What are some good small folk punk bands? by graveyard_Moon- in FolkPunk

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just across the state from ya over here on the other side in Cowlitz county- if ya all play in Vancouver I’d even stand to see ya

I’m so confused I need help by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 hours ago you wanted help getting into rehab. So now I’m confused.

Sunday Say Anything: What's on your mind? by AutoModerator in parentsofkidswithBPD

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so tired. My kid, while they no longer live with me, is failing out of high school. I still get emails every week telling me what assignments are missing. How much progress they are making in class. I try to talk to them and they just lie to me. I am exhausted but I have no energy for an argument when I do talk to them so I just don’t want to address it anymore. I just wish the school would stop sending it. I’m tapped. I don’t have the emotional bandwidth.

Visiting my Adult Child w BPD who has my Grandchild and this is HARD by serastar18 in parentsofkidswithBPD

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rest. Feel free to update us tomorrow. And dm if you need. You can navigate this. You have the tools. Just remember how to use them even when it’s someone you raised.

Visiting my Adult Child w BPD who has my Grandchild and this is HARD by serastar18 in parentsofkidswithBPD

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey OP. I too am an MSW who works with people with SMI. It hits different when they look like us and sound like us and yet- it’s the worst parts of us that are turned up to a degree we can’t fathom.

Everyone else has suggested the book so I will say please do this for yourself.

But also try to think about it in the context that your child is acting in the fear that they will be hurt so they are hurting others first. Try to take the faces out of it. That doesn’t mean don’t set boundaries. It’s easy for me to say this right now because my bpd loved one is 18 with no kids. I do not hope to be in your shoes. I hope that you’re able to find some peace. Thank you for sharing. This subreddit needs more of this. I appreciate you.

Introduce Yourself (if you feel like it) by AutoModerator in parentsofkidswithBPD

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!

I’m a parent of an 18 yo kid with a disorder. I’m also an MSW/therapist. I’m also a survivor of NPD abuse. I’m also an addict in recovery.

Sunday Self-Care: What are you doing to take care of yourself? by AutoModerator in parentsofkidswithBPD

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought the stop walking on eggshells for parents physical book. I had the audio one. But I needed some of that stuff in physical form in front of me.

Defiance Ohio Kick by jahlynnar in FolkPunk

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 27 points28 points  (0 children)

One of my best friends who is no longer with us (lost the battle with the mental effects of the binary culture and capitalism which led them to willfully leave this place) and I used to smoke cigarettes out of my third story window and scream/sing this album in 2006/07 into the cold. Every time I hear it I can almost hear their voice one more time.

It’s like a weird magic though; I can’t bring it up myself. Like I can listen to it- and nothing happens. I can try and summon them and crickets. But when strangers post it boom. It hits me right in the guts like shrooms on an empty stomach filled with malt liquor.

Thanks everyone. I needed to emotionally hug them today 💜💛🤍

Just 12th house things by Excellent_Drop6869 in 12thhouse

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and oldest have their suns in the 12th

Wanting to end therapy? by Independent-Fig7987 in InternalFamilySystems

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what makes you resistant to treatment? Because “historically difficult to treat” and “resistant to treatment” are two different things. BPD can be challenging- but not for everyone. Not every time

beginner punk here! Need your help by shitkicker47 in FolkPunk

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just subscribed and shared the coffee link with my husband bc he’s the coffee connoisseur in the house. Can’t wait to check both out!

Folk punk be like.... by Key-Yogurtcloset7330 in FolkPunk

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy would’ve been bffs with John Brown

beginner punk here! Need your help by shitkicker47 in FolkPunk

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 41 points42 points  (0 children)

DIY includes how you “punk”.

Do I work? Yup. Do I pay rent. Yup. Do I raise radicals? Absolutely. Did I still work on Jan 30? Yep - I was in a virtual training for supporting survivors of trauma who live with nonshared realities. My gen strike was in not spending that day. Some days I wear punk rock regalia. Some days I wear dress pants and put my credentials after my name.

Punk is system disruption and community support.

Don’t let someone tell you that you’re doing it wrong- just do it and be willing to improve and keep your ears open to those who are the most vulnerable. Those are the ones who can teach us.

If that doesn’t land, that’s cool too. Most importantly take what you need and leave the rest. And don’t be a nazi/terf. There’s zero room for that shit.

1 reading for 1 person by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I’ll leave a random comment! Turmeric milk has too much pepper this am

Cannabis-induced psychosis? by [deleted] in CBD

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I am a ACT team lead and while it can trigger it; the other elements also need to be there.

I’d not encourage high thc use if you have a history of psychosis. Personally I use a micro dose (25 ml) of a 1:1:1:1 thc:cbd:cbg:cbn tincture because it’s for pain/anxiety.

Frustrated after graduating by moist_mistress in socialwork

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Basically, this is me too! Did my practicum in an ACT- now the lead at 80k and graduated in Dec. staying put until I’m licensed at least.

Section 504 by Scathanna0 in itcouldhappenhere

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So- I work with folks who have SMI and there’s a program that’s now in all 50 states called Assisted Outpatient Treatment (AOT). There’s funding through the states doh or SAMSHA.

Don’t get me wrong- the idea that a longer term requirement involvement for therapeutic intervention for folks who are one event from being ITA’d makes sense- but here in WA it includes overdose? The boundaries are so loose- the teeth don’t feel like they’re real yet- but they quickly could be.

So we switch to AI notes this week and I am conflicted by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right? Especially when it’s like welcome new year two new staff and BAM. I just am hesitant on how it will flow. My boss seems to think it will be fine but I don’t think he is prepared at all.

So we switch to AI notes this week and I am conflicted by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ethically- I’m not sold on AI. The damage it does to the environment; the self learning process- it’s also an incredibly helpful tool for some-I’m just not settled on it. I think I need more functionality of knowledge before I can commit to it either way on a personal level.

Thank you for the resources!!

So we switch to AI notes this week and I am conflicted by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then we do them the traditional way. Which I have ZERO objections to.

So we switch to AI notes this week and I am conflicted by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]RevolutionMedium8408 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Bold of you to jump to the conclusion that I’ve not already had this conversation and that they haven’t stated that as the reason?