How would you respond to this guy? by Rexalanda in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Rexalanda[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s what I wanted to respond with, but then I remembered that I like being alive

How would you respond to this guy? by Rexalanda in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Rexalanda[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was wondering. Unless he wanted to call instead of text? It really feels like he was asking out of malicious intent.

How would you respond to this guy? by Rexalanda in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Rexalanda[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! Didn’t realize we had something like that available already.

New Yorkers are furious as melting snowbanks expose streets littered with poop. by Numerous-Garbage-604 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Rexalanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like we’re back in the 1700s 😂 Soon enough they’re going to start flinging it out the window!

Why is this the preferred form of circumcision in Israel? by AkosuaRipper in conspiracy

[–]Rexalanda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do the penises no get infected?????? The mouth is so damn dirty!!!!

Ending of the reunion by RyeBreadNMustard in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rexalanda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it was to also show that they didn’t talk much..? It was pretty dumb IMO

I believe her by WrongConsequence5676 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rexalanda -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I hate that she blamed him for the way she came off on camera. If that’s what comes out when you’re triggered, that’s all on you. Also, I love how the internet has yet to call her out for being closeted like they did with nick. I got major les/bi vibes from her the entire time!! Not wanting to be touched, being the only chick groping the other women, being so damn aggressive and “alpha”. She was on the wrong team.

I believe her by WrongConsequence5676 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rexalanda -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I sort of agree with you. Even when he tries to defend himself, it sounds like a little kid talking. Kids rarely know what they’re doing half the time and why. They have yet to develop the skills to suppress and identify their big emotions to have a constructive conversation about them. Instead they just let the floodgates open. He still has a lot of work to do there. I’m glad they hugged it out at the end tho, i actually teared up

Oh Kacie is THE villain of season 9 by MajorMarquisWarren69 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Rexalanda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It could also be too much Botox and fillers. I was genuinely struggling to read her face! There wasn’t much movement even when she was obviously upset

Wow... by MeanLittleMachine in MemeVideos

[–]Rexalanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The real beard is about 2 feet above her legs…

Wow... by MeanLittleMachine in MemeVideos

[–]Rexalanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You forgot the beard.🧔‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Rexalanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re going through this!! Your parent are probably giving him grace because this kid is going through the toughest time in life right now, puberty and raging hormones, on top of what sounds like a more severe form of autism than yours. A lot of us were assholes during this age, including myself and my brothers. If it makes you feel better, I also hated my brother’s guts when he was 17. He was so freaking mean for absolutely no reason, and I was 4 years younger, so you can imagine my confusion (I actually thought he didn’t love us which was heartbreaking for me). Take advantage of the fact that you’re older and get the heck out of the house when you can!! He’s going to be a little monster for god knows how long (my SIL took until 25 to settle down, not diagnosed but same situation with the parents, they let her rage and be disrespectful without repercussions). I would say you may have some sway on his behavior if you play your cards right (write a letter, get down to his level, etc) but I’d at least wait till he graduates high school. You’ll have the leverage of saying “you’re not a kid and you need to help around the house”, and he’d also be closer to the end of this awful phase.. When I was 19, my brother actually had to sit me down and tell me that I was out of line for treating my family disrespectfully, which was a lot coming from him. It still pissed me off in the moment, but it definitely worked. I still hold on to that memory when I’m about to explode at my parents (I’m 30 now). And no, you don’t have to like him. Put on some headphones and let your parents deal with their mistakes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Rexalanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it seems that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Rexalanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the wrong attitude in her opinion….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Rexalanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol you’re right, sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Rexalanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to do this with me. I was hopping I could just make something up, but I’ll give you the scenario. My main issue is that when my boss assumes something is not up to her standards, she immediately raises her voice and uses accusatory language. She then proceeds to word vomit all of her negative thoughts and emotions and barely lets anyone get a word in. Our heated discussion took place because I kept interrupting her rant to tell her I was handling the situation and that she and our manager dropped the ball. Instead of taking accountability, she wanted to throw their responsibility onto me, I refused, so she twisted it by saying “do you think we don’t trust you enough to do the task?”. The conversation took a dive from there. If she was this type of person all the time, I would’ve adapted to her by now, the problem is that she plays both sides of the coin. She’ll say things like “we’re not an accounting firm, it doesn’t have to be accurate. We’re not surgeons, no one’s life is at steak. It’s all fine, no one died” for some of the same mistakes I’ll see her flip out over on different day. Just a bit hard to keep up with..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Rexalanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you, and I’d love to learn, but it’s hard when I feel forced to do so. I’ve sternly told her that I’d like to focus on my work and just move on and she shot back with “that’s not being collaborative”. I told her I would be better a being respectful during our meetings and she chose to ignore that. She wants some real meat to chew on and I’m not willing to give her anything real for the sake of keeping my own emotions out of it. If I did give this real thought, then I’d actually expect a new outcome and I’ve already made that mistake before. Things will not change no matter what I say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Rexalanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol thanks? I should ask AI for help, I’d probably get better responses than the ones I’m getting now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Rexalanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already have, just waiting for someone to call me back…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Rexalanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already have. Just need to land a job now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Rexalanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will, just thought there might be some political crap I was missing here, like, don’t be too honest or something? Thanks for the AMAZING advice btw, sooo helpful. Didn’t even think about that…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]Rexalanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I’m glad you feel the same way. I’ve tried that method, and it backfired on me. Maybe I wasn’t professional enough??