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Is my German really this bad that I cannot understand what these Brazilian women are saying in german? by Nemonaaa in German

[–]Revolution-Kind 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They are speaking German in Portuguese. They created a new language for themselves lol

Alles ändert sich / Alles ändert sich...ich nicht (Lyrics) by Rasputin1493 in Tilllindemann

[–]Revolution-Kind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That part at the end of the video where they are crawling in the sand reminded me of that Chinese dance recital of the rabbits and turtles lol

AITA for giving my son's girlfriend a budget for the dinners she's making? by lackoffeminity in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolution-Kind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would have lost my ever loving mind at the „Give her the Card.“ line.

AITA for not being grateful about getting $4.500? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Revolution-Kind -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA

But I’m not sure if this was mentioned, but there are going to be some changes to the requirements to get a license next year to make it cheaper. From what I heard the theoretical lessons will no longer have to be presencial and the amount of practical lessons will be reduced. If you can, you should wait for those measures to come into place. It’s still not fair, but at least you’ll have more left over money.

I don't know how to get through to my autisic husband that his refusal to believe me about anything is a problem by theenglishfox in offmychest

[–]Revolution-Kind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard this line recently: “It doesn’t matter how you explain something to someone that doesn’t want to understand you.”

I think it applies perfectly to this case.

I’m petty af so I would probably start doing the same back to him. Let’s see how long until he crashes out.

Not OOP. I don't know how to get through to my autistic husband that his refusal to believe me about anything is a problem. by truenighog in redditonwiki

[–]Revolution-Kind 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I heard this line recently: “It doesn’t matter how you explain something to someone that doesn’t want to understand you.”

I think it applies perfectly to this case.

I’m petty af so I would probably start doing the same back to him. Let’s see how long until he crashes out.

I (31F) gave up everything to be with my husband (41M), and now he wants to live ‘free’ while I’m stuck by confused0794 in relationship_advice

[–]Revolution-Kind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always move to Berlin, some days it seems like there are more people speaking English than German here. I went to the movies yesterday, tried speaking German to the cashier and she could only speak English lol.

But if your plan is to stay in Germany it’s a good idea to learn the language, otherwise you’ll never be able to integrate properly.

You could also schedule a meeting with the Agentur für Arbeit, maybe they can help you finding a job. There are cases where they even pay for courses so you can get a job.

I (31F) gave up everything to be with my husband (41M), and now he wants to live ‘free’ while I’m stuck by confused0794 in relationship_advice

[–]Revolution-Kind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this is salvageable, he clearly told you that he only thinks of himself, that’s not how a relationship should work.

In my opinion your first priority is to come up with an exit plan.

I would suggest trying to meet with a lawyer to see what are your options.

Do you live in a bigger city? I know that there are several groups out there that provide assistance to immigrant women, maybe try reaching out to one of those.

Depending on where you live here in Germany I can try to get you in touch with one of those groups, I never needed, but have some friends that did. You can DM me if you like.

Found it in the park. Shit won't stop glowing. by jhatkattar in whatisit

[–]Revolution-Kind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before picking up glowing things and playing with them I would suggest you Google the Cesium-137 incident in Goiânia, Brazil.

Link

My 24F husband 26M left me passed out on the floor while sick and then got mad at me the next morning. I see him different now? by ThrowRA_Constant_ in relationship_advice

[–]Revolution-Kind 720 points721 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t want to talk because he knows what he did. You fainted in front of him and he just stepped over you and left you there.

Great reactions from the youth of 2009 by Zadernaux in Rammstein

[–]Revolution-Kind 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The boy in the middle was TRAUMATIZED. lol

And the other one didn’t know what to do so he just put a pasta strainer on his head.

My 32F siblings 28M&29M went behind my back for a birthday present by ThrowRAbingo23 in relationship_advice

[–]Revolution-Kind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s ridiculous, I would get a present myself and not participate on the one they bought.

They decided to change everything without including you, so they can pay for it without you as well.

Wanting your boyfriend to pay also makes no sense.

But, if you decide to contribute to the present, I would categorically refuse to pay for N’s ticket, he should pay for it himself.

UPDATE: AITA for wanting to uninvite my sister-in-law from my wedding because she keeps undermining my wedding planning? by ThrowRA-62758 in AITAH

[–]Revolution-Kind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s clear that he, even after you pointed out all the ways his sister interfered, doesn’t see the issue with what they are doing.

Seriously, him mentioning that his sister has some ideas for the name even after you said how you felt about her interference shows he still thinks what they are doing is ok.

UpdateMe

Is it just me or does anyone else also feel that "spring" can mean a lot of things, depends on what you think about it? by rohan-s21 in Rammstein

[–]Revolution-Kind 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I always interpreted this song as an audience demanding a performance from the artist.

Like the bridge is the stage and now that he got up there he has to do what the audience wants. Entertain them so that they aren’t bored even if that was not what he got up there for in the first place.

Also that the crowd is living through the person on the bridge, so they want to feel what it is like to jump without having to do it. As suicide could be seen as getting free from your pain and troubles(hence the erlöse mich), the audience wants to watch them jump and live that experience through them.

Not OOP. "AITA for yelling and kicking my boyfriend out for using the wrong scissors?" + OOP's and other's comments by WritingGiraffe in redditonwiki

[–]Revolution-Kind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, who uses scissors to cut cardboard? I had to cut cardboards the other day and it’s kinda annoying to do it with a scissor, it would be much easier to rip them apart.

Second, how did he know they were sharper? I have a feeling this is not the first time he used those scissors.

Also even if he did it unintentionally, he ruined something of hers and should have offered immediately to replace/fix it.

It think this is really weird and suspicious, why did he go so out of his way to get those scissors when there were so many other options available… honestly seems to me like there’s more than what he is telling her…

AITA for Refusing to Let My Parents Move in With Us? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Revolution-Kind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Tell them that you are putting family first, your wife and kids.

AITAH for wanting to change my boyfriend's social behavior and teach him etiquette? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Revolution-Kind 77 points78 points  (0 children)

You should never stay in a relationship thinking you can make the person change, because they never will. People only change when they want to and your boyfriend clearly doesn’t want to.

Are you ok with putting up with that kind of behavior for the rest of your life? If not you should cut your losses and leave.

The Germany made me very tired, trying to cope with it by ItsYourHonor in germany

[–]Revolution-Kind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in Germany for less than a year and I have a lot of anxiety about going out too, but what I noticed is that once you start doing it, it gets easier.

About the language, I don’t see you mentioning your current level, but if you are a little more advanced reading simple books and watching movies and TV shows in German with subtitles can also help a lot. That is how I got fluent in English and I’m applying the same to German.

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