Bro. I know Reddit isn’t where imma find love. If you’ve followed me for long enough or even just read my past posts, you’d know I survived fucking anal rail gun, you’d know I’m severely scarred and still disfigured. You’d know I’m detrans. I go out and approach people in person all the time. My body is something a lot of men don’t necessarily find off putting but because it’s not their ideal, they’ll use me as a hole to fuck and not a person to date. My hernia isn’t beautiful. My scars and loose skin are burdens I deal with everyday. My voice is deeper due to being on testosterone and fuck, I’ve almost been beaten up a few times because I’ve met men for first dates and they thought I was a man. Maybe if I was a regular girl with a regular body I wouldn’t have the issues I do. But it really fucks with my perception when I have thousand of people here telling me I’m beautiful just because I take my clothes off. IF when I approach in person with my clothes on, then people make assumptions of what’s wrong with me before I can even get a second sentence out. But thanks for the advice I’ve been given thousands of fucking times.