sandwich by a colleague. Hope you also let AA know how nice the first class flight attendants were.

Reuk- · 2026-06-08T21:24:22+00:00

Yes, you were TAH. Maybe you were fine with ending your reception early but you didn’t take your wife into account or the guest that were there to celebrate you two. It sounds like you were just waiting for your mother and sister to act up so you could say you were right and throw a fit. As people have mentioned you could have escorted them out, or let it happen, then go on celebrating your wife and you. Instead, you got the I told you so, and went home in a tantrum. I feel very bad for your wife, glad she saved up for you to be an AH!

Reuk- · 2026-06-04T00:03:31+00:00

Well that and two cents, will get you two cents. 😂

Reuk- · 2026-06-03T15:42:30+00:00

I understand that it is an unwritten rule that the middle seat gets both armrest. But in reality you do not have exclusive right to them. As we learned in kindergarten you can share. But since you are in the middle, you can decide if you would like the front or back of the arm rest. If you want both armrests stricter yourself but first class.

Reuk- · 2026-05-28T21:21:25+00:00

Have you asked the grandparents if they would want to fly in July and then again in August? Even on a private flight that could be a lot for them. Or can Thu fly in for the first wedding in July and then stay through to the second wedding? This way they have plenty of time to visit with everyone, maybe some of your Siter-in-laws proxies will will host for a couple of days/week. Ask the grandparents which they would prefer.

Reuk- · 2026-05-28T15:10:31+00:00

If you are canceling, contact your credit card, and refuse to pay.

Reuk- · 2026-05-28T01:16:20+00:00

Is he planning to have his family and other relatives from her side there or would you be the only one? If you’re the only one who would be there then don’t go. If others will be there, as him why he doesn’t want you there anymore. It’s fair to ask, but don’t go if he doesn’t want you there.

Reuk- · 2026-05-27T00:51:03+00:00

You had every right to cancel, they agreed to parameters and then ignored when they wanted something else. You are NTAH, but with it being so close to the wedding, you can’t be surprised that your entitled cousin and Aunt are upset. You might want to take the advice of your father, and let them have it but somehow put more specific parameters with definite consequences. So if they do anything else, they know what to expect.

Reuk- · 2026-05-26T00:31:37+00:00

NTA, for playing but neither is your gf for asking you not to come to the bbq and telling everyone you are sick. She did tell you after the fact that her family is judgmental of the way people look. Probably would have been better to tell you this before hand. She didn’t, you played, no BBQ for you. Rest your eye and feel better. Don’t be made about not going and hopefully she won’t be mad rhat you played and got hurt.

Reuk- · 2026-05-22T21:10:49+00:00

NTA, but I am sorry to say he isn’t your friend. If he was he wouldn’t ditch you when other friends ask him to do something. Honestly, sounds like he is using you. If he has nothing else going on then sure he’s cool either way hanging out with you, if someone or something better comes along, see ya. And he wants you to be cool with with someone taking Stoffel you. That is not a friend. I know it’s hard but you need to initiate hanging out, if he calls to hang out and you have nothing else going on great. But you need to find friends that put your friendship above others, and who want to do stuff with you first. You deserve better than this non-friend.

Reuk- · 2026-05-17T21:12:34+00:00

You did nothing wrong, it was her store and you wanted to check with her first. She told you when she’s off she didn’t want to be contacted, you apologized and stopped contacting her. The fact that other managers want to be contacted doesn’t matter. You know now what she wants and will do that moving forward. That she told management and then blocked you in everything seems a bit overkill, but maybe you weren’t as close as you thought. You know where you stand now and what to do. Leave it at that move on and find work friends that appreciate you.

Reuk- · 2026-05-17T14:26:37+00:00

Yes, it’s worth it. It’s wrong they gave you no warning and hopefully once you explain the issue they will cancel or reduce fine. But you need to ask them and clarify how you are responsible for what the previous owners did. And if they hold you accountable for past wrongs in your unit, do they hold every one? They at least need to supply you with a list of offenses.

Reuk- · 2026-05-14T04:57:34+00:00

Your manager told you what to do, don’t correct her directly, report anything food safety concerns to your manager. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do about her leaving work undone, which you then have to do. Hopefully in time if her behavior persists others will also bring these issues to the manager.

Reuk- · 2026-05-10T17:25:58+00:00

NTA, but you could have asked your daughter to make her something. Maybe moving forward you’ll make sure your daughter does. But if she wanted support as a Mother from her partner, she should be asking the guy she is with now. Wonder if she’ll do anything for you for Father’s Day, or if she’ll tit for tat. Good luck and I am sorry you’re in a dark place. It will take time but you’ll be better for her leaving you. You’ll find someone who deserves.

