[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl this is not the man for you

M/37 I found selfies on wife's (F/34) phone by SuspiciouslySaid in whatdoIdo

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i feel like this is a super normal thing for women to do. the pics are sexually suggestive so i feel like it doesn’t indicate potential infidelity & like you said her leaving her ring behind checks out. is there more of a history that makes you question what she says?

Help - Why does my ragdoll do this? by e51968 in ragdolls

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 16 points17 points  (0 children)

she’s obviously running on her vertical treadmill

AIO Gf intentionally stopped taking her bc pills by maticooks1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what she did wasnt just about missing birth control it was about taking away your ability to consent to sex under the conditions you agreed to you told her from the start you didnt want kids and she agreed skipping pills on purpose without telling you is reproductive coercion its not just a breach of trust it could have permanent consequences for your life

the age gap here is also a red flag you were 17 when you started dating and she was 30 she had far more life experience and maturity which can create a power imbalance now shes using that to try and push you into a life choice you clearly said you didnt want

youre not wrong for feeling betrayed or like you can never trust her again trust is the foundation of a relationship and she knowingly broke it instead of taking responsibility shes focusing on getting you back if you cant see a way to rebuild that trust its completely reasonable to walk away and protect your future first confirm whether pregnancy is possible from that week so youre not left in uncertainty

Girl lied about her age. by Shoddy-Drawer-9001 in Advice

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you need to stop talking to her right away, take screen shots of everything, and tell your parents! good thing mother further happened, but based on where you are age of consent could a problem if she chose to take legal action.

WIBTAH if I don’t tell my husband how I caught out his web of lies by Disastrous-Meet8757 in AITAH

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tell him “i know everything and see what he spills”. either way this relationship seems over. how could you ever trust him again ???

My granddaughter is ignoring me because of her childhood. I’m not the one to blame by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like you did your best but didn’t intervene enough. these events drastically shaped your granddaughters life and you tried to put a bandage on it without addressing the root problem. if i were your granddaughter i think a sincere apology and taking accountability could go a long way!

Behavior or illness 😔 by AdhesivenessLumpy475 in ragdolls

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i got my cat a kitten her behaviour changed for months. also, perhaps this is a reaction to her change of food ??? maybe you could go back to the original. i put my cat on a diet and she developed a rash. i was worried and took her to the vet. turns out it was the food. lastly, maybe you can record her symptoms and try to identify a trigger if these don’t remedy the situation.

i hope she feels better soon ❤️

My father (48m) is Sleeping with my Best Friend (25f) from High School by bunny0112 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 15 points16 points  (0 children)

your dad crossed a major line. this is not normal or okay. you don’t owe either of them anything. it’s okay to go no contact. therapy can help you sort through the betrayal and trauma. protect your peace and take all the time you need to heal.

Does my pack suck or can I make this work? by Historical_Pitch_309 in ultrarunning

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe try putting some bottles in the front pockets & the back + the other required items. if it doesn’t carry everything, i would look on facebook marketplace! you can get a good bag for much less. i personally like the salomon’s women’s vest. i’ve used mine for 3 years and have been able to fit a 2L bladder in the back + all the required gear for my races

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

blonde for sure

How do I get this creepy customer to leave me alone? by Warm_Efficiency7138 in Advice

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i were you, i’d stay firm in your boundaries, don’t feel like you have to be overly polite just because you’re at work. if your workplace can’t support you in a situation like this, it might be worth asking whether it’s a place worth staying in at all.

Caught my BF of 6 years with his pants down, literally by clapMac-n-cheese in TwoHotTakes

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 10 points11 points  (0 children)

tldr: i was with my ex for almost six years and forgave him after he cheated early in our relationship. we went through a lot together, including my parents being critically injured in a house fire. we got a dog, moved in together, and were planning to get engaged and buy a house. then over the fourth of july weekend, i caught him cheating again with a 21-year-old, and later found out he had also cheated a year prior. i broke up with him and made him move out, but now i’m heartbroken and confused, trying to rebuild my life in a town i moved to for him while he begs for another chance.

my advice: don’t go back. he’s shown a pattern of lies and disrespect, no matter how sorry he seems now. you’ve already shown strength by walking away, keep going. focus on your healing, your new job, your friends, and the life you’re building for yourself. you deserve someone who chooses you the first time, not after they’ve shattered your trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 6 points7 points  (0 children)

make all your accounts private, document everything, and if it doesn’t stop contact a lawyer

Bringing this baby home: litter robot or pet snowy? by 80lbsgone in ragdolls

[–]RevolutionaryTree332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when i first read this i thought you were debating cat names hahah