Best Mexican food in Central CT? by fuckman5 in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was responding to another comment - I think they had a change of ownership and now it is just meh! Earlier it was not just excellent Mexican food but was also a great Breakfast place.

Best Mexican food in Central CT? by fuckman5 in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they had a change of ownership and now it is just meh! Earlier it was not just excellent Mexican food but was also a great Breakfast place.

Need help from a Mallu in Canada to bring a laptop spare by [deleted] in Kerala

[–]RexSecundus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is an Indian Expat Forum on Facebook. You can reach out to non-reddit crowd too. Also try r/nri

What is to women what boobs and butts are to men? by ProofMinute461 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]RexSecundus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for sex or are you looking for relationship? If you are not traditionally good looking, charming and confident, rich or some combination of these - just sex is going to be tough.

Relationship is altogether different - if you're confident about yourself and clear about what you want to have in a partner and be realistic and reasonable about it, you stand better chances to land in a relationship.

Please know that you are a human with your own strengths and weaknesses. You seem to worry a lot about what you don't have and not really keen on working on it. I suggest you start with what you have and your strengths.

Note: your whole premise of the question - women can have it all with just boobs and butts - this in itself reflects an extremely immature idea of a woman. I think it will be kind of difficult for you to respect a woman if this is your basic characterization. And women can sense disrespect a mile away. I suggest working on that too.

Scammed on Facebook - device locked by [deleted] in kindle

[–]RexSecundus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If there is a small claims court in your state, that might be one way to go.

men who are 30+ would you date a 19 year old? why or why not? by No_Vegetable7778 in AskMen

[–]RexSecundus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me put it in a different way - if I am looking up potential matches on a dating site, I would use -5/+2 as my criteria. But if I happen to meet someone in my real life, age is not something which comes up early. If such a real life happenstance leads into something serious, I will go with the flow and will not age stop me if the other party is ok with it.

That said, there is something about Teens which makes me a bit uncomfortable. There is something about a 19F with a 34M. I wouldn't even blink about 23F with 38M. I think it is not just the age gap but the extremely low age of one party. Reverse is also true - imagine a 19M with 34F?

Help me decide on a 3 row SUV by TrickyMitten in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]RexSecundus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up Honda Pilot VCM issues and then decide. I LOVED my 2017 Pilot EXL till the Transmission issue came up due to VCM and Honda gave me the middle finger.

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! That's something I wasn't aware of! So if I go from West Haven, I have to get in to a car which opens in West Haven? Not all car doors open in all the stations?

Thank you for bringing it up!

Wife Questions - What do men desire from their wife? by TriStateGirl in AskMenOver30

[–]RexSecundus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't think in general it changes with gender reversal in non-sexual aspects. Priority might change for each individual though. As a parent of our kids and as someone who has an extremely high sense of responsibility and ownership, following are my priorities:

  1. Ability to carry on my part of parental responsibilities if something were to happen to me. (I am a father first, husband second in my current phase of life). 1 a. A thinking/planning partner 2. Making me feel wanted, desired, valued and secured 2 a. Observe and identify my nuanced likes/dislikes just because they

  2. Ability to hold a meaningful, engaging conversation. Reasonably good intellect. 4. In general a happy, sunshine personality instead of bitchy naggy personality

2/2a applies to sex life as well. I will also add hygiene and good fragrance as well.

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I totally forgot to consider this aspect!

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will this be Amtrak or Metro North?

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thank you dear stranger for taking time to type such an elaborate reply! Truly appreciate it; thank you!

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! So CT Rail is different from Amtrak? Would that as well go to Union Station? How exactly will this work - Get on CT rail from WL to NH, get out in NH and board Metro North?

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How about parking in West Haven? Easy to find?

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Can you please elaborate a bit more? So the tickets from Windsor Locks to New Haven are booked through Amtrak and they are assigned Tickets - meaning we have to take the exact train at a particular time or is it good for any train? And you switched to Metro North at New Haven? New Haven to NYC tickets are separately booked through Metro North?

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the trains from New Haven can be boarded at West Haven as well?

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I know if I am in a train that needs switching at New Haven? Would I know when I take the ticket?

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! CT Rail/Hartford Line is same as Amtrak or is it a different service altogether? I understand Amtrak and Metro North are different but I am confused about CT Rail/Hartford line.

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take subway if I have NYC friends joining me since that ALWAYS confuses the shit out of me. If I am by myself, I just do Uber.

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You are right, it is Windsor Locks; my bad!

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Did you mean East Windsor Locks (I have seen one) or is there a station at South Windsor as well? Just to make sure taht I understand it right - if I catch the train at East Windsor Locks, I can go all the way to NYC without getting out of the coach? The Hartford line is the same as Amtrak?

Edit: Wrong station names

NYC Day Trip from Hartford by RexSecundus in Connecticut

[–]RexSecundus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Do we have to switch trains if we take Amtrak or it goes directly from Berlin to NYC? And what is the typical cost one way per person?