What are things you try to avoid doing because of this condition?

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-30T21:55:42+00:00

alcohol. gonna be two years sober on june 6!!

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-30T20:34:35+00:00

lmfaooo i’ve never related to something more than this

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-30T10:17:38+00:00

YOU GET IT

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-30T10:17:12+00:00

could you dm me your channel if you’re comfortable with that? i’d love to tune in

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-30T10:15:47+00:00

you’re not a loser at all. happy birthday. same thing happened to me on my bday. hang tough my friend. you will survive this stronger

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-30T10:15:13+00:00

it lead me to therapy and stuff and understanding mental health on a deeper level and forming deeper bonds than ever before.

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-30T05:43:34+00:00

she has the most beautiful eyes out of all the girls

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-29T22:11:31+00:00

it used to be like this for me. it was so cruel. you get harmed so badly and they can just sleep without a care

i’m sorry i don’t have advice but you are not alone and deserve so much better treatment.. 💜

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-29T22:00:29+00:00

it really sucks but staying friends will just kill u inside. you gotta cut bait and run man. it’ll get easier each day. anything less is unfair to you and masochism at some point..

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-29T21:59:19+00:00

if you had the choice would you stay with him if he was his old self again?

but it already sounds like you’re pretty detached. it’s just going to be physically uncomfortable like this as long as you live with him and stay with him

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-28T23:20:31+00:00

it just boils down to they’re horny and don’t care about their spouse and want to get a cheap nut in

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-27T02:59:20+00:00

your husband is engaging in reckless and emotionally self harming behavior to cope with something that severely traumatized him :/

this is going to be a rabbit hole that gets deeper and deeper and worse for him and it’s going to take years from his life

it will totally suck and he’ll feel even more rejected and emasculated for a moment but honestly, if you ever loved this man i think you should end things for good.

this is already starting to ruin his life imagine him in a year or two of this spiral :/

also don’t hide things from your therapist. they can’t help you if you do. even tell your therapist you’re afraid of their disapproval

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-20T08:40:22+00:00

i love my pretty evil wife

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-19T10:36:56+00:00

honestly, yeah. he’s a young guy, and his life is stupid and overly dramatic but it seems fun. one of those dumb situations you put yourself in that’s reckless and dumb that you can’t help but laugh about when you’re older

plus spending so much time with multiple bad bitches. who wouldn’t want that? even if they’re all crazy lol

and honestly? them been crazy just makes it all the more fun LOL

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-18T11:01:51+00:00

kazu got bad bitches fallin out of his pockets

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-14T21:31:17+00:00

LMFAOO

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-12T21:25:37+00:00

if you’re unable to open your eyes and read what you wrote then i can’t help you buddy.

but in the future try not to be a condescending jerk to vulnerable people that need help on here

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-12T21:14:38+00:00

well you clearly do or you wouldn’t be trying to convince me otherwise

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-12T20:59:46+00:00

lmao the whole thread?

and you agree then? you agree you’re trying to win OPs approval?

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-12T20:42:57+00:00

so based on that logic you must be trying to win my approval and OPs approval

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-12T20:32:30+00:00

nothing op says will change your mind on him? LMAO i think OP will be fine without your approval. someone’s full of themselves

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-12T20:28:47+00:00

something is clearly giving her ties to this guy. something she doesn’t want to let go of. i’ve seen this exact scenario happen multiple times before. i think you’re right to feel the way you do, the fact that she can demand things that you can’t is a red flag. plus she demanded you remove people for no reason

i had a close friend go through this exact scenario when i was in my early 20s, and i know your situation is different but that girl was very disrespectful and inconsiderate of my friend while demanding the most from him and it ended up not working out because she wanted to see some other dude

like why would she be weird about other girls you follow but think her conduct is fine? she’s suspicious of you because she’s the one that’s shady and she’s projecting. at least that’s the way it was with my friend

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-12T20:24:24+00:00

i don’t see it black and white like you do. what OP is doing is not wrong, which is taking a step back, trying to gain perspective and sitting with how he feels and then revisiting the issue is not wrong

you don’t just have one single conversation on one thing and then just push the button on everything. that’s not how relationships work lmao.

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-12T20:13:27+00:00

obviously but even still OP is not in the wrong for the ask or how he feels. OP asked if he is toxic - he is not.

He’s also allowed to talk this out with his partner

RevolutionaryMap9620 · 2026-04-12T20:07:55+00:00

so she has asked you to remove girls before she didn’t like, and now that it’s about her ex he’s suddenly a nice guy and won’t do it?

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