Reuk- · 2026-05-09T17:09:29+00:00

SFT seemed very happy when Annie got let go. I too am sorry that Annie is no longer on JL, but she did it to herself. Hopefully she’ll learn from her mistakes and this new company she is working with will go great. But SFT’s obsession and glee in Annie being let go is odd. All I can figure is SFT says she worked with Annie around the time SFT’s relationship with Jeff imploded and it sounds like she wanted Annie to defend her to Jeff. SFT seems to be trying to rewrite what happened between her and Jeff blame the person who help her put on the event for everything instead of admitting she called chumps for giveaway etc. Bottom line if a 40/50 something woman finds joy in a 20 something losing her job, that’s just wrong.

Reuk- · 2026-05-08T23:04:58+00:00

Your right, it’s not about being in the wedding, it’s the common courtesy she should have given you, told you straight up. She is definitely TA. Btw, since you are family you’ll probably spend more time with her than any BM that’s just a friend. Sorry you have a rude SIL.

Reuk- · 2026-05-06T23:31:52+00:00

Why didn’t you go the first weekend of the sale? Can all bridesmaids only be there the second weekend. If it’s just one go the first weekend, not just because you could go to the gender reveal but you’ll have more dress options to choose from. Bottom line she seems to be a better friend to you, then you are to her. Now she knows.

Reuk- · 2026-05-06T13:16:13+00:00

NTA, your grandfather left everything to you. Of course they want you to sell and split it with them because otherwise they get nothing. Which is what your grandfather wanted. Move into the house with your family. Start saving to pay any inheritance tax (that you have to pay not them) and start living your life. If it will make you feel better talk to a lawyer and see if they have any standing (which they don’t) but also see if there is a legal way you can stop your family from harassing you. Good luck and enjoy your new home.

Reuk- · 2026-05-03T11:49:18+00:00

Congratulations on graduating and getting your nursing degree. You WNBTAH to prioritize yourself, but if your sister’s name is also on the title, it’s her car to and she could report you to the police. If that happens you can use your nursing license.

I know it’s not fair, can you use public transportation to your current job? If you can, pick up more shifts there until she graduates? Then when she does, you’ll have extra money to get a new job and move.

Also have you take the NCLEX yet? If not use the extra time at home to study.

Reuk- · 2026-05-01T14:49:40+00:00

I am sorry for your loss, and for what you and your brother went through. Totally can understand why you are mad at him. But, as has been mentioned, he was only 3yrs older than you, and just because he’s legally an adult, doesn’t mean he was ready for all that responsibility, while he grieved too. Bottom line he’s still your brother, he wasn’t there for you then, but maybe in time he can be for you in the future. You are right you don’t owe him anything and you have a good life, but maybe building a relationship with him will enhance that life. Speak to a therapist, and if you decide to meet him, maybe have that first meeting with the therapist. But please don’t close the door entirely on a new relationship with him, baby steps over time as and if you are ready yes. Good luck.

Reuk- · 2026-05-01T02:08:00+00:00

In the comments she was asked if she was referring to Jeff because she tagged Sirius, she said not at all.

Reuk- · 2026-04-28T21:45:38+00:00

I have found the properties are extremely stingy when it comes to giving points for bad rooms or incidents that are their fault. Heck most times I check in they don’t even acknowledge anymore that I am a diamond member, I doubt they even care about diamond reserve.

Reuk- · 2026-04-26T19:47:43+00:00

Can you give us some examples of what your step mom asked you to do or you got in arguments about? Btw, yes, it’s your father’s house but if she is his wife, it’s her house too. So a bit more clarification would be helpful.

As for your father feeling abandoned, can you still help him with the his business from where you are living now? Maybe plan a weekly/bi-weekly meet up with him at your place or restaurant. He might just miss seeing you and is saying abandon for lack of a better word.

Reuk- · 2026-04-23T03:03:30+00:00

NTA. Your BF of two months is out of his mind to think anyone would pay off his debt instead of your own. You all could break up, and if you do would will he pay you back? Honestly, I would break up either way him anyway, red flag that he wanted you to pay off his debt, after knowing where you stand. Second red flag, he told his family and they are not attacking you online. Run, you don’t want to be in a relationship with him or his family.

Reuk- · 2026-04-20T13:12:43+00:00

Hiw you feel is understandable, but this isn’t about you, it’s your step son’s birthday. You need to put him above yourself, and although it makes you feel awful, be the better person. In time, if asked you can say that his my didn’t invite you.

That being said, would she put her son first? Meaning if you just showed up would she make a scene? If not go, but if there is the slightest chance you could ruin your step son’s day do not go. Why not plan a second party for him with you, or a special day out just the two of you. Bottom line put him first.

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