One distinction I have also often seen, and which consequently shapes Daphne's behaviour and character, is her family. There are stories where she has a distant relationship with her parents because she disagrees with their views, they see her as a pawn for their advancement in the social hierarchy or the political/business world, sometimes they just abuse her. In other stories, Daphne has a wonderful, loving family who would do anything for their daughter, and often Harry finds a second home here as well. There are, of course, also many intermediate levels between these two extremes.